2. Bridal gifts: Usually, the bride price of the man can be divided into six simple bride prices or twelve grand bride prices, which are sent to the woman's home.
3. Banquet ceremony: How much is the banquet prepared by the woman's family for the man's family? Pay with the cash in the gift bag.
4. Gifts for the matchmaker: Gifts for the matchmaker are essential, and the specific amount is agreed with the woman, as long as it is more than the woman.
Usually before engagement, jewelry is indispensable for the engagement ceremony. The types of engagement jewelry are selected according to the preferences of newlyweds. Usually rings, necklaces, bracelets, earrings and the like.
6. Preparation of the man's relatives and friends group: On the day of engagement, the man should have 6 relatives and friends or 10 or 12 people to go to the woman's house.
The ritual flow on the day of engagement
The following ceremonies belong to the old times, and there may be such customs in some areas. Please refer to them appropriately:
1. The man offered sacrifices to his ancestors and asked them to bless the happiness of this marriage.
2. Set out, go to the woman's house according to the agreed number of people and six concierge cars, and be served by the elderly relatives and friends of the man's house.
3. When the motorcade hired by the talented man arrives at the woman's house about 100 meters, both men and women set off firecrackers to greet each other, and the groom should wash and wipe his hands when he enters the door, and the groom should return the red envelope to thank him.
The bride-to-be with sweet tea, accompanied by the matchmaker, presents sweet tea to the relatives and friends of the man who came to apply for the job.
5. Press tea ou, the man's guests put red envelopes and teacups on the bride's tea tray, commonly known as "press tea ou".
Step on the stool. The bride-to-be will be led out by the woman, sitting in a high chair in the hall, with her feet on a small stool and facing the door. If it is superfluous, it will meet inward.
7. Wear a ring. The groom took out a gold ring and a silver ring tied with a red line, and put them on the middle finger of the bride's right hand to show their eternal union. Mother-in-law will also put necklaces and earrings on the bride at this time.
8. Burn the cannon, and when it's over, the woman will set off firecrackers to congratulate you.
9. The woman's house holds a banquet to entertain the man's guests and matchmaker. After the banquet, the man will give the woman a red envelope to "press the table".
10. After the banquet, the man should leave as soon as possible and should not stay long. At the same time, when the man goes home, he must not say goodbye to the other party.