For example, Gigi Lai, the beauty god, married Ma Tingqiang, a Hong Kong "disabled rich man", in June 5438+in October 2009, and had three daughters after marriage. In order to have a child, she changed her name to Ma Li Jiaer at the beginning of 20 17.
This can't help but remind me of those female classmates with the word "Di" in their names.
Huang Lei, for example, gave birth to two beautiful daughters in succession. When his wife was 40 years old, they gave birth to another son.
For example, Xu Ziqi, a wealthy tycoon, married Li Ka-shing and gave birth to two daughters. When she gave birth to her third child, her father-in-law Lee Shau Kee publicly said, "I hope it is a son." .
Even though she has tasted what she wants, she still has a fourth child and plans to have a fifth.
In fact, what these people want is their son's heart. Although pedantic, they are all men and women, and outsiders have nothing to say.
However, it is really hard to understand Alan Tam's behavior of making an appointment with his original wife "Dink" and having children with "Little Three" when he is old.
When it comes to Alan Tam, we have to mention the Hong Kong music scene in the 1980s.
At that time, Hong Kong pop music was in the ascendant, and many pop stars appeared.
Samuel Hui, George Lam, Danny Chan, Alan Tam, Leslie Cheung and Anita Mui. They are all palace-level artists in this period.
Under the shining stars, it not only created the heyday of Hong Kong's music scene, but also caused the fierce competition of "a hundred schools of thought contend".
Among them, Alan Tam and Leslie Cheung are the most competitive.
Behind them, there is not only competition for the interests of record companies, but also a fan war from time to time.
In order to compete, the fans of the two are in the same boat, not only going their own way, but also fighting constantly, which has even risen to physical conflict.
In the end, this "Zhang Tan hegemony" ended with Alan Tam's announcement that he would no longer receive competitive awards (1987) and Leslie Cheung's temporary farewell to music.
However, the most intriguing thing is that behind the confusion of fans, Leslie Cheung and Alan Tam are indifferent. Leslie Cheung once said in "But Listen" that Alan Tam is a friend, and Alan Tam added a good word to his friend.
No matter what their relationship is, at least it's not as hot as fans think.
However, in the past few decades, these two people who competed for the first place have completely different reputations.
Leslie Cheung has become the perfect brother that countless people miss.
Alan Tam became the reviled love rat.
1974, 24-year-old Alan Tam met a beautiful woman named Yang Jiewei while singing in a nightclub.
After several conversations, Alan Tam found that this girl is not only beautiful, but also thoughtful, so don't be too cute.
And Yang Jiewei also thinks that this man is not only handsome, but also has a dream, so don't be too special.
In this way, two people look at me, I look at you, and small lightning in my eyes keeps coming out.
Soon after, the two began to secretly associate.
At that time, Alan Tam had just formed wynners with Zhong Zhentao, Chen You, Peng Jianxin and Danny Yip, and he was still a nobody in the entertainment circle.
Compared with Alan Tam, whose career has just started and her future is uncertain, Yang Jiewei has a decent and stable job.
At this time, she is working as a beauty consultant in a cosmetics company. She has good aesthetics and fashion, and has her own unique views on image design.
However, after being with Alan Tam, she resolutely quit her job to concentrate on being the woman behind Alan Tam, and she did it perfectly.
In order to cooperate with Alan Tam's career development and realize his musical dream, she studied stage knowledge such as lighting control, dance design and choreography, and switched to art planning.
In order not to affect Alan Tam's future career development, she kept a low profile. Although they have been together for many years, they have never been openly in love.
The young couple, one in front of the stage and the other behind the scenes, cooperated with each other to make Alan Tam's career flourish.
Later, wynners disbanded, and after solo flight, Alan Tam went to Taiwan Province Province to develop and released his first Cantonese album "R Us Stars", which won a gold record award.
198 1 year, Alan Tam released the third Cantonese album "I can't forget you", which won four platinum in one fell swoop (before 2008, one platinum represented the sales of 50,000 records in the Hong Kong music scene), making Alan Tam a hot first-line singer.
Also in this year, Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei got married secretly in the United States.
Alan Tam, whose career is in full swing, naturally cannot announce the marriage announcement. So thousands of his fans don't even know that their idol is married.
In this way, they hid their marriage for more than ten years until Yang Jiewei's father died in 1993. According to tradition, when the word "Alan Tam" was published in the obituary, the relationship between them became public.
From 1974 to 1993, Yang Jiewei gambled on his youth and silently accompanied Alan Tam from an unknown boy to a superstar. Nearly 20 years of patience and dedication showed her loyalty to Alan Tam.
Not only that, the Hong Kong media also broke the news that in order to enjoy life better, Alan Tam and his wife agreed to have a "Dink". In the end, Yang Jiewei was unable to have children because of repeated miscarriages.
It is precisely because they have never had children that this foreshadowed a series of misfortunes that Yang Jiewei later faced.
At a fan meeting, Alan Tam met a fan who was nearly 20 years younger than himself.
So, he began to cheat on his wife and small fans.
At first, the two were just in telephone contact, and later they rose to emotional communication, which made the woman pregnant.
Alan Tam decided to have the baby after consulting with her lover.
After all, at that time, Alan Tam was over forty years old, with a successful career, rich family, a bright future, a good wife and a beautiful woman in the dark. The only regret in his life is that he has fewer sons.
1996, Zhu Yongting gave birth to a son for Alan Tam.
At this time, Alan Tam knew that he could no longer hide his bad things, so he confessed to his wife Yang Jiewei.
This news is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for Yang Jiewei.
For more than twenty years, she devoted herself to Alan Tam and never lived for herself.
However, her husband, in another woman, opened a new world and gave birth to an illegitimate child.
This is equivalent to completely denying Yang Jiewei's life.
What is done is done. Yang Jiewei, who devoted himself to the Buddha, felt that God's will was hard to violate. In order not to let the baby lose her father's love, and in order not to let Alan Tam be in a dilemma, she chose to endure and accept the fact.
In order to thank his wife for her understanding, Alan Tam respected Yang Jiewei everywhere and put the financial power of the family in her charge.
In this way, the "proper" life of monogamy in Alan Tam ended. One is sitting in the main room, taking care of the family wealth wholeheartedly, and the other is a secluded, single-minded husband and wife.
For a long time, two women knew each other's existence, but because they were different, they never crossed paths. Out of sight, out of mind.
This "harmonious" day has passed 10 years, during which I enjoyed the happiness of Qi people with a clear conscience.
Although Yang Jiewei suffers from loneliness and disappointment, at least she is the only publicly recognized wife in Alan Tam, and she still holds the financial power of the family, which is finally a little comforting.
And this comfort is all her nostalgia for this rolling world of mortals.
Unfortunately, Alan Tam didn't even leave her this nostalgia.
In 2006, Alan Tam's father died of illness. In order to clear the name of his mistress Zhu Yongting and illegitimate child Tan Xiaofeng, he publicly acknowledged their existence regardless of his personal reputation.
Not only that, Zhu Yongting's name also appeared in Alan Tam's father's obituary.
Why did Alan Tam dare to do this? Why are you doing this?
This is undoubtedly accepted and even supported by family members.
Alan Tam was born in Hongkong on August 1950. He has two sisters in the world and three sisters in the world. He is the only boy in the family.
And his son, who can be said to be the only descendant of the Tan family, how can he not let his grandson go to the end when his grandfather dies?
And the woman who gave birth to this grandson naturally surfaced.
A shady "mistress", "mistress" and "meddlesome" person who went to her father-in-law's funeral with justification has seriously threatened her position in the Tan family.
Moreover, Alan Tam, who loves his son, began to gradually transfer his personal property to his son's name, taking away Yang Jiewei's last sense of security.
He even publicly stated that he only had a good impression on Yang Jiewei and would deal with personal marriage problems as soon as possible.
At this moment, Yang Jiewei really realized that her husband had been robbed, and she was an unnecessary outsider.
What you ask for all your life is empty in an instant, and the love of your life will eventually belong to her.
Yang Jiewei is becoming more and more indifferent to the world of mortals and devotes himself to Buddhism. Finally, I moved to Zhilian Jingyuan in Diamond Hill, Hong Kong, and devoted myself to practice.
With Yang Jiewei's pessimism, Alan Tam and Zhu Yongting became closer and closer.
What "marital infidelity" and "mistress superior", these things have completely affected his enjoyment of family happiness.
On the solstice of the winter of 2007, Alan Tam openly took Zhu Yongting and her mother, who were over eighty, to eat in Causeway Bay. It runs very happily in the family.
On June 5438+065438+ 10, 2008, the Hong Kong media reported that Yang Jiewei had a haircut practice and fled into an empty net.
Yang Jiewei's withdrawal undoubtedly eased Alan Tam's anxiety, so that he could finally relax and enjoy his family.
20 1 1 year, Alan Tam took advantage of the birthday party of 6 1 to straighten his lover Zhu Yongting, and his son Tan Xiaofeng was no longer the so-called illegitimate child.
At this point, whether in name or in fact, his marriage with his original wife for more than 30 years has completely ended.
For all the Tan family, this is undoubtedly the best ending.
Unfortunately, behind everyone's laughter, what is hidden is the despair under the ancient Buddha in Yang Jiewei.