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Touch the dragon, a model of a good father! what do you think?
In 265 BC, Zhao Xiang, king of Qin, continued to expand his territory eastward and sent generals to attack Zhao, thus capturing the three cities of Zhao in one fell swoop.

As Wang Zhao is newly established, Empress Zhao is in charge of government affairs. In order to cope with this crisis, Zhao had to send someone to Qi for help. A: It is necessary for Zhao Gongzi to be a hostage in Qi, and we will send troops together. Empress Zhao refused, and Qi did not send reinforcements.

For the sake of national security, Zhao's ministers have repeatedly persuaded him to let go. Empress Zhao was very angry and resolutely disagreed.

She also openly said to the left and right attendants: If anyone takes An Jun hostage again, I will spit in his face, and the ministers are helpless. With the invasion of foreign enemies, Zhao's border crisis is imminent, and ministers can't convince the Queen Mother. For the sake of national security, the old minister touched the dragon and had to go into battle in person.

So I went to find Queen Zhao. Empress Zhao thought that Mo Long also sent Chang Qi, so she was very angry. She waited for him to come in. I don't know if my head is really old or pretending to be old. Touchong came slowly, sat on the ground and said, "My legs and feet are not good. I haven't visited the Queen Mother for a long time, and I am worried that she is not feeling well, so I came to visit the Queen Mother. " .

Empress Zhao said: I am old, and now I can only move by cart.

Touching the dragon, I asked: Has the Queen Mother's appetite also decreased? The queen mother said that I can only drink porridge now, and the unhappiness on my face eased a little.

Touching the dragon, he said, "My youngest son's name is Shu Qi, and he is a loser. I like this son best. I want him to be the black guard in the palace so that he can support himself in the future. " .

The queen mother said, yes, how old is he? Touching the dragon, I said: I 15 years old. Although I am still young, I want to make arrangements before old bones is buried. The queen mother asked curiously: Do you men know how to love your son?

The dragon replied: Men hurt their sons more than you women! The queen mother smiled and said, forget it, or we women love our son more! He touched the dragon and said, "No, no, Empress Dowager, you love your daughter more than your son." . The queen mother said: you are wrong! I love my daughter Yan Hou far less than my son.

Touched dragon said: parents love their children and should make long-term plans for them. The first time you sent Yan to get married, the queen mother grabbed her hand and burst into tears. She was very sad at the thought of going to the distant state of Yan. After Yan left, you missed her very much, but when you came to sacrifice, you prayed,' Don't let anyone return her.' Isn't this her long-term plan, hoping that her offspring will be king in Yan?

The queen mother nodded and said yes, that's right. The dragon said with emotion: from now until three generations ago, our descendants were sealed. Is there an heir in the job now? The queen mother replied: No.

Touching the dragon said: that is to say, if it is near, the disaster will affect itself; Far away, I hurt my children and grandchildren. Did the prince surnamed Hou lose the election? Just because of their high status, no military service, good salary and no labor, they enjoyed a lot of wealth of the country.

Now, the Queen Mother has raised the status of her youngest son Chang, giving him fertile land, beautiful houses and jewels and enjoying wealth, but not letting him contribute to the country. Once you die, how can you stand on your own feet in Zhao?

The queen mother suddenly realized, "well, I'll leave it to you! So the Queen Mother ordered people to prepare 120 cars for Chang 'an as hostages. Qi immediately sent troops and heard about it.

This story was learned in our junior high school textbook. At that time, the teacher told me that Toulong constantly adjusted the tone and way of speaking by observing the change of Empress Zhao's expression, and finally persuaded Empress Zhao to change her original intention and let her youngest son often go to Qi as a hostage, thus saving Zhao's border crisis!

The wisdom of moving the dragon not only helped Zhao solve the crisis, but also made his son. Mo Long's youngest son is 15 years old. He is getting old. What should he do if one day he leaves? This is his biggest headache.

Only when Qin invaded Zhao, no one said anything about moving the Queen Mother. Touch the dragon to seize this unique opportunity, close to the queen mother, can solve the crisis faced by Zhao and solve the employment problem of his youngest son in the future. This is really killing two birds with one stone.

The invasion of Qin was a bad thing for Zhao, but it was an opportunity for me. Da Zhilong seized this opportunity and successfully solved his son's employment problem. It shows that Touchdragon is a very prepared person, and he always seizes the opportunity to achieve the people he loves! This is where he is smart!

From the father's point of view, touching the dragon is also a model of a qualified father. In our reality, many parents think that after giving birth, it is enough to let him go to school, give him money to spend and not worry about eating and drinking!

In fact, this is not enough. As the saying goes, I will help you get on the horse and give you a ride. In this sentence, "Touching the Dragon" really played to the extreme. Zhao's minister, but his son is not. He hopes that his son will appear in court like him in the future. So when he 15 years old, create conditions for him to be sent directly to the palace as a black guard. He came into contact with the newly established Wang Zhao. With this relationship, his youngest son naturally doesn't have to worry about his future wealth.

Touching the dragon really did a lot of homework for his son's future. As a parent, my personal feeling should be to learn from dragons. If a child can be assigned to an important post after graduating from college, he should be assigned to them as soon as possible, and don't let him go out to the world in person, because opportunities are really hard to get! Touching the dragon is to seize the opportunity to send the youngest son to the palace. If Qin doesn't attack Zhao, Mo Long may lose this chance!

What do you think of this? This is just my personal opinion. Please forgive me if you feel bad. You can also talk about your own views. Welcome to comment!