Wang hong:

Hello!

I feel very sad after reading your letter. Your classmates are alienated from you for a reason. Before attending the birthday party, you promised to go to his house for his birthday, but you didn't go, leaving a bad impression on the birthday party. This is why you are lonely. Wang hong, here are some suggestions for you. I hope you can accept them and try them.

First of all, before you say yes, you should call your parents and ask their permission. If you don't agree, politely refuse him: "I'm sorry, my parents don't agree." Next time, sorry. "

Second, if you promised, you didn't get permission to go home. At this time, you should call the birthday girl: "Sorry, I can't go this birthday. I have something to do. Please understand me. I am really sorry. " There must be some apologies in your tone, so that your classmates can understand you.

Third, if your classmates have alienated you, what should you do at this time? Students alienate you, you must never alienate your classmates! When those students need help, you can take the initiative to help them; If they didn't do well in the exam, they went over to comfort them and explain the wrong questions to them seriously. Their friend fell down and got hurt, so he quickly picked them up and sent them to the infirmary for the doctor to help him dress up and apply medicine. When a classmate is sad and happy, they can share it together. You can share joys and sorrows. If a classmate forgets something, you can take the initiative to lend it to him ... In short, do your best to make the rainbow bridge of friendship between you and your friends rise again, and let the light of friendship reappear, never part and never break up.

If you help others for a long time, gradually, some classmates will start to play with you, so you should seize this good opportunity. At the sports meeting, you showed your great strength and tried your best to win prizes. Your classmates will admire you. Because you won the honor for the class, the friendship between classmates will reappear; Donation of love, you donate more, make your classmates sit up and take notice ... The rainbow of friendship between classmates will be set up in this bit by bit, the flowers of friendship will begin to bloom, and you will have more and more friends. Alienating your birthday classmates and inseparable friends will make up with you. At this time, you will no longer be lonely. The chain of friendship will be longer and longer, binding you and your friends more and more tightly.

I hope you can adopt these four suggestions. If you use these four suggestions, I hope you will make more and more friends.

wish you

Healthy and happy

A person who answers letters in the reader's letter column

May 18