Buddha said: things change at will, the environment is created by the heart, and all troubles are born by the heart. Your state of mind determines your situation and destiny. Mentality affects a person's health. Negative thoughts and dissatisfaction will bring people bad emotions and even cause diseases for a long time. So an optimistic attitude can bring happiness and happiness to people.
Whether a person's situation is bitter or happy is often subjective. Bring joy to everyone, not worry about it. Mentality reflects a person's moral character and accomplishment.
Some people are satisfied with a certain life, while others are not. Therefore, people who can be content with the status quo may wish to live like this. If they can't, of course, they have to try to find another way. You can't be sure where your success lies, nor can you be sure whether you will be happy at a certain point. Retirement this year, the retirement salary is more than 2000 yuan per month. Sometimes, some people lament that I should get another job allowance. I said a little more is enough. If I retire, I will have a rest. However, some retired colleagues around me are not satisfied and feel that they have less money than when they went to work. If they want to continue re-employment, their happiness is only based on the process of constant pursuit and efforts to make money, so his goal is to keep moving into the distance. I doubt whether such people can be happy, but they may get more money, but they may also overdraw their health to get money.
Bitterness and pleasure depend on one's own perception, and are not necessarily directly related to the objective environment. Just like a woman who doesn't love jewelry, even in an environment that attaches great importance to vanity, it won't hurt her self-esteem; There are poor scholars in thousands of books who don't want to exchange diamonds or stocks with millionaires; People who are satisfied with rural life do not envy any scholar's honorary title, nor do they envy high-ranking officials for their rich salaries and fame and fortune.
Your hobby is your direction, your interest is your capital, and your temperament is your destiny. Everyone has his own ideal heaven, a flower and a world he likes to enjoy.
In classical literature and poetry, we can always see some literati envy their families. In their works, they often envy the living environment of monks and nuns in Dade and their happy life in seclusion. Since ancient times, there have been many famous monks. Looking at the Dojo of the jungle temple, it is really the best scenery, the best environment for cultivating the mind, and it is really beautiful. In this environment, we practice under the ancient Buddha in Deng Qing.
Buddha said that bitterness is not bitterness, and joy is not joy, but a temporary obsession. If you cling to an idea, you will be trapped in an idea; Once you put it down, it's in your heart. Things change at will, the environment is created by the heart, and troubles are born by the heart. Some people, some things, can't be met. In this case, relax and let nature take its course. No matter when and where, you should have a carefree heart, keep an open mind, and don't let yourself live too tired and bitter.