One day, Zhao Jianzi visited the Yellow River by boat and was very happy. Looking at the surging river, suddenly, Zhao Jianzi deeply regrets ground say:
"How can I get a smart person and get along with him all day?"
Rowing man named "Gu Cheng", after listening to Zhao Jianzi's exclamation, bowed deeply to Zhao Jianzi and said:
"Adult listen to me take the liberty of saying a few words. Look at those jewels and jewelry. They have no long feet. They are thousands of miles away from here, but they can come here. Why? This is because people like them and find them from thousands of miles away. Smart people have long feet. I'm afraid they won't come because you don't like them? "
Zhao Jianzi said, "No, I always recruit talents. There are thousands of diners at my door. My support for them is also sincere. If I find that there is not enough food in the morning, I will immediately send someone to the market to collect taxes and supply them at night. If you don't have enough to eat at night, send someone to the market to collect taxes and supply them in the morning. I am so sincere and generous to them, can I say that I don't like smart people? "
After listening to Zhao Jianzi, Gu Cheng said, "The swan can fly high and far because it relies on hard wings. The fine hair on its back and the fluff on its abdomen are long and short, loose and soft, and more or less uncertain. This kind of hair, one less does not affect its flying high, and one more does not affect its flying low. Adults, what you need to rely on should be useful talents who can make you soar like wings, not useless talents who are as insignificant as fine fluff. There are not many talented people, let alone mediocre people. I wonder if there are any talents as useful as the wings of a swan among the thousands of diners in Qian Qian? Not all fine fluff! "
Zhao Jianzi was deeply encouraged by Gu Cheng's words. There are thousands of diners in Qian Qian, but he often feels yearning for the wise. I'm afraid the reason is very clear.
Cherish and select talents, not in quantity and form, but in seeking truly useful talents, which is beneficial to the country and itself. This is a wise move.
A group of monkeys are playing in the Woods. Some of them jump in the tree, while others fight on the ground. They are very happy. One of them ran to a well next to the forest to play alone. He lay by the well and put his neck into it. Suddenly he shouted, "Oh, no! The moon fell into the well! " It turned out that the little monkey saw a moon in the well.
When a big monkey heard the cry, he ran to the well and looked into it. He was also surprised and shouted, "Oh, no, the moon has fallen into the well!" " "Their cries alarmed the monkey, and the old monkey came running towards the well with a large group of monkeys. When they saw the moon in the well, they all exclaimed together: "Oh, it's over, oh, it's over!" "The moon really fell into the well!" Monkeys are chirping and making noises. Finally, the old monkey said, "Stop yelling and let's try to get the moon up!" " "All monkeys are duty-bound to respond to the old monkey's suggestion and join the team that catches the moon.
There is an old pagoda tree by the well. The old monkey jumped into the tree first and hung upside down. The other monkeys held my legs one by one, and I hooked your head and hung it into a long strip, lowering my head and walking deep into the well. The little monkey is very light, hanging at the bottom, reaching into the well water, you can catch the moon. The monkeys thought, now we can always catch the moon. They are very happy.
The little monkey reached into the well to catch the moon, but he couldn't catch the moon except a few drops of water. The little monkey kept scratching and scratching, fishing for a long time, but still couldn't catch the moon.
The monkey hanging upside down for a long time felt very tired and could not support himself. Some began to complain: "hurry up and fish, why haven't you caught it yet?" Some shouted, "Mom, I can't hang up! I can't hang up! "
The old monkey's back hurts and his leg hurts gradually. He suddenly looked up and found that the moon was still in the sky, so he said loudly, "Stop fishing, stop fishing, the moon is still in the sky!" " "
All the monkeys look up at the sky. The moon in the sky is really good.
Because the monkeys don't know the truth about the moon in the well and don't take it seriously, they are busy, stupid and ridiculous.
Once upon a time, there was a westerner named La. That day, he was eating with his wife. The maid brought a plate of meat, and Mubabi's wife took off the small gold hairpin on her head and put a piece of meat on the plate. She was about to eat when a guest was called outside the door. Muba pricked up to greet the guests, and his wife quickly put down the golden hairpin wearing meat and got up to make tea for the guests. After the guests left, the husband and wife returned to the table. When they looked at it, they found that the golden hairpin in the meat was gone.
At that time, besides the Muhachi couple, there was a handmaid who was busy going in and out, so both Muhachi couples insisted that the handmaid had stolen the gold hairpin. They forced the maid to kneel down and let her take out the golden hairpin. The handmaid cried that she didn't steal it. Mubasang's wife was very angry, so she picked up a stick and tortured the poor Meidochan again and again. The little maid has always insisted that she didn't steal the gold hairpin. Finally, she was tortured to death by the Muba Priests, but Jin Chai was never found.
A year later, Mubasan hired a craftsman to repair the house. When the craftsman was cleaning the dirt in the roof tile ditch, something suddenly fell to the ground and made a metallic noise. Muba thorn can be seen from the side, so pick it up quickly. It turned out that it was the little golden hairpin that his wife lost a year ago. At the same time, a rotten bone also fell.
Muba thorn hurriedly called his wife, and the husband and wife suddenly realized that the cat must have stolen the meat while the owner was not looking, and carried Xiaojinchai to the roof together. At that time, no one noticed, even the little maid didn't see it, so that she died with grievances. It's really pathetic. Mr. and Mrs. Muhachi are also deeply guilty and uneasy. Unfortunately, it's too late to regret it.
Things in the world are complicated. How can we draw a conclusion only by subjective inference and superficial phenomena? If this continues, it will only make things worse.
There is a moral fable story 4. There was a gifted scholar named Pan Yue in the Jin Dynasty.
Pan Yue not only has a high academic level and a good personality, but also has fine eyes, a straight nose, red lips and white teeth, and is very handsome. Coupled with his natural and unrestrained manner, he is like a symmetrical tree, charming and charming.
Pan Yue likes hunting very much and often takes his hunting slingshot to the suburbs to play. When he walked out of Luoyang Street, when women saw him from a distance, they would rush to tell each other: "That handsome and witty Pan Yue is coming, please see where it is!" In this way, all the women who admire Pan Yue came to see him. The more people look at it, the more attracted they are to his beautiful appearance and extraordinary bearing, so they form a circle hand in hand and surround Pan Yue in the middle, reluctant to let him leave. For a time, what Pan Yue loved by everyone was passed down as a beautiful talk at that time.
There is a poet named Zuo Si who has a rat's head and a rat's eye. He is ugly and has a wretched temperament. When he heard about it, he was envious. He couldn't help thinking: Pan Yue can hunt, and so can I. Why don't I go hunting in the suburbs like him? Maybe women will fall in love with me!
I made up my mind, left my heart to tidy up, and the next day I left Luoyang Street with a slingshot. When women saw the man with a slingshot from a distance, they thought it was Pan Yue again. They were very happy and gathered together. When the man came closer and took a closer look, it turned out to be an ugly little old man, and the women waiting to see Pan Yue were very disappointed.
Moreover, Zuo Si is proud to see that there are really so many women around him. Who knows that the woman spat at him as soon as she came over and said in disgust, "Bah, ugly, what a shame!" " Zuo Si was caught off guard and was vomited all over his face, so he had to wipe it, turned around in a panic and fled home.
Zuo Si ignored the internal factor of Pan Yue's popularity, that is, his handsome appearance, and blindly imitated others in form, which was counterproductive. It can be seen that imitation should be based on the same objective conditions and should not be blindly copied. Otherwise, it is difficult to get the expected effect.
Owls live in the Woods in the west. This bird is the most active bird at night. They prey on mice and other small animals. Supposedly, owls should be friends of human beings and should be praised by people. But those who live near the Woods don't welcome owls as their neighbors because owls are really ugly. Especially at night, when you are on a business trip occasionally and pass by that forest, suddenly making a few strange phone calls can really scare you into goose bumps and cold sweat. So people always try to get rid of owls.
The owl is very depressed. It moved from one nest to another, but it was still unpopular wherever it went, and people always heard the voice of blame and scolding. The owl thought, the people here are really mean. I have to move far away.
The owl made up her mind this time. It tried to fly eastward for three days and nights. It was exhausted and couldn't fly any more before it stopped in the Woods on the way to rest.
A turtledove was surprised to find that the owl looked depressed and tired. Turtledove asked the owl, "You are so tired, what are you going to do?"
The owl said, "I want to move to the far, far east."
Turtledove looked at it puzzled and said, "Why?"
The owl sighed and said, "people in the west are too difficult to get along with." They all hate me and say my voice is terrible. I can't live in the west anymore. I'm moving! " This time I made up my mind to move to the Far East, as far away from the west as possible! "
Turtledove smiled like a little sister and said, "Can moving solve the problem?" In my opinion, no matter where you move, the result is the same. "
The owl didn't understand the meaning of the turtledove and frowned and asked, "Then why? Can't I leave them? "
Turtledove said earnestly, "Isn't the truth obvious? If you can't change your ugly voice, even if you move to the farthest east, you won't be welcomed by orientals. "
There seems to be no way to change the owl's ugly voice, so it is hard to be liked by neighbors. The problem is that it can't see its own shortcomings and deficiencies. It just complains about the unfavorable environment and the unfriendly attitude of others, thus pinning the hope of changing the situation on changing the environment. This is really in vain.
Six or six monkeys were kept in three empty houses, two in each room, and a certain amount of food was put in each house. But the food in the first room is on the ground, and the food in the second room is hung at different heights from easy to difficult. The food in the third room was hung on the roof, and a few days later. They found that the monkey in the first room was dead, one was injured, two monkeys in the third room were dead, and only two monkeys in the second room were alive and well.
It turned out that the two monkeys in the first family saw the food on the ground as soon as they entered the room. As a result, one person died and another was injured in the competition for readily available food. Although the monkey in the third room tried hard, he was starved to death because the food was too high to reach.
Only the two monkeys in the second room jumped up to feed on their own, then ran obliquely in the room to increase the run-up distance and jumped up to feed. Finally, for the sake of hanging food high, the two monkeys decided that only cooperation could be achieved. So, one monkey picked up another monkey and jumped up to feed. In this way, we can get enough food every day and both of us can survive.
This fable shows that the difficulty of the post is too low, everyone can do it, and they can't show their ability and level, so they can't select talents. But turned into infighting and even killing, and the result was no different from the two monkeys in the first palace; The difficulty of the post is too great, although it is hard, it often fails to reflect the ability and level, and even buries and obliterates talents, just like two monkeys in three rooms; When the post is difficult, step by step, such as the food of the second room, can truly reflect people's ability and level and give play to people's initiative and wisdom.
Once upon a time, there was an old hen who hatched seven chicks at a time. Lele, the little hen, was the most naughty.
One day, the old hen began to count the number of chicks again. When she checked, she found that Lele, the little hen, was gone. Where did she go?
It turns out that Lele has long wanted to go out and see the outside world. Today, he sneaked out while the hen was not looking.
Lele walked away and found a mole.
"good morning, mole!" Lele said, "Can you play with me?"
"Sorry, little hen. I have to dig a new tunnel today. " Said the mole.
"Then can I see how you dig the tunnel?" Lele asked.
"Of course. However, you can only follow me and don't affect my work. "
Nothing can be seen in the dark passage. Lele followed the mole and accidentally hit the wall and fell down. Lele cried in pain.
"Why are you crying?" Asked the mole.
"I'm sorry, I fell. But I really don't want to stay inside. Because I can't see anything, I want to go back. Can you drive me? " Lele said.
The mole said, "Do you still need to send this? Turn around and you can go out by yourself. " With that, Mole went on working, ignoring Lele.
Lele had to turn around by himself, and then slowly walked out by touching the passage.
"ah! The sun is already high in the tree, how warm it is! " Lele said and stretched himself.
Lele keeps walking. Soon, she came to a small river. He is tired and thirsty. Ready to go to the river to drink some water.
"Stop! Wait a minute! "
Lele got a fright. Looking back, it was mother duck calling him.
Mother Duck said, "Come back, let's line up and get into the water together."
Lele had to walk over and saw six ducklings standing neatly behind her mother.
"Stand still!" Mother duck said, "Get ready first, then go into the water."
"Section one, move the joints." Mother Duck gives the password "One, two, three ..."
"Sorry, Mother Duck." Lele said, "I'm not a duckling, I'm a hen."
"Oh, my God! So you are a little hen? " The nearsighted mother duck cried. "What are you doing by the river?"
Lele said, "I'm thirsty and want to drink some water." However, I mainly want to see the outside world. Mother duck, can you promise me to play with these ducklings? "
"Of course!" Mother duck said, "I will teach them to swim today." Let's study together if you like! " "
"That's so happy." Lele said, there are six ducklings lined up.
"Now continue to do preparatory activities." Mother Duck began to give the password "One, Two, Three ……" Lele couldn't do exercises, so she had to wriggle with the ducklings.
Mother duck is nearsighted. She didn't find Lele's practice wrong.
"You can go into the water now." Mother duck finally gave the order to go into the water. "Attention, one follows the other, don't fall behind."
Lele followed him into the water. Ah, the water is really cold. She doesn't know how to paddle. However, she took a step forward.
"Help!" Lele felt that she was sinking and cried nervously.
Mother duck quickly jumped into the water and saved Lele. Lele kept spitting water.
Mother Duck said, "It is difficult for you to be a child who can swim. Maybe you can only stay on land forever. "
Lele said, "No matter what you say, I have to thank you first, because you saved me. Secondly, I still want to thank you, because you let me taste the taste of swimming. "
Mother duck shook her head, jumped into the water and led the duckling to swim.
Lele stood on the shore, trembling all over, and she dared not go into the water again.
Just then, she heard her mother's voice: "Lele, where are you?"
"Mom, I'm here!" Lele shouted and ran to her mother.
"Mom, I'm so glad to see you!" Lele said.
"Good boy, don't run around in the future. I can't see you. How worried my mother is!"
Lele was sheltered by her mother. She said, "I want to see the outside world. In fact, the best place is in her warm arms. "
A moral fable Article 8 Crabs, owls and bats go to a bad habit cram school. A few years later, they all graduated successfully and got their doctorates. However, crabs are still rampant, owls still sleep during the day and move at night, and bats are still upside down.
Psychological review
This is Huang Yongyu's fable, and its moral is simple: action is more important than knowledge.
When applied to mental health, this fable is also thought-provoking.
The knowledge of psychology is extensive and profound. However, no amount of psychological knowledge can automatically help 1 people become healthier. In fact, some people I know who have studied psychology for many years, one of their purposes is to cure themselves, but after studying for so many years, problems still exist.
There are 1 very important reasons, because they don't practice, so knowledge is only distant knowledge, and knowledge has not been transformed into their own life experience.
My 1 friend who likes psychology has been considered insensitive by many psychologists and is not suitable for studying psychology. But it turns out that this speculation is not correct. He is not sensitive enough, but he has the great advantage of 1: knowing the good knowledge of 1, he will immediately implement it in his own life. In this way, those distant knowledge becomes real life experience, and he can help himself and many people without knowing too much.
If high sensitivity is the genius trait of 1, then high mobility is a more important genius trait.
This fable can also be extended to another meaning of 1: don't expect too much from the magic of mysterious psychotherapy. The most important power is always in yourself. Mysterious knowledge, mysterious potential development, dazzling success and so on. Far less important than the power you already have. We are used to looking for answers and strength from others, but forget that strength lies in ourselves.
Remember: other people's knowledge can't save you automatically.
If some of Julian's witticisms touched you, if some words or new beliefs inspired you. Then, these other people's words and experiences are just the beginning of 1 More importantly, you really apply what you think is good knowledge to your life.
This sentence of the Jewish philosopher martin buber, I always think it is the most important:
You must start by yourself. If you don't live deeply with positive love, if you don't reveal the meaning of life for yourself in your own way, then life is still meaningless to you.
In the cold and windy winter, a snail in the botanical garden is slowly climbing up the apple tree step by step. Sparrows and squirrels from nearby trees came around curiously and really laughed at it. One of the sparrows flew up to it and said, "Hey, silly guy, don't you know there are no apples on this tree?" Why are you still struggling to climb up? "The snail didn't stop its pace. As he climbed, he said, "When I get there, there will be some. "
There is a child named Beibei, who is good at everything except being picky about food.
One morning, my mother fried cabbage. Beibei saw it and pouted and said, "Green vegetables are tasteless, I won't eat them!" " The little white rabbit saw it and said happily, "If you don't eat, I will eat!" " "So, it jumped over and ate up the cabbage in three bites!
One day, when mother cooked fish, Beibei saw it and pouted and said, "Fish has thorns, I won't eat it!" " "Xiaohua Mall saw it and said happily," If you don't eat, I will eat! "So, it jumped on the table and ate up the fish!
In this way, the white rabbit and the kitten are full. They are tall, strong and beautiful! Beibei is thin and small.
As a result, Beibei also learned to be a white rabbit and a kitten. She is not picky about food. She is full every day and grows tall and strong.
Fable story The moon is hidden behind the clouds.
It was dark, and a small snail crawled in the Woods and walked home slowly. A brown bear came and stamped on the leaves. The light in the Woods is very dark, and the little snail is very small. Brown bear didn't see him, and his big foot was about to step on the snail.
The snail shouted, and Brown Bear's feet moved away: "Sorry, you are too young to see you."
A rabbit came and almost stepped on a snail: "Sorry, you are too young to see you."
The little snail crawled forward in fear and saw a bug in the grass ahead. The bug said, "My wing is broken and I can't fly." The little snail said, "Please carry it on my back and I'll take you home." The little snail walked forward with the bug on his back, and suddenly a small lantern lit up on his back. It turns out that this bug is a firefly. Ha, with the small lantern lighting, no one will step on the small snail this time!
A long time ago, in the west, most people believed in God. They think that God is the master of all things in the world, and so are many knowledgeable people.
Niels is a man with the highest respect for God. He went to school when he was very young. At school, he is influenced by knowledge every day. For some people who can't go to school, Dennis's life is like a fairy.
But God created "man" to let "man" come into the world to accept suffering and improve his soul. People who travel too smoothly will be at a loss once they encounter a storm unexpectedly.
Niels is happy, but he is not happy with him. Niels was heartbroken when his parents both died in an accidental wound accident. But in this society, people who have no money have no friends. So is Niels. None of his relatives who used to go to give him charity. He is helpless. After all, he was once the child of a rich family. Without his parents, he doesn't know how to support himself, so he can only live alone. But he didn't complain. He felt that all this should be arranged by God. He didn't complain.
Until one day, Niels finally became a beggar, living on the streets like other beggars, with the sole purpose of filling his stomach all day. The difference is that ordinary beggars make a living by begging, but Niels is different. He thinks that kind of behavior is too humble. He doesn't want to do that, let alone beg. He doesn't even feel lucky about other people's charity. On the contrary, he thinks it is an invasion of his personality. He never treats himself as a beggar. If someone sympathizes with him intentionally or unintentionally, he will shout loudly, "No! I am not a beggar! Take your things and your disgusting face! Oh, my God! God will punish you! I will! "
On the other hand, Qiuwen is a real beggar. He is used to the life of a beggar.
When Qiuwen first met Niels, he thought it was time. Without himself, he knew Niels would die.
A few days ago, Qiuwen met a priest by chance. Although Qiu Wen is a beggar, he also believes in the existence of God. He thinks that God will give him a chance to get rich. The priest told Qiuwen that Qiuwen had offended God and had to do a good deed to forgive him. So Qiuwen followed Niels every day, and he thought he could make Niels live longer. And Niels still treats him as a poor man, even worse than that. After all, Qiuwen is also a beggar, and Niels often insults Qiuwen.
One day not long after, Niels and Qiuwen were sunbathing in a corner of the street when suddenly they found a big truck carrying many people. Autumn grain ran past-this is the beggar's instinct. Niels, on the other hand, did not move. He looked down on Qiu Wen's behavior.
"Good man, give me something to eat! For God's sake, God will bless you. " Qiu Wen still said that old line.
The driver looked at the autumn pattern, then smiled furtively and whispered to a car owner sitting in the second seat, "Well, that's good, beggars can bear hardships, and we don't have to give you money, just let him eat!"
The shopkeeper didn't speak, just nodded, as if agreeing.
"Would you like to go with us? We can give you food every day as long as you are willing to help us. " The driver said to Qiu Wen.
Hearing this, Qiuwen jumped on the bus without thinking. He felt that he didn't need to follow that idiot anymore, because he felt that God had forgiven him and given him a chance to get rich.
In this way, Qiuwen left, but the car was bought by the gold digger in that part of California.
Later, Niels finally couldn't compete with the "hungry" demon, so he died. But he still didn't complain. He thought it was God's plan.
Niels' sincerity touched God, and God saw that he was particularly kind.
God: Poor boy, why are you so stupid? My child.
Niels: Those pesky guys treat me like a beggar, but I'm not. I'm really not, dear God.
God: You didn't eat what they gave you, did you? My child.
Niels: Oh, yes, when I was young, my father told me that it was humiliating to eat what others gave me. This is what my father told me.
God: didn't your father tell you that beggars will die if they don't eat what others give them?
Niels: Dear God, no, Dad didn't tell me. He said I was a good boy and you would like me.
God said nothing but sighed, shook his head and disappeared.