What women fear most is shallowness, and the most important thing to increase their knowledge is to understand history. For example, we should understand world history, China history, American history, German history, British history, Middle East history and Japanese history-this is still relatively shallow. It is difficult to combine history with economic and financial commodity companies, such as economic history, monetary history, financial history, corporate history, management history, industrial history, the history of a commodity (such as jewelry, painting, furniture, tea, wine) and the history of certain industries. It is necessary to understand important historical events, the progress of the times and important people.
2. Geography
Geographical knowledge is another important area to increase common sense. If Guinea doesn't know which continent she is in, or confuses Georgia with Georgia in the United States, or can't distinguish Sweden from Switzerland, and doesn't know where Istanbul and Kiev are, this conversation in life will be awkward. Geography should know at least more than 80% of the countries in the world, and 60% of the capitals of these 80% countries. You should know the important straits, plateaus, basins, mountains, rivers and deltas. China's provinces and provincial capitals, the prefecture-level cities in each province should be clear, American states should be clear, and major Japanese and German cities should know. Of course, there are many things to learn, such as financial center, commercial center, important ports, important mining areas, agricultural crop areas, famous tourist attractions and so on.
You can choose several places to go for a walk, and it will be better to experience it for yourself. But because of the time, it is not realistic to go. In addition, in some places, especially non-natural scenic spots, it is better to look at the relevant information than to look at it. Reading relevant materials is a more efficient way. In addition, if there is an opportunity, you should choose the in-depth experience test. For example, if you just go shopping in an internationally renowned city, you won't go as far as attending a research seminar there.
3. Don't touch knowledge
Biology, physics, politics, etc. The basic knowledge of high school is enough, unless you are particularly interested, there is no need to delve into it. In the field of philosophy, we are determined not to dabble. Every philosophy explains the operating rules of the world in detail, making it easy for readers to become believers in this philosophy. Once they are persuaded, they will become rigid and stubborn. A woman should be tolerant, tolerant, peaceful and gentle. Once her personality contains stubborn elements, she becomes tacky and unlovable. Generally speaking, people who have read Nietzsche's philosophy often ask Nietzsche everything. Anyone who has read Schopenhauer asks Schopenhauer everything, Kant, Kant, Marx and Marx. In fact, the world is still an open world. How can a person with limited life make the world clear with the rationality defined by human beings? Laplacian determinism developed into probability theory; It used to be said that two parallel lines do not intersect, and Einstein said that the world where two parallel lines intersect is real. Therefore, those who feel that the way the world works is in their own hands after reading one or two philosophy books are also frogs in the well. Of course, if you want to study philosophy, you should read more books and avoid following the views of one school completely. Some people object to that paragraph of philosophy, thinking that philosophy can shape people's souls. Actually, this is not right. It is common sense such as "history" that shapes people's souls. A person with common sense such as history, all philosophical theories are just annotations, and a person who only knows philosophy but doesn't know common sense will really make people feel empty and soulless when talking with him.
4. Things to know:
Important companies and organizations; The important commodities are tea, wine and so on. Cosmetics, bags, skirts, perfumes and a series of women's products, including well-known brands and so on; A series of men's products such as suits, watches, shoes and belts; In antiques, Chinese painting, furniture, porcelain and so on. , you can select one or two subdivision fields.
5. Law and medicine
Understand the basic knowledge of law and medical and health care.
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6. Theoretical knowledge of economics, finance (including very important accounting) and business, as well as some cases and examples. All this knowledge includes a practical knowledge: statistics, so you need to be familiar with it.
7. Knowledge and practice of cooking, home textiles and storage.
Let's talk about cooking. In today's commodity society, the gift you want to give a man is not made by yourself, but bought by you. The gifts you really make will be heavier, and you will find that there are only a few, except music, which are your own dishes and snacks. And eastern society pays more attention to diet. Even if your eyes are abroad, at least good cooking can be regarded as the identity tag of oriental women.
8. Music or other traditional China arts, one or more of piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, at least one.
9. Psychology and Emotional Intelligence
Psychology is very important, so I won't talk about it here. Speaking of EQ, EQ is not strictly a kind of "knowledge", but can be acquired through training. The role of emotional intelligence is very huge. The previous knowledge structure provides you with the basis of "goddess", and emotional intelligence will determine how long you can walk with your partner or how close you can get. Women should try their best to appease men, or try their best to gain the ability to appease men. Soothing others is an important ability of emotional intelligence. Of course, to appease others, we need the help of knowledge. You must first know where a man's inner anxiety lies, so you must know what he is saying. Sometimes a man is talking about his career problems, and you can know what he is talking about, even if he doesn't talk about his difficulties. You can know his difficulties and key problems according to what he said before, and then help him make suggestions. Of course, if your knowledge is limited, then high emotional intelligence will play a role. You can understand a man's mood completely by observing his words and deeds, and then prescribe the right medicine. If the other person is depressed, then you can cheer him up. If the other person really wants to support, but there are risks, and you can't judge where the risks are, and no one can help you judge, then you choose to support him enthusiastically. If the other person is a little carried away, you can wake him up.
To sum up, I am thinking that this is not only the knowledge structure of an excellent woman, but also the knowledge structure of a goddess. Of course, it's just for fun, mainly corresponding to the vague women's growth manual written by some "intimate sisters" in Douban. Maybe I'm writing the Knowledge Structure of an Excellent Person.