tolerate

A pig, a sheep and a cow are kept in the same corral. Once, the shepherd caught the pig, and it screamed loudly and resisted fiercely. Sheep and cows hate its howling, so they say, "He often scratches us, but we don't bark. The pig replied, "catching you and catching me are two different things." He only wants your hair and milk, but catching me is killing me! "!

It is difficult for people with different positions and different environments to understand each other's feelings; Therefore, we should not gloat over the setbacks, setbacks and pains of others, but should have a feeling of care and understanding. Have a tolerant heart!

Step 2 independently

The little snail asked his mother: Why do we have to bear this hard and heavy shell when we are born?

Mom: Because our bodies have no bones to support, we can only climb, but we can't climb fast. So we need the protection of this shell!

Snail: Sister Caterpillar has no bones and can't climb fast. Why doesn't she have to carry this hard and heavy shell?

Mom: Because sister caterpillar can become a butterfly, the sky will protect her.

Snail: but brother earthworm can't climb fast without bones, and he won't become a butterfly. Why doesn't he carry this hard and heavy shell?

Mom: Because Brother Earthworm can drill soil, the earth will protect him.

The little snail began to cry: we are so poor that the sky is unprotected and the land is unprotected.

Mother snail comforted him: "so we have shells!" 」

We don't rely on the sky, we don't rely on the ground, we rely on ourselves.

3. sharks and fish

Someone once did an experiment, putting the fiercest shark and a group of tropical fish in the same pool, and then separating them with tempered glass. At first, sharks kept hitting the invisible glass every day, but in vain. It can never cross the other side. The experimenter puts some crucian carp in the pool every day, so the shark is not short of prey, but it still wants to try the delicious taste on the other side. It still keeps hitting the glass every day. It tried every corner and tried its best every time, but it was always scarred. Several times, it was bleeding and lasted for several days. Whenever the glass breaks, the experimenter immediately adds thicker glass.

Later, sharks stopped hitting the glass and paying attention to colorful tropical fish, as if they were just moving the murals on the wall. It began to wait for the crucian carp that appeared every day, and then hunted with its agile instinct, as if it had returned to the sea, but all this was just an illusion. At the last stage of the experiment, the experimenter took the glass away, but the shark didn't respond. Swimming in a fixed area every day, it not only turns a blind eye to those tropical fish, but even when those crucian carp escape there, it immediately gives up chasing, indicating that it never wants to go there again. The experiment was over, and the experimenter laughed at it as the most cowardly fish in the sea.

But people who have been lovelorn know why, and they are afraid of pain.

4. Miracles

In a remote town in France, it is said that there is a particularly effective spring, and miracles often occur, which can cure various diseases. One day, a veteran who was on crutches and lost a leg limped across the street in the town. The villagers nearby gave a sympathetic kiss back and said, "Poor guy, is he going to pray to God for another leg?" This sentence was heard by veterans. He turned to them and said, "I won't ask God for a new leg, but I will ask him to help me." 」

Imagine: learn to be grateful for the lost and accept the lost fact. Regardless of the gains and losses of life, always make your life full of light and glory, stop crying for the past and work hard for a high live and high life.

5. fishing rod

An old man is fishing by the river. A child walked by to watch him go fishing. The old man is very skilled, so he soon caught a basket full of fish. The old man thinks the child is cute and wants to give him the whole basket of fish. The child shook his head. The old man asked in surprise, "Why not?" "The child replied," I want the fishing rod in your hand. The old man asked, "What do you need a fishing rod for?" The child said, "This basket of fish will be finished soon. If I had a fishing rod, I could fish by myself and eat it all my life. 」

I think you will say: What a clever boy. Wrong. If he only wants a fishing rod, he can't eat any fish. Because he doesn't know fishing skills, it's useless to have a fishing rod, because fishing is not about "fishing rod", but about "fishing skills"

There are too many people who think that they have a fishing rod on the road of life and are no longer afraid of the wind and rain on the road, and will inevitably fall on the muddy ground. It's like a child looking at the old man and thinking that as long as there is a fishing rod, there will be endless fish, just like a clerk looking at the boss and thinking that as long as he sits in the office, money will roll in.

< 2 > Life perception story and truth

Life perception story and truth

A short story, a simple fact.

Once upon a time, two hungry people were blessed by an elder: a fishing rod and a basket of huge fresh fish. One of them asked for a basket of fish and the other asked for a fishing rod, so they parted ways. The person who got the fish built a bonfire with dry wood and cooked the fish on the spot. He wolfed down the fish and didn't taste the meat of the fresh fish. In a flash, he ate all the fish and soup. Soon, he starved to death by the empty fish basket. The other man continued to starve with a fishing rod, and walked hard to the seaside step by step, but when he saw the blue ocean not far away, his last strength was exhausted and he could only die with endless regrets.

Two hungry people also got a fishing rod and a basket of fish from their elders. It's just that they didn't part ways, but agreed to look for the sea together. They only cook one fish at a time. After a long journey, they came to the seaside. From then on, they began to make a living by fishing. A few years later, they built a house, had their own family, children and a fishing boat made by themselves, and lived a happy and healthy life.

A person who only cares about immediate interests will eventually get short-term happiness; One should aim high, but face the real life.

Experience: Only by organically combining ideal with reality can you become a successful person. Sometimes, a simple truth is enough to give people meaningful life enlightenment.

Short story two, the director is useless

There was a Lu man who was good at weaving straw sandals and his wife was good at weaving white silk. He wants to move to Vietnam. His friend said to him, "If you go to Vietnam, you will be poor." "Why?" "Straw sandals are used to walk, but Vietnamese people are used to walking barefoot; White silk is used to make hats, but Vietnamese people are used to long hair. With your strengths, go to places that are not needed, so is it possible to keep yourself from being poor? "

Experience: If a person wants to develop his special skills, he must adapt to the needs of the social environment. If it is divorced from the needs of the social environment, its expertise will lose its value. Therefore, we should decide our own actions according to the needs of society and give full play to our own specialties.

Story 3: Kangaroos and Cages

One day, the city zoo found that the kangaroo escaped from the cage, so it held a meeting to discuss and agreed that the height of the cage was too low. So they decided to raise the height of the cage from 10 meter to 20 meters. As a result, the next day they found that kangaroos were still running outside, so they decided to raise the height to 30 meters again.

I didn't expect to see all the kangaroos running outside the next day. The keeper was very nervous and decided to raise the height of the cage to 100 meters.

One day, giraffes and some kangaroos were chatting. "Do you think these people will continue to keep your cage?" ? Asked the giraffe. "It's hard to say. Kangaroo said, "If they continue to forget to close the door!

Experience: there are "beginning and end", "weight" and "weight". Closing the door is the origin, heightening the cage is the end, and it doesn't matter if you abandon the origin and pursue the end.

Story 4: Bian Que's medical skills

King Wen of Wei asked the famous doctor Bian Que, "Your three brothers are all good at medical skills, which one is the best?"

Bian Que replied, "The eldest brother is the best, the second brother is the second, and I am the worst.

King Wen asked again, "Then why are you the most famous?

Bian Que replied, "My brother treated the disease before it started. Because most people don't know that he can eradicate the cause in advance, his fame can't spread; Brother Zhong treated the disease at the early stage. Most people think that he can only treat minor illnesses, so his reputation only extends to his own village. When my illness is serious, I will treat it. Most people have seen me perform major operations, such as pricking a needle tube on the meridian to bleed blood and applying medicine to the skin, so they think that my medical skill is brilliant and my reputation is famous all over the country.

Experience: control after the event is not as good as control in the event, and control in the event is not as good as control in advance.

Story 5, sudden change in salary

A guest visited someone's house and saw that the chimney on the stove was straight and there was a lot of wood next to it. The guest told the host that the chimney had to be bent and the wood had to be removed, otherwise it might catch fire later, but the host didn't give any indication.

Soon, the owner's house caught fire, and the neighbors rushed to put out the fire. Finally, the fire was put out, so the owner cooked sheep and slaughtered cattle to entertain his neighbors and rewarded them for their contribution to the fire fighting, but he didn't invite anyone who suggested that he move the wood and change the chimney.

Someone said to the host, "if you had listened to that gentleman, you wouldn't have to prepare a banquet today, and there would be no fire damage." It is very strange now that the person who gave you advice is not grateful, but the person who put out the fire is a guest! " The host suddenly realized that he quickly invited the guest who had given the suggestion to have a drink.

Experience: prevention is more important than cure, which can prevent problems before they happen, and it is better than treating them after chaos occurs.

"Three" Life Philosophy Stories and Perceptions

1, short story of life philosophy Part I: One kiss and one sparse.

Zen master Jiashan Shanhui and Zen master Shen Ying in Dingshan talked about Buddhism while walking. Zen master Ding Shan said: "If people can always realize that everything in the world is illusory and not even persistent in Buddhism, they can transcend life and death." Jiashan also expressed his insights not to be outdone: "If people can see their Buddha nature in the flow of life and death, they will not be confused by life and death, and they will be able to transcend life and death."

We went to Dameishan to meet Damei Master of the Dharma Field and expressed our opinions. Jia Shan asked Damei Changfa, "We don't know whose opinion is right?" "One kiss and one sparse." It means a right and a bad. Jia Shan asked, "Who is right?" The master of Damei Dafang replied, "Go back first and talk about it tomorrow."

Early the next morning, Master Jiashan went to ask Master Damei, "Which statement is right?" Master Delta often shouts: "The right person will not ask, and the person who comes to ask is wrong."

The life perception of Zen is a method that transcends both sides, does not stand or abolish, and points directly at people's hearts. Jia Shan believes that to transcend life and death, you must have a Buddha in your heart. Ding Shan believes that to get rid of life and death, even the concept of "Buddha" should be eliminated. When there is nothing, it is like saying "there is only half a glass of water left" and saying "there is still half a glass of water", but the views are different.

Jia Shan didn't understand, so he had to ask right and wrong, so he fell into the difference between words and thoughts. No wonder the Zen master of Damei Dafang called him wrong. When Zen asks right and wrong, it falls into binary opposition. Therefore, if Zen scholars insist on the distinction between good and bad, right and wrong, right and wrong, and size, it runs counter to Zen.

2. Short Story of Philosophy of Life 2: Zen on the Water Car

Five Elephant Monks feel thirsty when they walk. A young man in Lu Yu stepped on a waterwheel in a pond, so he asked the young man for a glass of water to drink. The young man said in an envious tone, "Zen master, if one day I see through the world of mortals, I will definitely become a monk like you." However, after I became a monk, I don't want to live without a fixed place and wander around like you. I will find a place to live in seclusion, meditate well and stop showing my face. "

The Zen master smiled and said, "Oh! Then when will you see through the world of mortals? " The young man replied, "I know the nature of waterwheels in our area best." Everyone in the village uses this as the main water source. If I find someone who can take care of my waterwheel, I can find my own way out and become a monk. " Master Wuxiang said, "You know the waterwheel best. Please tell me, what will happen if the waterwheel is completely immersed in water or completely out of water? "

The young man said: "the waterwheel is completely immersed in the water, not only can it not turn, but it will even be washed away by the rapids;" Completely out of water, the car can't get water. Wu Xiang, a Buddhist monk, said, "The relationship between the waterwheel and the water flow has explained the relationship between the individual and the world: if a person enters the WTO completely and jumps into the rivers and lakes, he will inevitably be washed into the world of mortals by the wave of five desires; If you are born pure and pretend to be lofty, then life must be rootless and idle. After listening to this, the young man said happily, "Zen master, what you said really benefited me a lot." "

Life has learned that if a person completely enters the WTO and jumps into the rivers and lakes, he will inevitably be washed away by the tide of five desires. If you are born pure and pretend to be lofty, then life must be rootless and idle.

3. Short Story of Philosophy of Life 3: Master Hongyi Bows

In the world, being afraid is afraid of being serious. Master Hongyi (Li Shutong) is the most serious, and everything is serious. Zhao Yan, the grandson of Ye Shengtao, wrote in The Old Man that once he was giving a music lesson to a student, a group of students surrounded him to watch him play the piano. A student farted and distracted everyone. After class, Li Shutong said seriously, "It's convenient in the future, please go outside." Say that finish and bow deeply to everyone.

In class, a classmate slammed the door when he went out. He immediately caught up with him, kindly asked him not to do this, and bowed seriously as usual. The students said that Miss Li's bow was stronger than anything else.

A student stole something from a classmate, and Xia Zun, the supervisor, asked for advice. Li said it was because the teacher didn't educate well. The invigilator should apologize to the students first, and then announce that the thief will come forward. If no one comes forward, the teacher will apologize and commit suicide. This gentleman is joking. If he speaks so seriously, the students will definitely stand up. Xia is Li's good friend. Although he agrees with Li, he is worried that the students will not stand up. Li Shutong said seriously, "Then commit suicide. Don't cheat the students." After a day of hesitation, I took another approach.

Liu Zhiping, a musical descendant of Li Shutong, has no financial resources to study in Japan. In order to help his disciple and reassure him, Li Shutong wrote a letter to his disciple seriously, detailing his income and expenses, which reassured Liu Zhiping. Li Shutong later became a monk. Before becoming a monk, he prepared a large sum of money for Liu to study until graduation. When the money was confiscated, Li wrote and said, "If I can't borrow this money, I will still work until you graduate."

The life experiences of the above four cases fully show that Li Shutong is "serious in everything" and "the most serious". In this regard, people may have different views on whether he is suspected of "making a mountain out of a molehill" and whether he treats life with awe and rashness. However, its earnest spirit is commendable and very human. The last example is amazing.

4. Life Philosophy Story 4: The Dream of Three Trees

Once upon a time, there were three trees. They all have their own dreams. The first tree wants to be a treasure chest, which contains all the precious things in the world, such as gold, silver and jewelry. The second tree wants to be built into a gorgeous ship, carrying the emperor and dignitaries. The third tree wants to grow into the tallest tree in the world, so that it can be closer to God.

Many years passed and a group of loggers came. The first tree was cut down, and the woodcutter said, "This tree looks very strong. I want to sell it to a carpenter. " This is good news, because carpenters can make treasure boxes. The second tree was cut down, and the woodcutter said, "This tree looks very strong. I want to sell it to the shipyard. " This is good news, because the shipyard will be a big ship.

The third tree was very scared when it saw the woodcutter coming towards it, because as long as the woodcutter cut it down, it meant that its dream was shattered. However, it was cut down, and the woodcutter said, "I haven't decided what to do with it yet." Let's cut it down first. "

Have the dreams of the first tree and the second tree come true? The first tree was made into a manger by a carpenter to hold horse feed. The second tree was made into a fishing boat by the shipyard and used to fish for fishermen. Their ending, like the third tree, is far from their dreams.

However, one day, two people passed by the manger, a couple. The woman gave birth to a boy, who was put in a manger. The first tree suddenly realized that the boy was the couple's most precious treasure in this world.

A few years later, several people climbed onto the fishing boat that was put on hold by the sea. From their conversation, the second tree learned that one of these people was a king who had just been defeated. After rescuing the fishing boat, the king made a comeback and became one of the greatest kings in history. After the local church was built, the third tree was made into a cross. The church is the closest place to God in the world.

Life Comprehension When dreams deviate from our pre-designed path, don't be disheartened, because sometimes dreams will come true in unexpected ways.

5, life philosophy short story 5: Good and evil are only in an instant.

An old monk sat on the side of the road, his eyes closed, his legs crossed, his hands clasped under his skirt, lost in thought. Suddenly, his meditation was interrupted. Interrupted by the samurai's hoarse and pleading voice, "Old man, tell me what heaven is!"! What is hell! "

The old monk didn't respond, as if he had heard nothing. But gradually he opened his eyes and a smile appeared on his mouth. The warriors stood by, anxious as ants on hot bricks. "You want to know the secrets of heaven and hell?" The old monk said, "You are really a rude person, with muddy hands and feet, unkempt hair and dirty beard." The sword is rusty, and you can tell at a glance that it is not well kept. You ugly, your mother dressed you up as a clown, and you came to ask me the secret of heaven and hell? "

The samurai cursed savagely, and then "brushed" his sword on the old monk's head. His face was flushed and the veins stood out on his neck, and he was about to cut off the old monk's head. The sword was about to fall when the old monk suddenly whispered, "This is hell." For an instant, the samurai was amazed and awed, and was full of pity and respect for the old monk who dared to teach him a lesson with his life. His sword stopped in mid-air and his eyes were filled with tears of gratitude. "This is heaven." The old monk said.

Life's perception of good and evil is often between thoughts. All evil thoughts, words and deeds are hell for yourself and others; All good thoughts, good words and good deeds are paradise for yourself and others. If everyone can abandon evil and do good, even hell can become heaven. Therefore, everyone should sit still and think about themselves, always look at their hearts, get rid of evil thoughts in their hearts, and give up words and deeds that hurt people. Let your heart become pure, and you will get real inner peace and tranquility.

(3) Extended reading of stories and articles:

The story of life value: don't let yesterday's depression overshadow tomorrow's dream! At a seminar, a famous speaker held a $20 bill in his hand and didn't make an opening speech.

Facing the 200 people in the meeting room, he asked, "Who wants this $20?" Put one hand up. He went on to say, "I want to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing." As he spoke, he crumpled up the money and asked, "Who wants more?" There are people holding hands.

He added, "Well, what if I do this?" He threw the money on the ground, stepped on it and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the dirty and wrinkled bill. "Who wants it now?" Someone still raised their hands.

"My friends, you had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it, because it hasn't depreciated, and it's still worth 20 dollars. On the road of life, we will be knocked down, bullied or even crushed by our own decisions or adversity countless times. We feel as if we are worthless.

But no matter what happens, or what will happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his view, dirty or clean, dressed neatly or untidy, you are still priceless. "Tip: The value of life lies not in what we do, nor in what friends we make, but in ourselves! We are unique-never forget this!

Give me an article or story about the philosophy of life. And explain what it tells us.

1, break the barriers of faith

For thousands of years, humans thought it was impossible to run a mile in four minutes, but in 1954, Roger bannister broke this belief barrier.

He can create such success, thanks to hard physical training and spiritual breakthrough.

Before that, he had simulated running a mile in four minutes for many times in his mind. After a long time, he formed a very firm belief, so he gave an absolute order to the nervous system and must do his best to complete this mission. Sure enough, he did what everyone thought impossible.

No one expected that bannister's record-breaking had a great influence on other athletes. Before that, no one broke the record of running a mile in four minutes, but in the following year, 37 people made the list, and in the following year, as many as 300 people.

This phenomenon occurs because his achievements provide a new basis for others, and what everyone thinks is "impossible" is actually possible.

People often have "self-limiting" beliefs about themselves or their abilities, which may be because they have failed in the past, so they dare not hope for a successful day in the future, or they may not have a specific goal to live and have doubts about whether their wishes can be realized. After a long time, they began to learn to be pragmatic and finally mediocre. [tell you gently]:

When students work hard but can't make obvious progress, teachers can concentrate on helping one of them make a breakthrough. A person's breakthrough often drives a large number of people, and the power of example is endless.

A class, the teacher often can't take care of the whole class. There are always several excellent students in the class, and there will also be some students who are not motivated. Heavy people will sink, floating people will float, and the wider group is the middle group students who are neither heavy nor floating. These students are self-motivated, but they are far from the top experts in the class. On the contrary, if one of them succeeds, it will greatly promote the others and everyone will follow suit. Only in this way can the teacher's work have the effect of affecting the whole body.

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A worn-out violin

There was once an auction that was regarded as junk auction. The auctioneer went to a violin-a violin that looked very old, very old and badly worn. The auctioneer picked up the violin and plucked the strings, and his voice was out of tune, which was terrible. He looked at the old and dirty violin, frowned and began to bid without enthusiasm. 10 yuan, nobody took over. He lowered the price to 5 yuan, but there was still no response. He continued to reduce the price until 0.5 yuan. He said, "0.5 yuan, just 0.5 yuan. I know it's not worth much, but I can take it away for fifty cents! "

Just then, an old man with gray hair and a long white beard came to the front and asked him if he could have a look at the piano. He took out his handkerchief and wiped the dust and stains off the piano. He plucked the strings slowly and carefully tuned each string. Then he put the worn violin on his chin and began to play.

The music played by this piano is the most beautiful music that many people on the scene have heard. Wonderful music and melody flowed from this worn-out violin.

The auctioneer asked what the price was. One person said 100 yuan, the other said 200 yuan, and then the price kept rising until the final transaction was 1000 yuan.

Why is someone willing to spend 1000 yuan to buy a worn-out violin with 50 cents that no one bought once? Because it is tuned, it can play beautiful music.

Moral of the story: from 50 cents to 1000 yuan, the value of the elderly will increase by 2000 times with a few strokes! Isn't that what people do? A person's life is made up of constantly surpassing himself, and every transcendence is accompanied by the promotion of life value. On the road of life, only by taking the immediate difficulties as the cornerstone of self-transcendence can we maximize the value of life in repeated self-transcendence.

I finally finished it. I don't know if you are satisfied. I'm exhausted.