The reason is that when Moka Fang returned to Shanghai with his two children, he was found to have taken economy class by an eagle-eyed netizen.
As a result, the whole network once again triggered doubts about the status quo of her and Aaron Kwok.
The first is to clarify that her economy class has nothing to do with emotional changes, but is a personal choice;
The second is the acquiescence to her concept of people-friendly consumption.
From this, it seems that Moka Fang doesn't think it's indecent to sit in economy class, but he has a normal mind about it.
In fact, there is a long-standing difference in consumption between the glamorous sister-in-law Moka Fang and the winner Aaron Kwok. This economy class incident is only the concentrated outbreak of the tip of the iceberg.
20 15 Their love affair went public.
Get married on 20 17.
In less than two years, Moka Fang has given birth to two women, and it is said that she is now chasing three children.
Although you are a heavenly king's wife, you can't see the luxury brought by the change of identity in Moka Fang.
Before getting married, Aaron Kwok took Moka Fang shopping in Hongkong and bought some small things like false eyelashes.
Moka Fang once wanted a Hermes bag with a price of 654.38 million yuan, so Aaron Kwok almost broke up with her.
When she got married, Aaron Kwok didn't give the bride price money to her family. He bought himself a suit of HK$ 300,000 and chose a low-grade wedding dress of RMB 20,000 for Moka Fang.
Moka Fang wedding shoes are just a pair of basic commuter shoes, and the price is around 4,000 yuan.
Wedding reception 1500 yuan/table, but there were only ten tables for the banquet that day. The wedding scene is really too simple.
It is understandable if Aaron Kwok, like Chow Yun Fat, has always pursued a simple concept of consumption.
Chow Yun Fat donated 5.6 billion yuan, but insisted on subway travel.
However, Aaron Kwok is a real luxury lover and collector.
He was awarded the title of "Ferrari Honorary Driver" for collecting more than 10 Ferraris;
Do not hesitate to buy a super-run limited to 500 vehicles worldwide;
Hong Kong media said that Moka Fang gave 200,000 yuan a month for family food and clothing and children's education allowance, but his monthly consumption was as high as nearly 700,000 yuan;
Of course, everyone has different views on consumption and has the right to dispose of personal property, while others have nothing to say.
What's more, Aaron Kwok has always adhered to the concept of light emotional input.
When Xiong Dailin and I were in love, we all said that gifts were only for daily necessities;
On Xiong Dailin's birthday, he only received the words "Auld Lang Syne";
It came out to see the mansion together and ended up "smashing 30 thousand" to rent a house.
Even Xiong Dailin's friends spit out: "(Xiong Dailin and Aaron Kwok are only together) free concert tickets, and you don't have to pay for dinner together."
In this way, they fell in love for seven years. As a result, Aaron Kwok finally left her marriage to Moka Fang, who had been dating for more than a year.
In this regard, he responded: a partner is like a shoe, which fits the foot and is comfortable to wear.
These words are inevitably criticized in the era when women's values are rising day by day.
However, Moka Fang regarded this stingy Aaron Kwok, who was older than his father, as a treasure.
During the period of love, Moka Fang fell in love with her, and in less than two years, she took the position of sister-in-law.
This is not a lucky mistake, or two people get married because of passion. More importantly, this is Moka Fang's stable model after weighing the pros and cons.
After Xiong Dailin, Aaron Kwok chose Moka Fang, a little-known model on the 18 line, because in his eyes, Moka Fang was sensible enough.
He publicly commented on Moka Fang more than once: "She doesn't love money, but cares about me. She is a good girl. "
In order to maintain Aaron Kwok's image as a good wife and mother, Moka Fang also made corresponding sacrifices.
At a young age, she gave birth to two women in less than two years, and even gave birth to a caesarean section in advance for her mother-in-law's auspicious time;
When Aaron Kwok went to America to sing, she stayed at home with her baby.
Eat more than 200 northeast dishes and insist on packing leftovers;
Cook in person and learn to cook Hong Kong meals;
Large and small festivals never need jewelry brand bags, and a bunch of flowers is enough to be happy.
Never coquetry hype, all centered on Aaron Kwok, so well-intentioned, really touched Guo Tianwang.
On his birthday, Aaron Kwok rarely showed his love in Weibo, which was a positive response to Moka Fang's efforts.
Therefore, netizens really don't have to feel aggrieved for Moka Fang. After all, she knows the situation better than anyone. The reason why she saw the truth of marriage clearly and still went forward bravely was that she chose benevolence.
Moka Fang was originally a little model of an ordinary family without a name.
After soaring to "Wang Sao", her business value soared, completely realizing the class leap.
Just like Xiong Dailin, who was originally a model, entered the entertainment circle from the fashion circle through the east wind of love.
The catwalk appearance fee soared from several thousand dollars to six figures, and gained popularity with many films such as Ip Man and The Strongest Story.
Besides these indirect money gifts, the "identity bonus" is the reason that attracts Moka Fang to Aaron Kwok.
This is also a balance between Moka Fang and Aaron Kwok in this seemingly compromised marriage.
In this regard, a netizen's comment hit the nail on the head: Moka Fang's economy class is not a problem that she has money or not.
However, this is just a way for her to maintain the status of a rich woman between her and Aaron Kwok.
I was deeply impressed by a description of marriage:
Choosing a person to get married is like picking a bucket to hold water;
Each piece of wood that makes up a bucket is different in length, and each piece of wood represents one of the other's characteristics, such as fame and fortune, talent, appearance, personality, social status and so on.
If you choose the longest board, you must accept that it has a short board.
Whenever you complain that this short board makes you carry a heavy load, just look at that long board and think about the happiness and joy it brings you, and you will remember your original intention of choosing to enter marriage.
Therefore, there is never a perfect marriage or a perfect partner in this world. The so-called good marriage is just a choice and compromise after seeking benevolence.
You get what you want, you have to give up something you can't get accordingly.
Only by understanding the incompleteness of sexual relations can we get a perfect marriage as much as possible, and everyone has his own answer to the definition of perfection.
It is difficult for us to judge whether Moka Fang's choice is right or wrong. Can only say that "still together" has proved the stability of this relationship. Whether it is reasonable or not depends on the wishes of the parties themselves.
Xiong Dailin, also a woman who endured behind the king of heaven, decided to go back on the road after several years.
However, Moka Fang, the current heavenly king's sister-in-law, is still moving forward step by step according to the life planned by Aaron Kwok.
As to which method is the most suitable, everyone has his own judgment standard.
If you want to stay dormant, you must be willing to pay. Just like Cheng Lisha is to Guo Xiaodong, everyone says that she was brainwashed by Durban, but she responded to all questions with "I love Guo Xiaodong".
Energy Jun doesn't want to advocate this kind of emotional view, but just wants to say: only if a person is willing to pay, will he not feel sorry for himself, resent or be jealous in years of sacrifice. If so, he will only set his own cage and be killed by a relationship.
More importantly, it turns out that Cheng Lisha didn't just talk about giving love. She seems to be passive, and it is the woman who holds the emotional initiative.
In many emotional relationships, there are many partners who pay;
But when you see through the scenery, you will find that there is a certain balance behind all the efforts.
Only by understanding this emotional truth as soon as possible will we not suffer in vain in our feelings.
Of course, with the rise of women's values, many women began to break away from the relationship of giving and start another life, but this kind of life also needs the efforts of being thoroughly remoulded.
In a program "The Speaker", a former tycoon, Kuotai, described his road to transformation.
In the past, she slept naturally every day, attending beauty spa in the afternoon and attending various fashion banquets in the evening. She can travel when she is free, but it seems to be an enviable life and a humiliation of personality.
Her husband's casual abuse and disrespect made her finally choose a divorce.
But life is not as easy as she imagined. After leaving her ex-husband, she was once so poor that she couldn't even pay her children's tuition.
But once she decides to start, she won't go back easily. Through hard work, she finally gained her personality independence from economic independence. Now, she is still beautiful. What she bought at buy buy is just the life she wants, and no one needs to pay for it.
Therefore, no life is easy, and no relationship can have both.
If you want to maximize the value of feelings at this stage, you must learn to seek psychological balance;
To live a wonderful life, you must stand the test.
You know, the so-called humble forbearance is just another kind of sober cruelty, and eating salted fish is thirsty.
In marriage, we always have various expectations, and this is sometimes the source of our unhappiness.
Because marriage can never meet all our inner needs, it is just a kind choice.
In order to get a choice, we must give up all the choices.
And after getting what we want most, we should accept what we can't get. This is the password for a happy marriage.
So there is no unified answer to the quality of marriage. The key is whether you can see your real needs clearly. As long as this marriage can satisfy you, it is your best choice.