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Do I have to stick to a fragmented marriage?
He and I work in the shop every day, and we know whether we have money or not. We can't even get the money for wedding photos, let alone the ring. His parents gave me 8 thousand, saying it was for wedding photos and rings. I don't feel well. It's far from what they told me at the beginning, and I have no way out, so I can only crustily skin of head and move forward. Take a wedding photo and choose a ring. (And he is 29 years old, with nothing but a 65438+ 10,000 Buick Excelle. And his parents gave him half the money for this car, which made me even more angry. )

My parents said we were married. His parents have four children, two daughters and two sons. My sister and I are the only two people in my family. His parents said that he should be adopted by his wife, and they also said a lot of good things to my father. Unexpectedly, he was adopted by his wife. On February 28th of the same year, we got married. Marriage is also very wronged, nothing, (his parents simply decorated a room in their hometown house), our wedding room is in our hometown. Each family is responsible for the wedding reception. If there is nothing, it is just a kind of enjoyment. If there is nothing, it will be in a fog. Wedding night: He said this to me, "I didn't expect my parents really didn't want me. You can't leave me. " I didn't expect it now: he told me about the divorce.

I have a bad temper, but what about you? What about you? In the first year, I was pregnant, too. I washed the car and cleaned the car with my stomach until the day I gave birth. My mother thought I was wrong and asked me to rest, but she wouldn't let me do it. What happened? He thinks I'm faking it, and I have no heart at all. It was a little cold that day, so I let him shake the bedding. Because he just changed the thick bedding, I didn't get used to sleeping last night, and I'm going to have a baby soon. So the next morning, I asked him to shake the bedding again. I said it once that morning and at noon. In the evening, after I finished eating and taking a shower, he and his cousin and mother sat at the computer watching TV. I stood behind him and said I wanted to sleep. He didn't respond, so I had bad breath and a loud voice. "You can shake the bedding."

He turned his head. "You bark like a dog. What's your name? Have something to say, I can't say it well. You reply to me in front of my mother and cousin. "

I said, "I didn't say that. Said it in the morning, said it at noon, and washed it at night. It was so cold that I stood behind you for five or six minutes. Have you ever moved? " I'm not feeling well today, okay? I'm afraid to buy anything I want to eat or drink when I'm married and pregnant with you, because we still owe the rent of 1. 1.00 million because of raising money, the baby is going to be born soon, the hospital needs money, I'm confined to my confinement, who will look after the store, and so on. "I am very wronged, and my eyes are full of flowers. What am I looking for? As a result, the rent owed that year was collected by my parents and given to us. Let's pay the rent.

I remember not long after I got married: my mother said in front of us, "I will leave you alone." Yes, his mother made it. His parents never asked me about confinement, raising children, buying a house and everything in the store. Where's my home? We haven't had a happy holiday every year since we got married. Because I can't bear to close the door, I have a day off on New Year's Day every year. At other times, we spend it in the shop. Everyone in our line of work knows that Chinese New Year is the busiest time. In order to earn more money, my family works from 30 to 4 pm every year and goes to work the next day. What about usual? We are in the county seat, not far from our hometown. We go out early and come back late. My mother gets up at 4 o'clock every morning to cook, and then goes to the fields to grow vegetables. In order to save us some money to buy food, she gets up early and works in my shop during the day, cleaning cars and washing cars. Wait all, my family has done too much for us, and what about him? We take it for granted that when there is no business in the store, we play mobile phones, read novels, play games and watch pornography. We have quarreled many times about these things. I have done many things for him, such as breaking his cell phone, throwing things at him, throwing his clothes outside, telling him to get out of my house, scolding him and so on. I can't stand his attitude towards me, indifference, indifference. He can't stand me either. After a long time, he got bored. What I want is to be able to see the future, hope and hope. He can encourage me and comfort me when I am depressed. The result is disappointment again and again. In five years, we have paid 65,438+million, as well as the things in the store. House: My parents just bought it this year and gave me 300,000 yuan. My sister borrowed 1.4 million, and we took 1.4 million ourselves. I didn't expect this to happen now. We signed a divorce agreement, but we haven't formally gone through the divorce formalities, because both sides are very concerned about their children and parents. Current situation: We are going our separate ways. We run a car decoration and auto repair shop. He also explicitly said to me: "In July, 3 1 said" if I can live, I will divorce. ""On August 2nd, he put the money he earned into his pocket, regardless of his account. ""August 17, I couldn't help asking him why he didn't pay the bill. " He said that the money for car repair and maintenance would go to him, and the money for car washing would go to me. That's all, and so is he in the meantime. ""I'm angry that you gave me five years' salary and my family is helping you. Let's pay. I left, and he said he had no money. "On August 2 1 day, he gave me a piece of paper," Give me the car wash money, give him the mortgage money, give him the rent money, and return my mother 3000 yuan. "On August 22nd, that's what I did. What should I do? What should I do? Can't you live this life? Do I deserve it? Do I deserve it?

I can't write anymore. I don't feel well. I have nothing to get married. I have been with him for five years, but I got this sentence. During this period, I felt that I was worthless and could no longer deceive myself, so I sought comfort, registered a Taobao shop, bought my own products, and had the income and ability to get rid of this anger. I hope netizens can give me some help.

My Taobao shop: Happy Car Maintenance Center. I sell engine oil, which is guaranteed to be genuine.

My mother is illiterate in the countryside. My child is in the middle class and will go to primary school in two years. I don't have a house yet. I can't afford a mortgage of 4,000 yuan a month, and I can't afford to rent a house with my children. I couldn't bear to leave my child with my mother, so I went out to work. It's not good for children. The baby is cute and lively. I don't want her to lose this lively happiness, so I accept his proposal, but be a strong mother. Instead of pinning your hopes on him, give yourself hope. You are your own support.