Editor | Qian Suzhong
At a time when public opinion is highly tolerant, why are people so intolerant of "Peacock Fairy" not having children?
In fact, this is just an exit for the public to vomit. In essence, her extreme pursuit of beauty and deliberate pursuit make people feel uncomfortable.
This incident reminds me of a diametrically opposite example: Brigitte Lin.
She is regarded as a model who is not afraid of the years and grows old gracefully and calmly.
Brigitte Lin, known as the first beauty in Asia, reappeared many years later. Although her beauty is no longer at its peak, she has no beauty desolation in her later years.
Her eyebrows and eyes are smiling, simple and elegant, and her gestures are as comfortable as spring breeze.
Now the word "goddess" is overused, but it is appropriate for Brigitte Lin. She used to stand on the top of fame and fortune, see the prosperity of the world and appreciate the fireworks, but she was always free and easy, clear and transparent, and really lived a fairy sense.
Speaking of Brigitte Lin's position in the entertainment circle, no one can match. Brigitte Lin as an actor's two major elements, Yan value and acting skills, have reached the extreme. Even the younger generation who are not familiar with her, after seeing her play Dong Fangbubai, basically bowed down.
Because of his outstanding temperament, 1973, Brigitte Lin, who just graduated from high school, was discovered by a talent scout and starred in the movie Out of the Window, which made him famous.
At that time, it was in the glorious period of Hong Kong and Taiwan films, and Brigitte Lin developed in Taiwan Province Province and Hong Kong successively. From literary films to martial arts films, he starred in hundreds of films and won awards.
Among them, Never admit defeat, Rolling Red Dust, and Proud of Jianghu are all classics.
However, just when his career was in full swing, Brigitte Lin announced his retirement and marriage on 1994. What is even more unexpected is that this retreat is permanent.
In the entertainment circle, many stars have had the experience of filming, mostly taking a break and coming back at the right time. Few people can retire completely. Because people who have lived in the spotlight can hardly stand loneliness and temptation.
This temptation has actually spread all over Brigitte Lin. On the one hand, celebrity comeback has become a trend since this century.
On the other hand, it is the honor that comes with it. In 2005, she was selected as a 10 female star in the history of China movies in the past century. In 2006, the Asteroid Center announced that the asteroid 3882 1 was named after Brigitte Lin, and in 20 18, she won the Lifetime Achievement Award of the 20th Far East Film Festival.
Under the fame, you can often see the call for Brigitte Lin to come back.
Brigitte Lin first smiled, then lowered his head and said "maybe" with a smile, and then raised his head and said "tomorrow" with a smile. For San Xiao, the answer is self-evident.
When 20 1 1 appeared in public again, Brigitte Lin was a writer. In order to cooperate with the promotion of the new book, she opened Weibo.
Then it stopped. When someone asked why there was no update, Brigitte Lin smiled indifferently and said that he had forgotten his password. In her eyes, everything in the past is a cloud.
Yi Shu once described Brigitte Lin like this: There has never been a woman so beautiful but totally unaware of it. Besides, she is not interested in cars, houses or jewelry.
Her indifference can be seen from this, for fame and fortune, but also for love.
The love entanglement between Brigitte Lin and Qin and Han Dynasties is well known to the world.
Qin and Han Dynasties were Brigitte Lin's great loves, and they became attached to the movie Out of the Window. However, people love it both on and off the screen.
/kloc-Brigitte Lin, who filmed for the first time at the age of 0/8, was born delicate; The 26-year-old Qin Han has become famous, elegant and handsome, which conforms to all the fantasies of "Prince Charming" in girls' hearts.
In and out of the play, he is both a partner and a teacher, carefully teaching and taking care of Brigitte Lin. It is said that when I kiss, I am afraid of scaring her. I just touched it lightly, and my love can be imagined.
However, reason is always vulnerable to feelings, and the seeds of love grow unreasonably in each other's reserve.
For Brigitte Lin in "Seeds of Love", a look from this mature big brother has made him unable to extricate himself.
Although Qin and Han dynasties were already the father of two children, their feelings were very general. He and his wife were introduced, which seems to be very suitable, but his wife is a strong woman. Qin and Han Dynasties belonged to literary youth, and there were not many songs.
Facing the little girl falling from the sky, she soon fell down.
If you put it now, it may be a blessed love. But the public opinion environment at that time was not so relaxed, even in Taiwan Province Province.
After the scandal came out, Brigitte Lin was called a mistress by the audience, and even some fans went downstairs to Brigitte Lin Company to pull banners to protest. Nowadays, people in idolization are often said to be brain powder. Actually, fans have always been a crazy cultural phenomenon.
What is even more frightening is that Shao, the wife of Qin and Han Dynasties, has a very strong personality. After hearing the rumors of Qin and Han Dynasties and Brigitte Lin, she went to the studio to supervise every day, so as not to let Brigitte Lin have any chance to get close to Qin and Han Dynasties outside filming.
Under the eyes of the public, this practice is equivalent to driving the Qin and Han Dynasties to a dead end.
Later, Qin and Han Dynasties simply fell in love with Brigitte Lin. After many twists and turns, Shao found that her husband's heart could not be recovered and divorced on 1982.
But at the same time, he swore that the remarriage in Qin and Han Dynasties was just a cat and a dog, and it couldn't be Brigitte Lin. If he marries Brigitte Lin, he will make a scene at the wedding and even commit suicide, so they will never be at peace.
Does it sound stinging? This may also be the main reason why Qin and Han Dynasties never got married, although they were together with Brigitte Lin for many years.
The most beautiful pure feelings bear the most vicious curse. Fate shows the eventful side of Brigitte Lin.
In the Mood for Love, facing the abuse of fans and the insult of the original match, she was helpless at that time.
However, Brigitte Lin did not collapse, but chose to escape. 1979, Brigitte Lin went to the United States alone, hoping to settle the feud with time and space.
This is the first time she saved herself.
At that time, Qin Xianglin appeared. Qin Xianglin and Qin and Han Dynasties, also known as Erlin, are the dramas of royal actors in Qiong Yao. They once co-starred in I am a Cloud, for which Qin Xianglin fell in love with Brigitte Lin.
Unlike Qin and Han Dynasties, Qin Xianglin pursued Brigitte Lin without hesitation. After divorcing his wife, he flew directly to the United States to live with Brigitte Lin.
Being in a foreign country, depressed and fueled by public opinion, Brigitte Lin agreed to Qin Xianglin's proposal.
Unfortunately, the Qin and Han Dynasties were struggling with the divorce war, and there was always hope in Brigitte Lin's eyes. Later, the Qin and Han Dynasties divorced and broke off their engagement.
Brigitte Lin jumped into the arms of Qin and Han Dynasties with joy, as if this moment had finally arrived.
She said that stage was her most satisfying time. In an instant, I felt everything was back, my favorite movie, my lost lover. Although I was past middle age, I was the most beautiful stage in my life at that time.
Brigitte Lin naturally began to look forward to marriage. Once when an acquaintance asked when they were going to get married, Brigitte Lin said frankly:
"I can't propose to a girl. Actually, I saved some money, and so did he. Marriage should be enough. "
Qin and Han dynasties cold face on the spot: What makes you say this!
Maybe it's the trauma left by the last ordeal that is too deep, or maybe it's fear of the curse of his ex-wife. They lived together for nearly ten years, and Qin and Han dynasties were reluctant to get married.
Brigitte Lin finally despaired. At the age of 40, he began to save himself for the second time. He broke up with Qin and Han Dynasties and broke off his love. After half a year, he married Xing Liyuan.
This move is decisive and detached, which is unexpected.
In this realistic version of Qiong Yao's drama, Shao is the most obsessed, while Qin and Han Dynasties are a bit like Zhang Wuji written by Jin Yong, indecisive.
Brigitte Lin is the most understanding one.
She went through the darkest time in her life, but she was always sober and knew what she wanted. She has deep feelings for Qin and Han dynasties, but she never entangles. At the critical moment, she can stop loss in time. Very impressive.
But Brigitte Lin's marriage is amazing.
In the eyes of the world, Michael Ying Lee-yuen is not worthy of the expected goddess in all aspects. But for Brigitte Lin, he met the right person at the right time. At that time, Michael Ying Lee-yuen had just come out of an unhappy marriage, and their same need was to find a peaceful person to marry.
Loving someone can be as low as dust, and Michael Ying Lee-yuen did it. It is said that Brigitte Lin is filming outside and can't get used to the local food. Michael Ying Lee-yuen tried to make her authentic Hong Kong food.
Brigitte Lin has a slight cold, and Michael Ying Lee-yuen will be caring and attentive in time. This makes Brigitte Lin, who was exhausted in her last love, feel extremely warm.
20 15, Brigitte Lin participated in the charity reality show "Idol Comes".
When Nana asked her why she suddenly wanted to marry herself off? Brigitte Lin replied, "At that time, I felt like a desert island. I am very tired and lonely. I really want a port, so there is such a person. He is willing to do anything for himself, the kind that the moon and stars are willing to pick for you. "
Brigitte Lin was all smiles when he said this.
Brigitte Lin is very clear about his choice.
Brigitte Lin's personality is also extremely casual and peaceful.
Her popularity and reputation in the circle are excellent, and people around her have almost the same evaluation: sincerity. When she entered the marriage and family, she naturally merged into the fireworks world and did not violate it.
After marriage, two daughters were born one after another. Brigitte Lin took care of her husband and educated her children wholeheartedly.
Over the years, she and Michael Ying Lee-yuen have always given the impression that husband and wife are harmonious and respect each other. Seemingly like ordinary people, it is not easy for those who have climbed to the top.
Brigitte Lin admitted that she felt very lonely six months before her marriage.
The actor's career of more than 20 years is full of noise, leaving the familiar environment and life, and Michael Ying Lee-yuen can't stay with him all the time because of his busy work, which is a huge contrast.
But she quickly adjusted, began to read and write, and then began to study calligraphy and painting, Buddhism and reinvent herself.
In recent years, despite the rumors of marriage change, the parties have never responded to the truth. Judging from the photos that broke out last year, Brigitte Lin was smiling and as calm as ever.
In fact, nothing can affect the mood of the goddess. She has never been the kind of rich woman who enjoys wealth in the eyes of the public.
The truth is that she used her wife's duty to repay Xing Liyuan's sincerity, but she never lost herself and eventually became a woman with a fragrant soul. Naturally, there is no worry about being swayed by considerations of gain and loss.
Brigitte Lin, who left the film industry, showed a special preference for writing.
She devoted her half-life experience and life experience to writing and wrote columns for many media. Later, it was compiled into a book In 20 1 1 and 20 14, a collection of essays, Inside and Outside the Window, Clouds Coming and Going, was published one after another.
Brigitte Lin's writing is sincere and plain, without any affectation. Reading her article, even if you don't know the author, you will think of four words, such as chrysanthemum ash.
Words made her feel very comfortable, and she used words to resolve her feelings. Because of these words, Brigitte Lin has a group of interrelated friends, and cultural celebrities such as Qiong Yao and Bai Xianyong have expressed great appreciation.
Qiong Yao said that she was surprised by her talent. In her eyes, Brigitte Lin may be a writer whose performance has been delayed.
Bai Xianyong said that Brigitte Lin was good at writing people, and in a few words he wrote Wong Kar-wai, Leslie Cheung and Tsui Hark vividly.
Brigitte Lin wrote about many people and recalled many things, but he didn't mention his love.
This passage makes people cry, which shows that the goddess has always regretted and loved too much in her life.
From an emotional point of view, an actor is a high-risk profession. There are not a few people who miss life because of drama. Their love life is bumpy and their beauty is unlucky, which is the normal state of the entertainment circle.
Qiong Yao once said that by reading her title, she knew that she was deeply influenced by Outside the Window. If there are no windows, it may be another life.
What is commendable is that Brigitte Lin can always reconcile with himself well. Under his fame, he is not tired of fame; Under deep affection, I am not trapped by love.
Trapped in a puzzle but not fascinated by herself, her transparency has made herself and others.
Now Brigitte Lin has two identities, an actor and a writer, which are equally wonderful!
Bai Xianyong once wrote a short article "The Immortal Story-For Brigitte Lin". In his eyes, Brigitte Lin is a fairy who fell into the mortal world.
Throughout Brigitte Lin's life, this is true. He is half mortal and half immortal, but he can't be completely detached, but he lives transparently and openly.
Buddha said that all beings are suffering. No matter how high or low they are, all they can do is to play the cards that fate has given them as well as possible.
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