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About women
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Author: Zhang Ailing
Westerners call sinister and mean women "cats". Recently, I saw an English pamphlet called "Cats". The content is not completely inhuman, but meaningful words related to women are scattered everywhere, which is not easy to collect, unlike here. After reading some translations, readers always have a few words, some angry, some laughing, some happy, and some men who pretend to be fair engage in "justice theory", or "a little extreme", or "right is right, which only applies to a few women, but in any case, some will be corrected and some will be encouraged". In a word, I have never met anyone who has nothing to say on this topic. Of course, I am no exception. Read the original text before discussing it.
Anonymous, the author of Cats, solemnly declared in advance: "What I am talking about here is not about you, dear reader-if you are a man, it is not about your wife, aunt, daughter, grandmother or mother-in-law."
He repeatedly argued that the purpose of writing this book was not to vent his anger at the loss of women, but he later admitted that it was a small vent because: "A man who had just quarreled with his wife can get comfort from reading this book before going to bed."
He said: "Women's material structure is too rational, but their spiritual structure is a little poor. This is what we expect, we can't be demanding. "
When a man really has feelings, his love is far greater than that of a woman. On the other hand, women hate a person for much longer than men.
The only difference between women and dogs is that dogs are not spoiled like women, they don't wear jewelry, and-thank God! -They can't talk!
Finally, every man's money is always spent on a woman.
A man can flirt with the lowest bar girl without losing his identity-a senior woman can't even blow a kiss to the postman!
We infer from this that a man is no better than a woman, and it doesn't matter if he bends lower, because it is not difficult for him to straighten up again.
Generally speaking, women's lives don't need a variety of stimulants like men's lives, so if men do anything deviant in their spare time to alleviate their fatigue, troubles and unfinished ambitions, they should be forgiven.
For most women, "love" means "being loved"
Men like to love women, but sometimes they like her to love him.
If you promise to help a woman, she will do anything for you; But if you do her a favor, she won't be busy helping her. So you should always promise to help different women, so that you can get a little reward and a little benefit-because there is only one kind of gratitude to women: in advance.
From a man's point of view, this woman's dress may be beautiful and pleasing to the eye-but from another woman's point of view, it is only "three pence a yard and a shilling", so it is not beautiful.
Time is money, so if a woman spends more time in front of a mirror, she has to spend more money in a fashion shop.
You don't flirt with women, she says you are not a man; If you flirt with her, she will say that you are not a gentleman.
Men boast of their victories-women boast of their retreats. However, the cause of the enemy's attack is often her own fault.
Women don't like kind men, but they regard themselves as a quick reformatory. As soon as they got married, they thought that their husbands would immediately become saints.
Only men have the right to propose marriage-as long as this system exists; Marriage can't be a fair deal in a day; A woman always comes out at the beginning and says "she has granted his request", so she has the advantage in quarrels. For this reason, women insist that men should propose.
Most women have to "do something wrong" to be happy. Marriage doesn't seem "right" enough.
Women often forget this: all their education is to teach them to be strong-willed and resist external temptations-but they spend their whole lives trying to provoke external temptations.
Modern marriage is a kind of insurance, which was invented by women.
Women can get royalties by making up a story casually, and all women will get rich.
You suddenly ask a woman a question, and her first answer is about the official history, and the second answer is a novel.
Women often argue fiercely with their husbands, trying to refute him. However, to a third party, she took his words as wise words. Poor husband ...
Women make friends with women, not as fast as men make friends with men. They have more things to hide from others.
Women are lucky-surgeons can't dissect their conscience.
When a woman judges a man only by his treatment, she will say, "I don't believe that man is a murderer-he has never murdered me!" " "
Men do wrong things, but women plan how to do wrong things in the distance.
Women don't think much about the future-they also try to forget their past-so God knows what they have to think about!
It's amazing how much "necessary" expenses a woman can save when she starts to save!
If a woman tells you a secret, don't tell another woman-someone else must have told her.
Whatever you want to do for a woman, she takes it for granted. No matter what you have done for her, she doesn't thank you. No matter what little things you decide to do, she will curse you. ..... the family is not a charity.
Most women never think before speaking. Men think-don't say!
If she never reads a book twice because she "knows the plot", such a woman will never be a good wife. If she only wants novelty and completely ignores style and charm, then after a while, she will discover her husband's personality, his weaknesses and quirks, and she will find him boring and stop loving him.
Your woman builds castles in the air-if they don't exist, it's all your fault!
It is more difficult for a woman to say "I was wrong" than for a man to say a full set of tongue twisters.
You doubted your wife. She cheated you. If you don't doubt your wife, she will doubt you.
Anything that says "what about women" is just one-liners. One-picture banter will inevitably compromise the correctness of the meaning. Because everyone has his own temper, how can we generalize? But in comparison, women can be generalized, because people in the world have different customs and professional environments, and most women always take care of their children indoors. Because there is only a typical traditional life, their personal habits are different and limited. Therefore, it is generally said that "how about women" is more secure than "how about men".
I remember an informal debate in our school. When it comes to male aggression, everyone has forgotten what the original topic was. They just focus on this, the air is unusually warm. A lady, in the tone of the old new party, talked about how men are unfair and how to bully women-such a soft and emotional animal, detained her with emotion and forced her to be a plaything. In the competition for survival, women are at a disadvantage because of unequal opportunities ... in the debate between men and women, women always come to this set. At that time, I couldn't help refuting her, not because I liked to write biased articles, but because I was really tired of listening to all this. 1930, female students have a "Linglong" magazine, which teaches movie stars the beauty secrets and how to guard against men's attacks, because men are "malicious". Love is dangerous, so is marriage, because marriage is the grave of love. ...
We are familiar with these words of women and have heard too many words of men. They are nothing more than cursing women for heinous crimes and countless books, but this is a national survival plan and cannot be erased.
Both sides hold their own words. On the surface, it doesn't seem to be a public axiom. Women have their own reasons. Women are really small, pretentious and fake, with eyes like beans and flatterers. Although decent women hate sluts, in fact, if they have the chance to play the role of temptress, no one is eager to try. ) Smart women don't defend these criticisms, but go back to the source and blame men. In ancient times, women succumbed to men's fists because of their poor physical strength, and they have been in a dominant position for thousands of years. Because they have adapted to the environment, they have developed the so-called way of playing dumb. Women's bad habits are caused by men. What do men complain about?
Women's shortcomings are all caused by the environment, but why do women with modern higher education, like men, often disappoint people and are as sensitive and awkward as her grandmother? Of course, habits accumulated over thousands of years cannot be changed overnight. It just takes time. ...
But blaming everything on men is not a complete answer, and it seems to be irresponsible. "Irresponsibility" is also an adjective that men have long used to add to women. The author of "cats" said.
A respected professor once told me a dozen reasons why women should not be taken too seriously. This matter has been bothering me, because they always take themselves seriously and hate being treated as sweet words and irresponsible little things. What should we do if, as the professor said, we don't take them too seriously and they don't copy their hearts into "sweet words and irresponsible little things"?
They want people to take them seriously, but when they do something serious, they want you to say, "She is just an irresponsible little thing."
The reason why women were conquered at the beginning became slaves in a patriarchal society. Because physical strength is not as good as that of men. But men's physical strength is not as good as wolves, tigers and leopards. Why didn't they give in to animals in the process of natural selection? It can be seen that it is not enough to blame others.
Elder Huxley, a famous novelist, said in his book: "What kind of people will happen." There is a book about a young wife, Maggie, who is difficult to deal with and born poor. Her husband is quite docile, but in the end he had to let her down and had sex with a social butterfly. Margaret finally turned into a heartbreaker.
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(1) The Elder of Hao Weili, translated by British writer Aldous Huxley (1894- 1963), was naturalized in the United States in his later years.
It is true that social progress is incredible, beyond personal control, and the people who bear the brunt don't know why. But back to a certain stage, there will always be some active ingredients. Like the overall situation of the world at present, human beings have gradually evolved into a mechanized commercial civilization with fierce competition, which has caused a situation in which wars must be fought. Although it is called "no fight, no fight", it is still dragged in one by one in confusion. There's nothing I can do, but I can't say I don't blame myself.
Some people say that it is better for a man with poor grades to rule the world than to give way to a woman, which will definitely make people feel refreshed. At first glance, it sounds like a sudden illness. If it is monarchical politics, Wu Zetian is the British Lord, and Yong Taizong is also the British Lord. When you meet a good emperor, regardless of gender, the world is at peace. The trouble with the monarchy is that there are too few good emperors. What about democracy? Most women have a lower level of autonomy than men. And it's a bit like an old lady quarreling in an international arena. It's even more unimaginable to be a real woman.
Calling a woman to rule the country and level the world is "no play, please ask a bodhisattva", but this absurd suggestion also has its scientific basis. It is predicted that if this world war destroys our civilization to the point where it can't be restored to its original state, then the next new culture will fall on the black people, because in the past, both the yellow people and the white people had their own achievements, and only the black people were naive and didn't consume their energy, so I'm afraid it's their turn to play the leading role in the big era in the future. People who say such things are not pretending to be amazing. A high degree of civilization, high degree of training and depression are really enough to hurt your vitality. Women are often accused of being barbaric and primitive. Humans have tamed birds and beasts, but they cannot completely tame women. For thousands of years, women have been separated from education. How do you know they are not here to cultivate vitality? Xu Tu has a big move?
Feminist society has an advantage-women have more common sense in choosing a spouse than men. Although this is not a profound knowledge, it has a lot to do with the future of mankind. When a man chooses his wife's room, he simply judges people by their looks. Appearance and physique are also important in eugenics. When choosing a husband, women don't pay attention to appearance, but they are not as biased as men. At the same time, she also pays attention to the strength of wisdom, health, manners and self-sufficiency, and looks are secondary. Some people say that the crux of society now is that men can't choose wives, so that children have no tutors, and children are getting worse and worse. This is a bit exaggerated, but we have to admit that only when all marriages are initiated by women can we hope to produce a superhuman nation.
The word "superman" was put forward by Nietzsche and is often quoted. Before Nietzsche, similar ideals could be found in ancient fables. Strange to say, superman in our imagination is always human. Why? Probably because superman's civilization is more developed than ours, and we are human civilization. There is another layer: Superman is the crystallization of pure ideal, and "superior woman" is not difficult to obtain in practice. At any cultural stage, women are still women. Men tend to develop in a certain way, while women are the most common and basic, representing the four seasons cycle, land, birth and death, diet and reproduction. Women bind the spiritual wisdom of human beings through space to solid roots.
Even here and now, we can find the perfect woman. Perfect men are rare, because we don't know what kind of men can be considered perfect. Utilitarians have their ideals, believers in Laozi and Zhuangzi have their ideals, and members of national society also have their ideals. It seems that they all have their own shortcomings-that's because our expectations of "perfect men" are too high.
A woman's range of activities is limited, so a perfect woman is more perfect than a perfect man. At the same time, bad women are often worse than bad men. That's the truth. Some businessmen completely ignore business ethics and their private lives are impeccable. On the contrary, people who have no conscience about women are conscientious in their work. Vicious women are evil everywhere.
Superman is a man and God is a woman. Superman is different from God. Superman is enterprising and the goal of survival. God is full of sympathy, compassion, understanding and rest. Like most so-called intellectuals. I'd like to believe in religion, but I can't. If one day I gain faith, I will probably believe in the mother god in O 'Neill's The Great God Blanc.
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(1) O 'Neill, translated by American dramatist Eugene O 'Neill (1888- 1953), won the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1936.
Blanc the Great God is the most touching play I know. After reading it again and again, it makes people sad and cry after reading it three or four times. O 'Neill identified "Mother Earth" as a prostitute in impressionist brushwork. "A strong, quiet, sexy yellow-haired woman, about twenty years old, with fresh and clean skin, plump breasts and wide hip bones. She moves slowly, steadily and lazily like a wild animal. Her big eyes reflect a deep natural disturbance like a dream. She chews gum like a sacred cow, forgets time and has her own eternal purpose. "
She said in a rough and enthusiastic tone, "I feel sorry for you, every one of you, every son of a bitch-I just want to run naked into the street and love all of you, as if I had brought you a new anesthetic to make you forget everything forever (with a sly smile). But they can't see me any more than they can see each other. Without my help, they went on and died. "
People died and were buried underground. Mother Earth comforted the dying person: "I'll cover you with a quilt when you fall asleep."
You must wear a mask when you are alive. She took off the mask of the dying man and said, "You can't sleep in it. If you want to sleep, you must go alone. "
The following is an excerpt from a conversation:
Blanc (leaning gratefully against her) The land is warm.
Mother Earth (comforting, looking straight into her eyes like an idol) Shh! Shh! (Tell him to be quiet) Go to sleep.
Blank: Yes, Mom. ... when I woke up ...?
Mother Earth, the sun is out again.
Blank came out to judge the living and the dead! (Fear) I don't want a fair trial. I want love.
Mother Earth has only love.
Thank you, Mom, Blank.
When people die, Mother Earth says to herself:
"What's the use of having children? What's the use? Life and death? "
She added:
"Spring will always come back with life! Come back forever! Never, never, never come again! It's spring again! -Reborn! -Summer, autumn, death, peace! (Painful sadness) But it is always, always, always the pain of love, pregnancy and childbirth-it is the unbearable cup of life (for painful happiness) and the crown of glorious burning life in spring! " She stood like an idol of the earth, staring at the boundless Gankun. )
This is the goddess. Luo Shen, who looks like Youlong, is just a beauty in ancient costume. Guanyin, worshipped by the secular world, is nothing more than a beautiful woman in ancient costume and barefoot. The tall and fat Greek stone statue with half naked body is just a female athlete, and the blonde virgin is just a beautiful wet nurse who has been breastfeeding in public for more than 1000 years.
If it continues, it will lead to a dangerous vortex of religious debate, which is as intense as the struggle between men and women, but it is tasteless. Let's stop before it is too late.
Although women are full of mistakes, there is a little root bud of "Mother Earth" in women's spirit. Lovely women are really lovely. Within a certain range, lovely personality and charm can be cultivated artificially, which is the goal of different lady education all over the world. Although the original intention is often distorted, a lady like the book Cat can still be angry.
There are many ways for women to please people. People who only look at her figure have lost many valuable benefits in life.
Pleasing healthy people is the oldest occupation in the world, and it is also a very common occupation for women. Women who marry for a living all fall into this category. It goes without saying that you have a beautiful body and please people with your body; There is not much difference between having beautiful thoughts and pleasing people with them.