In real life! Judging a book from its cover (a real snapshot of a shopping mall)
An old man who grows vegetables for a living in the countryside walked into a shopping mall: when the security guard came, the waiter looked at him with contempt. The old man smiled awkwardly and scolded him for letting him out. He still smiles like this. Who knows that the old man felt that he had walked out of the mall innocently, and he just wanted to buy clothes for his relatives. Is this also wrong? This is the cruel real life!
B. A story about judging a book by its cover.
1, Confucius had many disciples, one of whom was Zaiyu, who was eloquent and eloquent. At first, he had a good impression on Confucius, and then he gradually revealed the truth: he was neither kind nor very lazy; Don't read and listen in broad daylight, but sleep in bed. To this end, Confucius called him "a rotten wood cannot be carved."
Another disciple of Confucius, named Mi Minghe, was from Shandong, thirty-nine years younger than Confucius. Yu Zi's figure and appearance are ugly. She wants Confucius. Confucius began to think that he had low qualifications and would not succeed. However, after studying under a famous teacher, he returned with great concentration to cultivate himself, doing things aboveboard and not taking evil paths; Never go to the doctor for business.
Later, Yu Zi came to the Yangtze River with 300 disciples. His reputation is very high, and his name is recited by various vassal States. When Confucius heard about this, he said with emotion: "I only judge people's quality and ability by words, and as a result, my judgment on Zaiyu is wrong;" I only judge people's quality and ability by their appearance, and as a result, I was wrong about feathers again. "
2. One day, an ordinary middle-aged man and woman came to the real estate sales department of a small city, carrying two snakeskin bags.
When they came in, they looked around and asked, How much is the store?
A little girl patiently received them, but the section chief ignored reading newspapers and drinking tea in the office, and also disliked the little girl wasting time.
After the middle-aged couple took a fancy to two shops, the section chief interjected that they had to pay a deposit of 300,000 yuan first.
They said: I only took 200,000 and put it in a bag in my hand.
The section chief immediately flashed his eyes, made a 180 degree turn, ran over with a big smile, told them to discuss it in detail, and sent a little girl to pour water for others.
But middle-aged men and women said, we don't want to talk to you about judging a book by its cover. You called that little girl just now, and we bought it from her.
Finally, they bought two shops and two big houses.
5, Zhong Wuyan compound surname Li Zhongming Chun, salt-free, known as Zhong Wuyan, is the queen of Qi Xuanwang.
Zhong Wuyan is a famous ugly woman in history. She was born with big eyes, long waist, thick legs, thick neck, baldness, humpbacked camel and dark skin. Because of her ugly appearance, she didn't get married until she was forty. However, Zhong Wuyan is a talented female politician, with high martial arts, brilliant talent and extraordinary intelligence.
Although Qi Xuanwang likes drinking and having fun, he is lewd and incompetent, but he admires the wizard Gao Yi of Zhong Wuyan and makes her the queen. With her help, the feast was stopped, the courtiers were eliminated, the military strength and the national treasury were strengthened, and the State of Qi was prosperous for some time.
C on the ending of judging people by their appearances and the idiom stories of judging people by their appearances.
Confucius had many disciples, one of whom was Zaiyu, who was eloquent and eloquent. At first, he had a good impression on Confucius, and then he gradually revealed the truth: he was neither kind nor very lazy; Don't read and listen in broad daylight, but sleep in bed. To this end, Confucius called him "a rotten wood cannot be carved." Another disciple of Confucius, named Mi Minghe, was from Shandong, thirty-nine years younger than Confucius. Yu Zi's figure and appearance are ugly. She wants Confucius. Confucius began to think that he had low qualifications and would not succeed. However, after studying under a famous teacher, he returned with great concentration to cultivate himself, doing things aboveboard and not taking evil paths; Never go to the doctor for business. Later, Yu Zi came to the Yangtze River with 300 disciples. His reputation is very high, and his name is recited by various vassal States. When Confucius heard about this, he said with emotion: "I only judge people's quality and ability by words, and as a result, my judgment on Zaiyu is wrong;" I only judge people's quality and ability by their appearance, and as a result, I was wrong about feathers again. "
D. the story of judging people by their appearances
1, office doorman.
Classic scene: A rustic old man comes to the guard duty room of the municipal government. -Comrade, is Wang Xx there? Hey, old man, how dare you call our mayor by his first name? -I'm looking for his stuff. Don't go looking for trouble, just leave. What can you do for him? -He's my son.
2. Hotel waiter.
Classic scene: A man with a little messy hair comes to the lobby of a five-star hotel. -How much is the presidential suite here? Presidential suite? Who is alive? What about you? This is a dollar bill, isn't it? -It's okay. I'll rent it for three months.
3. Shop assistant.
Classic scene: A middle-aged woman approaches the jewelry counter of a shopping mall with a plastic bag in one hand. Miss, please show me a 5-carat diamond ring. -Look at it. You can see it through the counter glass. -Can't you show it? If you can afford it, I will buy it. -Well, I bought less, so I'll take four.
4. Teachers.
Classic scene: A hunchbacked middle-aged man is invited to school by the child's head teacher. -Are you the parents of XXX's child? Where do you work? -working in the municipal education bureau. Oh, working in the Municipal Education Bureau? Is it the doorman or the teahouse? -I'm sorry, I'm the director.
5. Sales girl.
Classic scene: A man rides a bicycle to the sales office of high-end real estate. -Excuse me, do you still sell villas here? -Yes, there is, but we don't have ordinary real estate for sale here. You'd better look elsewhere. No, that's a 20 million villa. Buy two.
6. Taxi driver.
Classic scene: A man with a foreign accent gets into a taxi. -Hey, where are you going? -Master, please take me to the airport. -The airport is far away. It will take at least two and a half hours. No, I work at the airport. Even if there is a traffic jam, it will arrive in half an hour at the most.
7. Nurse.
Classic scene: A scrawny old man in his seventies has been admitted to the hospital. Bed, you have run out of medical expenses this month. Please move out of the ICU today. -If I keep paying, can I stay here? -Not even paying. -So I'm the father-in-law of your dean? -Oh, why didn't you say so? You are a stranger who submits money.
8. Human resource manager. Classic scene: an ordinary-looking man comes to apply for the human resources department of a well-known company. -Which famous university in China did you graduate from? I studied abroad and graduated from Yale University in the United States. -What department did you apply for? Excuse me, I applied for the position of deputy general manager of your company.
9. Traffic police.
Classic scene: A car was stopped by the traffic police for violating the rules. -Why did you leave your cell phone on? -I'm sorry, I admit the punishment. I forgot my wallet because I was in a hurry to go to work for a meeting today. Can you handle it in another way? No, even if you are the party secretary, everyone is equal before the law. -Here's my driver's license. Please deduct it first. Huh? You are secretary li of the municipal party committee. I'm really sorry. I went the wrong way. I'm sorry!
10, actor.
Classic scene: An old woman who speaks local dialect wants to meet a popular actress. -Hum, there are all kinds of birds in the Woods. Even the old lady in the country wants to see me. Tell her I'm not here. -You'd better meet her. -If you can't see it, you can't see it. What? Who do you think I am? Who wants to see me? -She is director XXX's mother. -Why didn't you say so? Now I'm going to see her old man. (World Manager)
E. Who can tell us the story of "judge a book by its cover"?
1, office doorman.
Classic scene: A rustic old man comes to the guard duty room of the municipal government. -Comrade, is Wang Xx there? Hey, old man, how dare you call our mayor by his first name? -I'm looking for his stuff. Don't go looking for trouble, just leave. What can you do for him? -He's my son.
2. Hotel waiter.
Classic scene: A man with a little messy hair comes to the lobby of a five-star hotel. -How much is the presidential suite here? Presidential suite? Who is alive? What about you? This is a dollar bill, isn't it? -It's okay. I'll rent it for three months.
3. Shop assistant.
Classic scene: A middle-aged woman approaches the jewelry counter of a shopping mall with a plastic bag in one hand. Miss, please show me a 5-carat diamond ring. -Look at it. You can see it through the counter glass. -Can't you show it? If you can afford it, I will buy it. -Well, I bought less, so I'll take four.
4. Teachers.
Classic scene: A hunchbacked middle-aged man is invited to school by the child's head teacher. -Are you the parents of XXX's child? Where do you work? -working in the municipal education bureau. Oh, working in the Municipal Education Bureau? Is it the doorman or the teahouse? -I'm sorry, I'm the director.
5. Sales girl.
Classic scene: A man rides a bicycle to the sales office of high-end real estate. -Excuse me, do you still sell villas here? -Yes, there is, but we don't have ordinary real estate for sale here. You'd better look elsewhere. No, that's a 20 million villa. Buy two.
6. Taxi driver.
Classic scene: A man with a foreign accent gets into a taxi. -Hey, where are you going? -Master, please take me to the airport. -The airport is far away. It will take at least two and a half hours. No, I work at the airport. Even if there is a traffic jam, it will arrive in half an hour at the most.
7. Nurse.
Classic scene: A scrawny old man in his seventies has been admitted to the hospital. Bed, you have run out of medical expenses this month. Please move out of the ICU today. -If I keep paying, can I stay here? -Not even paying. -So I'm the father-in-law of your dean? -Oh, why didn't you say so? You are a stranger who submits money.
8. Human resource manager. Classic scene: an ordinary-looking man comes to apply for the human resources department of a well-known company. -Which famous university in China did you graduate from? I studied abroad and graduated from Yale University in the United States. -What department did you apply for? Excuse me, I applied for the position of deputy general manager of your company.
9. Traffic police.
Classic scene: A car was stopped by the traffic police for violating the rules. -Why did you leave your cell phone on? -I'm sorry, I admit the punishment. I forgot my wallet because I was in a hurry to go to work for a meeting today. Can you handle it in another way? No, even if you are the party secretary, everyone is equal before the law. -Here's my driver's license. Please deduct it first. Huh? You are secretary li of the municipal party committee. I'm really sorry. I went the wrong way. I'm sorry!
10, actor.
Classic scene: An old woman who speaks local dialect wants to meet a popular actress. -Hum, there are all kinds of birds in the Woods. Even the old lady in the country wants to see me. Tell her I'm not here. -You'd better meet her. -If you can't see it, you can't see it. What? Who do you think I am? Who wants to see me? -She is director XXX's mother. -Why didn't you say so? Now I'm going to see her old man. (World Manager)
Write a 300-word story on the topic "Don't judge a book by its cover"
A story about judging a book by its cover.
A few years ago, an old couple who were sorry for their eyes went directly to visit the president of Harvard without making an appointment in advance.
The principal's secretary saw the faded cotton-padded jacket worn by the old lady and the cheap cloth worn by the old man, and immediately concluded that the two rural bus owners could not have business dealings with Harvard.
The old man said softly, "We want to see the headmaster. 」
The secretary said rudely, "He is busy all day. 」
Old lady: "Never mind, we can wait. 」
A few hours later, the secretary ignored them all the time, hoping that they would retreat and go away by themselves, but they kept waiting there.
The secretary finally decided to inform the principal: "Maybe they left after a few words with you. 」
The headmaster agreed impatiently.
The headmaster is too arrogant to face the couple.
The old lady explained the reason for her visit: "We have a son who studied at Harvard for a year. He likes Harvard very much and his life at Harvard is very happy. But last year, he died in an accident. My husband and I want to build a monument for him on campus. 」
The headmaster was unmoved, but felt ridiculous and said gruffly, "Madam! We can't erect a statue for everyone who died after studying at Harvard. That will make our campus look like a graveyard. 」
No, we won't erect a statue. We want to donate a building to Harvard. 」
The headmaster looked at their humble clothes carefully, and then gasped, "Do you know how much it costs to build a building? The school building exceeds 7.5 million yuan. 」
At this time, the lady was silent and stopped talking.
The headmaster is glad that he can finally send them away.
The old lady turned to her husband and said, "It only costs 7.5 million to build a building? Then why don't we build a university in memory of our son? 」
Her husband nodded in agreement.
They left Harvard, which filled the president of Harvard with regret.
In this way, the Stanford couple left Harvard and went to California. In memory of their son, Stanford University was established.
G. Idiom story "Judge a book by its cover" MP3
Judge people only by their appearance.
[Pronunciation ][yǐ mào qǔ lun]
[explanation] judge a person's quality and ability according to his appearance.
[Source] "Historical Records Biography of Zhong Ni's Disciples": "Rong Tantai destroyed Ming; Wucheng people; Word feather; Confucius is thirty-nine years younger; The appearance is very bad; Want to serve Confucius; Confucius thinks that matter is thin ... I judge people according to their words; Lost and slaughtered; Judge a person by his appearance; I lost my feathers. "
A quantity is what it looks like, and then it is hired.
[antonym] Appoint people on merit, and hire them according to their abilities.
H. Idiom stories about judging people by their appearances
Judge people only by their appearance.
Pronunciation: y ǐ mà o q ǐ LUN
Interpretation: judge a person's quality and ability according to his appearance.
Source: Biography of Historical Records and Zhong Ni: I take people by words and lose them to the public; It is indecent to judge a person by his appearance.
First, don't judge a book by its cover.
People often only look at appearances. In fact, under the handsome and beautiful appearance, there is often an ugly heart hidden; People who are not surprising and ugly may not have a gentle and kind heart.
Never judge by appearances. What matters is the mind, not the five senses and limbs.
I have read a fable, the synopsis of which is that a goat saw a leopard at first sight and immediately fell in love with this leopard covered with beautiful stripes. The goat likes it very much and can't help touching it. He never imagined that the leopard was rude to the prey delivered to the door and swallowed the goat fiercely and cruelly. Before he died, the goat lamented, I am so stupid. I thought all beautiful things were kind and lovely, but they were not.
The pupa is extremely ugly, but when it comes out of the cocoon, it will become a beautiful flower Hu Die.
A rich man in gorgeous clothes and a poor man in dirty clothes are all the same in the eyes of God. They are different because they are also different. It's sad to see a rich man in gorgeous clothes grovel while a poor man in dirty clothes scoffs at him. Senior officials may not be arrogant; Being poor and humble doesn't necessarily mean having a bad heart. Look at people not by their appearance, but by their heart. Some people's feelings say so, but the heart is not like this; Some things say so, but they are not. Therefore, it is not advisable to be partial to others or things.
The ancients said, "When a gentleman sees a prisoner, he must pay more attention. From now on, everyone is a gentleman, but there is no respect. " Hey! The establishment of criminal law shows that the reason why Ming Wang loves villains is because he is a gentleman. "It means that a gentleman will treat prisoners with courtesy, because these people may become gentlemen from now on. Isn't it worthy of respect? Hey! The establishment of criminal law is used by wise kings to show their love for villains and point out a road to gentlemen for villains! It goes without saying that this is also a mode to tell people not to judge people by their appearances, and not to judge people by their appearances.
Cultivate others with virtue, and people will generally have virtue. I hope everyone can keep a gentle, kind and wise heart, and don't judge a book by its cover. Naturally, the world will become more harmonious and beautiful.
J. The classic story of judging people by their appearances should be used in words (Confucius' is not used)
During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang introduced Feng Chu and Pang Tong, and recommended Feng Chu to Liu Bei, saying that Liu Bei would reuse him. As a result, Feng Chu went to read Liu Bei's version and didn't come up with a letter of recommendation. Seeing that Feng Chu was ugly, Liu Bei sent him to Leiyang to make a Leiyang order. During his reign, he ignored government affairs and drank every day. Later, Zhang Fei went to ask for accountability and found that Feng Chu was a great talent. Later, Zhuge Liang went back to introduce Liu Bei, and finally Feng Chu was reused.
You can go online to find information about Pang Tong, Feng Chu. This man is Shu, and he is not valued by Wu Zhu Sun Quan because of his unattractive appearance.
Very satisfied, judge a book by its cover, you can have a look.