Some friends may not have seen "Magic Night". Here is a brief introduction to the story:
Manya also killed his uncle in the chaos after the earthquake, because his uncle actually thought of his father's insurance money on the night of his father's funeral. This kind of robbery in troubled waters made Ya feel desperate. Ya also killed her uncle, which happened to be seen by a woman named Xinhai. This charming women Ya covered up the murder, and since then, she has caught the handle of Ya. She went to Tokyo with Ya in the name of love, and began to manipulate Ya and others in her life and work to achieve her goals. Ya also lost her soul and was manipulated to do many illegal and even murderous things. Until he finally died in such a tragic fate, he lamented: Xinhaimeidong, you killed people and you killed my soul.
The story is far more complicated and wonderful than this. One of the more important clues is the revelation of Mei Dong's identity in 1911. Today, I want to share with you Yaye's lines and the people manipulated by Mei Dong in 1911. These techniques are not unique in the novel. We live in the real world and are manipulated in this way. Sure enough, art comes from life. To sum up, I think there are mainly three kinds of manipulation in the world.
The first kind of manipulation: manipulation of sex;
Sex is a beautiful emotional expression between men and women, but it has become a weapon to manipulate others.
In the story, Xinhaimeidong manipulated many people with sex and love, and the first one was Yaya. Xinhai and Yaya also talked many times in their stories that sex is a weapon to manipulate and control others. Of course, Mei Dong said that she and Ya Ya are the embodiment of love, which in itself is just a statement that she manipulated Ya Ya. Every once in a while, or when she has something illegal to do, she will find Yaya, comfort Yaya with sex and then give him instructions to do it. Even in order to achieve her goal, she didn't object to Ya having sex with other women at all, and even instructed Ya to control her elder sister-in-law with sex to achieve her desired goal.
The second person she manipulated was Hamanaka, the head of the jewelry floor of the mall. She used sex to let Hamanaka help her make jewelry layers from other commodity layers at the lower level, and also stole Hamanaka's novel jewelry design scheme from sex to seek wealth behind her back. Afterwards, she wanted to get rid of the unsuccessful design of Binzhong Road and framed him, and refused to admit her relationship with Binzhong Road in front of the police. Finally, Nomi Hamanaka lost his good job, his whole family and his so-called decent dignity. . .
In the real society, it is often heard that there is basically no proper relationship between men and women, whether she/he controls the other party or the other party or others controls him/her. In short, it is very common. We often hear that honey traps and the like are conspirators trying to manipulate the target characters with sex to achieve their own goals. In "in the name of people", Gao, an outstanding party and government cadre, also won Zhao Ruilong with a honey trap, and then embarked on the road of helping him violate the rules and regulations. It is often reported on the Internet that someone ran away after being cheated by the opposite sex. . . The reason why sex can manipulate people is mainly to use people's instinct as animals. I think there is no other way but law and personal self-discipline.
The second kind of manipulation: manipulating money;
We often see many financial P2P scams and investment scams, claiming that many people will be deceived by the ridiculously high rate of return; There are also many people who have been dragged down by bribes; Everything in "Magic Night" comes from the fact that Yaya's uncle thinks that Yaya's father owes him money. Now that he is dead, he can pay back the money with the insurance money. Yaya also wants to get back the so-called iou, and impulsively raises a brick and throws it at her uncle. These are tragedies manipulated by money. Everyone wants wealth, but the so-called gentleman loves money and takes it properly. In reality, I think there are two main reasons for being manipulated by money. On the one hand, it is caused by social atmosphere, on the other hand, it is caused by too strong personal desire. In recent years, the social economy has developed, but it is almost omnipotent for social atmosphere to guide money. Money is a symbol of material foundation, personal dignity, social status and so on. People's inner spiritual pursuit is suppressed, ignored and not vigorously promoted. On the other hand, people's desire is too strong, which is inconsistent with their own abilities, creating a daydream of making quick money and whimsical money. If you don't want to take advantage, you won't be manipulated by money.
The third kind of manipulation: the manipulation of the handle:
Once a person has something in others' hands, others will use it to manipulate and intimidate you if they have some crooked brains. Of course, there are also some examples where the manipulated people don't want to be coerced and manipulated, and finally they have to end the manipulation by hurting each other, but instead lead themselves to the point of no return. In Dressing Up, Chen Kaiyi and Lei Qitai are underground lovers and have business contacts. There are some flaws in this commercial contract, so Lu Binbin and Xiang want to use it as a weapon of control. The false identity of Xinhai Mei Dong in Fantasy Night was exposed because a family photo of Xinhai Mei Dong from his biological father led to the design of Xinhai Mei Dong to kill the whistleblower Ceng Ming. Everyone has secrets, everyone has some so-called hidden handles, and no one is perfect. When these so-called handles are caught, do you accept the result or choose to continue to cover it up? Perhaps from many examples, the best ending is to stop loss in time and accept the due result instead of continuing to cover it up. In addition, an upright person is open and poised. If he is an aboveboard person, he may not be used at all.
Abide by the law and improve self-discipline; Don't think about taking advantage, don't be whimsical; Be generous; I think you can avoid these manipulations and have your own free life.