Through Yu Qiang's description, I know that their emotional problems are like this.
Hongya has an old customer named Chen. In order to win the favor of the old customer, Hongya went out to eat and drink with the customer. She was worried that Hongya, a girl, was drunk and afraid that drinking would hurt her stomach, so she called Hongya.
Hongya may have been a little drunk when she called, so she kept saying nothing, so she put the phone aside and didn't hang up.
And Yu Qiang suddenly heard a man's voice calling Hongya's name on the other end of the phone, asking Hongya to go to the hot springs together. At this point, Yu Qiang is a little confused. He doesn't know what to say, or even where his girlfriend is now.
But after Hongya came back, she refused to talk about "soaking in hot springs", so she broke up with Hongya directly. Hongya disagreed and finally came to Tu Lei.
In the program, Hongya wears a red strapless dress and poses obsessively, revealing a rugged figure and heavy makeup, which makes Tu Lei not only sigh that Hongya is indeed an "affectionate woman".
When Yu Qiang told this story, Hongya always acted like a little woman, pulling Yu Qiang's sleeve with her hand and repeatedly saying, "Dear, I didn't leave, I didn't leave."
At this time, Tu Lei couldn't help it. While reprimanding Hongya for letting her go and letting her stand on her own side, she strongly sighed: "That's how you ate her too much, so you endured it for three years and finally broke out. You should also make it clear to Hongya, don't do this to me. "
And the audience under the stage can't help but be dumbfounded.
Love is selfish, and it's not something to share, let alone hear your girlfriend on the phone. A man invited his girlfriend to a hot spring. I think if this happens to me, Hongya and I will be finished in an instant.
Because this has touched the bottom line of men, and what is the bottom line? Once it is touched, there is no turning back.
Admittedly, life is not simple. Hongya often goes out to socialize because of her work, establishes relationships with customers, and drinks, all in order to make a living. Everyone is like this.
However, both men and women, after all, have a bottom line, especially single women.
Tu Lei asked Hongya: "On the wine table, did any customers make excessive behavior towards you?"
Hongya murmured, "Yes, but I am in sales, and customers are very important to me."
Tu Lei concluded: "It is essentially for money and performance."
Money is really important in life. I remember someone saying:
"Money can solve 99% of things in life, and the remaining 10% money can also be alleviated."
But a true love heart can't be bought back with money, just like Yu Qiang.
I believe that Yu Qiang really loved Hongya, but she was injured again and again, waiting for her girlfriend to come home day after day, but she has been with other men, but she has always said that she hopes Yu Qiang can understand, for the sake of life.
This is typical of imposing your own problems on others.
I'm really confused. Did Hongya really fall in love with Yu Qiang as she said?
I said that love is selfish, and this selfishness is not only for your partner, but also for yourself. To put it bluntly, Hongya has been paralyzing herself with "this is a job, I can't help it", and she is also paralyzing her boyfriend in various ways to enjoy life and the love of other men. On the other hand, she hopes her boyfriend will understand and tolerate her.
I really can only "hehe" about this. Why did you take all the good things away?
The ancients always said, "A scholar dies as a bosom friend, and a woman is ashamed of herself."
Hongya's "self-entertainment" is too much, and her "capacity" is too much, so that she can't even see her true colors.
Love means getting, and it also means bearing the loss, that is, learning to lose the life you once lived. This is the gain and loss in the concept of love. Maybe the income is not as high as before, but there is a man who really loves you and has a stable future.
Isn't that what you really seek to make money?
There is nothing wrong with making money. The mistake is to forget the purpose of making money on the way to making money, and can't extricate themselves from the process of indulging in making money.
Life sometimes requires us to take part in accidental amusement, but in the face of true love, please uncover Facebook, so that people who love you can reap your sincerity when they give it to you.
Don't make excuses for yourself, love can't bear this kind of injury.
People are full of meat. If you love them, please love them deeply and love them well.
If you don't love it, then go out and turn left. Goodbye is better than forgetting.