One is to train one's right-hand man, and the other is to marry one's husband when necessary, so as to stabilize one's official position. In TV series, we can often see that when a young lady from a big family in ancient times got married, the family not only used gold and silver jewelry to accompany her, but also often prepared a beautiful young maid to marry with her. In fact, there is a reason for this.

First of all, the marriage at that time was the words of parents' matchmakers. Before getting married, the bride was not familiar with everything in the man's family, so taking a few family members is also to give herself courage and facilitate them to serve herself. After all, in a strange environment, it is better to have familiar people to accompany you. And generally, after marriage, the bride has to take over the rights of the housekeeper. At this time, it is very important to have a few caring people around her, which is convenient for her to work for information and share the fatigue of the housekeeper.

In addition, we all know that in ancient times, men could have three wives and four concubines. Besides their wives, many men also have concubines in their backyards, and sometimes even spoil their wives. In order to avoid this situation to a certain extent, the wife will personally choose a concubine for her husband, and the servant girl not only grew up together, but also has her deed of sale in her hand, which is better to control. Even if she is favored in the future, she should respect herself.

Therefore, in ancient times, when rich ladies got married, they always brought a maid to marry them, and even some families prepared candidates when their daughters were very young. Not only should you choose the ones that look good, but you should also be clean and easy to control. In the days to come, you won't assign dirty work to the maids. The maids have to learn how to be concubines and how to please men every day, all to prepare for your young lady's stable life.