1. Do we want children? If so, who will take care of the children, mainly grandparents or grandparents?

2. Who is in charge of money at home? Do you want to set up an account? How much money should we deposit every month? How much to spend must be discussed with the other half.

3. If our extended family needs money, what kind of money can we afford, and do we need the consent of the other half before using it? Seven aunts' relatives need money, shall we give them?

4. How to solve the problem of both sides supporting the elderly? Besides pensions, do the elderly on both sides still need our subsidies? If necessary, how much should we subsidize?

5. Bride price and dowry. Can our two families talk it over and fully understand and make concessions? Is there a bottom line between us that the other side can't reach?

6. Can our future marriage be settled through consultation between the two of us? To what extent will our parents interfere and interfere in our marriage? Can we let the older generation interfere in our family affairs?

7. What should I do in my social circle after marriage? Can you accept each other's social circles? Do I have any friends who should stay away from our marriage?

8. What should I do if I want to take my parents over after I get married? Would you like to live with my parents?

9. When I have a conflict with your extended family, can you promise to handle the problem from an objective perspective? Even, can you promise to give priority to the interests of our family?

10. If your job changes in the future, will you ask me to move away with you? Can you still maintain this marriage if you live in a different place?

1 1. Is there anything you won't give up even if you get married? Do you have any wishes that have been kept in your heart and will never come true after marriage?

12. Tell me frankly, is there anything you have been keeping from me, whether it is emotional, physical or health?

13. Will the unpleasantness, disputes and contradictions in our past love experiences be repeated in life? Do we really have to put the past behind us and start married life?

14. What shortcomings do you think may affect our future marriage? If so, what makes you think we can get married?

15. What do you think of this marriage? Will it last? What is your absolute limelight in this marriage?