Love is rich or poor, but marriage must depend on family circumstances.

That's true.

Marriage is often the sum of all relationships.

Only by looking at similar spirits can we speak; Relationships of equal strength can be equal to each other.

In fact, a good marriage needs to be suitable for each other.

The formula for happiness in marriage is that two people are evenly matched.

If the strength of two people is very different, the strong one can protect each other's face, or the weak one can not be afraid of outside gossip, then this marriage can last long.

But in reality, these two points have stumped many people.

Aunt and uncle are such examples.

When I was a child, my aunt talked about a boyfriend who was gentle and delicate, and my aunt liked him very much.

When it comes to marriage, grandpa disagrees, on the grounds that the boy has no money at home.

Grandpa was an organ when he was young, and his family was relatively well-off. She has never suffered or been tired since she was a child.

Anyway, my aunt is going to marry him, so in the end, my grandfather didn't quarrel with his daughter.

In order to make her daughter suffer less, grandpa bought a house for her aunt and introduced her work to her uncle.

After marriage, the two are also very loving.

Three years later, my uncle just became a manager and my aunt was pregnant.

Since then, my uncle often doesn't go home on the grounds that he has gone out to socialize.

Menstruation, of course, don't trust me, it's okay to wander around my uncle's company. Once, she really saw him holding another woman into the hotel.

Aunt fainted with anger and was taken to the hospital. The child is missing.

After learning the truth, uncle became angry from embarrassment, and then strange way:

"If your family has no money, who will marry you? I have had enough of your family's eyes for so many years. "

Finally, menstruation regretted it and decided to divorce.

An interesting life phenomenon was observed:

Those marriages with great disparity ended in embarrassment; Those marriages that are suitable for each other have a long history.

Two people with different family backgrounds will have different lives and personalities, and all experiences will determine what kind of person he will become in the future.

The grievances suffered today will be filled elsewhere tomorrow; What we feel now will be taken away one day. The so-called humanity, even so.

Don't run counter to human nature, understand it and conform to it.

Love can be independent of family circumstances, and marriage must be appropriate.

No one takes advantage of anyone, no one is wronged, and no one is greedy for interests. Naturally, there are not so many hidden things to explode.

Only a suitable marriage has the possibility of long-term stability.

There is a kind of door-to-door, called the integration of three views.

When people from three views are together, they will get together in all directions and will not get tired of looking at each other.

Feifei and her husband are the most harmonious couple I have ever seen.

Feifei has always been a rational and sober person. Although she is very young, her choice is very mature.

Referring to the concept of mate selection, she said:

I have a principle when looking for someone. I never look for people whose patterns are much higher than mine, nor do I look for people whose horizons are lower than mine. I only look for people like me.

In fact, Feifei's husband is in line with her concept of mate selection, and even their past experiences are very similar.

Feifei graduated from 2 1 1 university, and her husband's university is 985 university.

Feifei was a schoolmaster when she went to school, and her husband's performance was also the level of school walking.

Feifei often preaches to us the accuracy of her concept of mate selection:

Two people have similar views and the same goal. Not only do they usually have a lot to say, but they are also in tune with each other.

She likes literature, and in her spare time, her husband discusses it with her;

My husband likes painting, and Feifei often watches art exhibitions with him.

The circle is the same, and the experience is similar. It is much easier to get along with each other, and there are not so many bumps.

They didn't even have a red eye. They quarreled once.

The so-called "suitability" does not mean that two people have equal financial resources, but that it is precisely because of their similar family backgrounds that they have the same views on things and the world.

Those marriages that get along well are just spiritual fit.

Don't please, don't please, you know what I'm talking about, and I understand your implication. Such feelings are really hard to get and precious.

Adult marriage is nothing more than finding a comfortable person.

As the writer Su Cen said:

At this age, no one wants to please anyone anymore. Stay with anyone who is comfortable, including friends, and stay away when you are tired.

When you are with people who feel comfortable, you will get along very comfortably and live a happy and harmonious life.

Some people say, "A gentleman is innocent, but a villain is guilty."

This sentence still applies in marriage.

Marriage is the right thing to do, and it is also the protection for two people.

If two people with a big gap form the closest relationship, it will give others a reason to hurt you at will.

These days, the wife-killing case in the legal report has caused extensive discussion.

A few years ago, a car accident happened on a roundabout road in Jinzhou, Liaoning. A man and a woman in the car were killed and injured. The wife died and the husband survived.

After some investigation, the police found several doubts in this case:

1. There was an extra pillow in front of her husband at the time of the crime, which just saved his life.

The place where the accident happened was the highway around the island. I can't figure out how this happened. My husband has to hit the fender vertically when driving, and there are no brake marks.

When the police searched his house, they found an insurance policy for suitcases, which contained insurance compensation worth 25.9 million yuan.

Incredibly, the last evidence pointed to her husband.

It turns out that his wife is indigenous, not only tall and beautiful, but also rich, while his husband is from Jinzhou, Liaoning Province, six years older than his wife.

The only problem with this woman is that she has a history of epilepsy.

When they got married, the woman's parents bought them a flat bed of 178 to take care of the young couple at ordinary times.

On the surface, the two people love each other very much, and the husband loves his wife very much, but no one expected this.

Afterwards, the girl regretted marrying her daughter like this.

A marriage with mismatched conditions is like a jewel-encrusted princess walking into a civilian's home. It's hard not to breed the idea of possessing it.

A good match in this world should not only choose the right person from the beginning, but also choose the impossible environment.

You haven't experienced any storms, you don't know that your heart is changeable, and you don't know whether the other person is human or not.

A "suitable" marriage can at least ensure that the other party is not pretending to be with you for coveting you.

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Choosing a partner is a very important thing in life, not only to polish your eyes, but also to verify your character.

In addition, it is necessary for two people to keep pace, have the same outlook and grow together.

Jane Eyre wrote:

Love is a game, we must always be evenly matched, so that we can rely on each other for a long time.

Because too strong opponents are tired, too weak opponents are boring.

May you find the right opponent, learn from each other and spend the rest of your life together.

Marriage is not easy. May you and I keep our eyes open, find a lover and spend our lives together.

Su Shanshan, not sensible, can only tell stories.

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