Steps and skills
Find the right time
Confession should not be like Zhang Fei's virtue. When both sides are unfamiliar, they will confess rashly. The other person doesn't necessarily dislike you, but makes them extremely uncomfortable and even runs away. The reason for this result is that you didn't find a suitable time to express your love. Everyone is multifaceted. At different times and in different moods, metropolis shows different words and deeds and makes different decisions and judgments. As for how to find the right time, it can be divided into two types:
1, seize the natural opportunity: the two sides have been in contact for a period of time, and they are familiar with each other and have a good impression. It's natural to catch the other person inadvertently showing affection for you in a relationship.
2. Create an artificial opportunity: have a fairly high understanding of each other, know her/his hobbies, living habits and emotional control and trend, and create a good place, time and environment for your love show without trace.
Seize the right moment, cultivate each other's good mood, and at the same time brew the best atmosphere for their own language and expression, so that confession can get twice the result with half the effort.
Clever use of various media
There are many introductions about this method, such as the method of affixing stamps in the last century, the method of folding letters, and the choice of stationery on love letters. There are more and more popular flowers, radio and television, as well as innovative and loving gifts, such as chocolate, flowers, jewelry and lovers' shirts. I won't go into details here.
Ingeniously borrow the mouth of a friend
Sometimes, for reasons of courage, timing and security, it is often not suitable for you to express your love to each other, so you can express your love to each other with the help of your friends. The general method is: when you take her/him with friends, you can tell your friends in advance and make some jokes about you two, such as: joking that you two are suitable together; Really? You two really have a tacit understanding; XX values sex more than friends. Every time I call XX out late, I always have no time. With a snort, people run faster than rabbits ... of course, this kind of joke must be given to my best friend who has this specialty. Pay attention to the occasion and temperature, and don't overdo it.
Cleverly borrow each other's friends and family.
This method of expressing love has two advantages: on the one hand, it can overcome one's own shortcomings, on the other hand, it can make the other party relax their vigilance and break it more easily. The general method is: find out which family members or good friends the other person has, and it is best to have a suitable opportunity to communicate with her/his family members or friends. You can try your best to show your good side in front of them, such as tenderness, career prospects, good quality and sense of responsibility. Of course, more importantly, you should let them know that you care about her/him and like to know everything about her/him. In this way, her/his friends and family will naturally have a good impression on you. Out of selfishness, they will help you finish this marriage easily from the heart, will put in a good word for you in front of her spontaneously, fix you up, and more importantly, their words are most convincing to her/him.
Actions are more lethal than words.
In life, both words and actions are important, but relatively speaking, actions should be more than words. The so-called facts speak louder than words, that is to say, no matter how many words, it is better to act with facts. Language confession is nothing more than "I like you and I love you", but it is action that proves "I like you and I love you". There are many ways to show love by actions, such as: recalling important days related to her/him; Know her/his preferences and do what she likes; Strive to create opportunities to get close to her/him; When she/he is in trouble, never give up ... these are confessions.
Stick to it
What I want to say here is that after confession. Confession is not the end, but the beginning. Confess your success, stick to your love, spend time and energy watering love and let it blossom and bear fruit, which is complete. Confession is unsuccessful and there is no need to be discouraged. In fact, once you fail, there will be a second time. As long as the persistent pursuit is not too extreme, the other party still has a considerable chance to accept your love.
I wish you all a beautiful and happy love!
Like a person, how to express it? You'd better find a chance to come out and talk.
If you are born, you'd better confess.
Don't force others, let alone yourself!
I like a person who doesn't know how to express himself. I am disgusted to see that some boys want to chase their favorite girls, but they dare not, and want others to chase them. From the girl's point of view, I know more about the girl's psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative. Don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer. When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt. Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking? Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved. If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. And when you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may be regretting, regretting! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her.
She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up? Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ ~ ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary. Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead and pester them to fight, leaving a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue their favorite girl and continue to be nice to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't work, there's nothing to regret. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend. If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What was the sweetness of the original hard work? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded. Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you! By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I would rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets!
How to express love for a person?
What needs to be clear is that
Go tell each other.
There is no need to think too much.
Just make it clear.
Like a person, how to express it? Seek answers. Be bold and confident. It is also best to know whether the other person likes you or not, and the environment when you confess. Emotional tone is also very important.
I like someone, but I don't know how to express it. What shall we do? First of all, you should create an opportunity to know you. Then, it's really a coincidence that when I meet you, I ask her or him where to go. Then you can say I'll go, and then we'll go together. Then you can say that it is really fate to meet you like this. Can we be friends? Let's do it one by one. First of all, you should understand the correct living habits, personality, hobbies and interests, and then take it slowly and step by step. If you can get things done well, you must not worry.
If you like the way a person expresses his feelings, on an important day, Valentine's Day or his birthday, make a phone call, send a text message, write a letter, or send a gift to express his feelings.
There are actually many ways to express your love for a person (for example, hints), to see if you really love her, and the girl is passive, to let her know that you care about her, like her, love her, and care more about her in life, which can also be reflected in the newsletter; Food, clothing, housing and transportation, just really care about her at work. Secondly, give her the right gift at the right time. You can choose it yourself, but it's suitable for Chinese New Year, her birthday, the day when we first met, Valentine's Day and so on. As for what to give, it depends on whether you have used your head. Pay attention to things that are not necessarily expensive, just be careful. There are many ways and means. Maybe your idea will be more romantic than mine.
What is the most appropriate way to express your love for a person? Confession, that's one thing, direct point,: I like you.
You'd better find a chance to express yourself in person. If you are shy, call. If you are not good at talking, write.