Just show your normal state, there is no need to hide it, especially the values and consumption views. With the deepening of getting along, two people will get to know each other better and feel inappropriate after getting along. It is better to use your own requirements and conditions from the beginning to screen out some people who don't need to get along. Real men don't dislike that women like jewelry and spend money, but constantly improve themselves, so as to give economic conditions to those who love themselves. Of course, women should not rely too much on men. What they can earn and give themselves is their true self.