On the eve of Chinese Valentine's Day, Min Min sent a message that I am single again. Please make a plane to spend Valentine's Day with me.

I was having a drink and getting my nails done. After reading her message, I almost sprayed Sprite on my green nails.

Min Min, 28, is an energetic professional woman. After six years of hard work, she got a promotion and salary increase, bought a house and a car, and lived a colorful life except for a boyfriend.

Min Min is an emotional girl, so she would rather have nothing than nothing. Many people introduced her boyfriend, but all failed.

At work last year, she met a partner, Mr. Z. He was thin and tall with delicate features and clear eyes. When he smiles, he gives people a different warmth.

Min Min fell in love with Mr. Z at first sight.

In the communication, Mr. Z also took great care of Min Min. The two of them naturally came together.

Mr Z is three years younger than Min Min. It is said that men mature late, while Mr. Z acts like a child and is often sensitive and willful.

Soon after they got together, Mr. Z resigned. He wants to start a business, but hasn't found a suitable project yet. So I thought about it during the break.

Without a job, the source of income was cut off, so they went out to eat and play together, and all the expenses were paid by Min Min alone.

Even Mr Z's rent for half a year is paid by Min Min. One thousand eight hundred a month. There are more than 10 thousand in half a year

Mr. Z always said that all the money was borrowed from Min Min first, and he would definitely pay it back later.

Two months ago, they signed up for a group tour to Thailand, one week in Bangkok and Koh Samui.

When they first got together, Mr. Z promised to go out with Min Min.

It happened that Min Min was on annual leave, but Mr. Z said that the money would be paid by Min Min first and then returned to her.

In fact, as long as two people are happy together, Min Min doesn't care whose money they spend.

For a week, the two of them swam happily at the seaside and lived a sweet life.

Before leaving, in a jewelry store in Bangkok, Min Min took a fancy to a ruby necklace, full of bright colors. She couldn't put it down. But the price is equivalent to 4000 yuan.

Mr z is too expensive for Min Min to buy. Min Min said, anyway, the birthday is coming soon, just as a gift for yourself?

But Mr. Z still disagrees. It's too expensive. I don't think it's worth it.

Min Min was so stubborn that he bought it himself. Therefore, Mr. Z ignored Min Min on his way back.

When he came back, he told his friends that Min Min worshiped money and was not suitable for life.

Min Min was very angry. Why do I worship gold? When I help you pay the rent for half a year, when I buy a plane ticket and book a hotel, I help you pay hundreds of thousands of coupons every time. Don't you say I worship money? I spent my own money and bought myself a necklace as a birthday present, so I worship gold? Whose gold do I worship?

We had a quarrel about it and finally broke up.

After breaking up, Mr. Z spread word everywhere. Min Min, a gold digger, broke up with him because he was too poor to support her.

Shit, I broke up with you because you were poor. Why? You bit me! Min Min gnashed her teeth when she said these words.

Frightened, I quickly handed her a glass of mango juice, which was shocking!

Second,

After my best friend Xiao Ran was with her boyfriend Li Xiansen, she didn't show up at our sister group's party. Asked her why, she faltered for a long time: it turned out that Li Xiansen didn't allow her to eat out often, because either you or she paid for eating, and eating and drinking together would cost a lot of money, which was not cost-effective. Not like a living woman.

I was dumbfounded for ten seconds. Er, is this still Meng's little darling daughter? I can't help feeling that the power of love is really great!

After they get together, they cook at home every day, and each meal can't be higher than the standard of ten yuan. Li Xiansen is careful and thrifty. There's nothing wrong with that. But in the long run, Xiao Ran can't help complaining. So Li Xiansen often stared at the US delegation and snapped up a Japanese food or Taiwan Province hot pot at a price of 50% off.

After eating hot pot, Li Xiansen stood at the front desk and put whistling mints in his pocket one by one. Xiao Ran a face of embarrassment stood by, corner collided with the waiter's murderous eyes. She wants to put her head in the bag.

Li Xiansen ignored it, loaded with mints and happily took Xiao Ran out. Eating hot pot once is rewarding and cost-effective. I'll bring you back when there is a discount next month!

Xiao Ran endured the details of life, but he couldn't stand buying a house.

They talked for two years, and when it came to marriage, Xiao Ran mentioned buying a house. Her requirements are not high, just like setting up a home in the city where she works, small and warm.

Because they are very frugal after being together, Xiao Ran calculated that they should have saved 80,000 yuan in the past two years, and they can find some support from their parents, so they should be able to pay the down payment.

But about buying a house, Li Xiansen is not in a hurry, always looking for reasons to shirk. Once Xiao Ran was annoyed, Li Xiansen said that he gave his family 60,000 yuan six months ago, and the family needed to build a house urgently, saying that he would pay it back one year later. He didn't expect that during this period, Xiao Ran would mention buying a house.

Xiao Ran was particularly angry. Why did he lend their money without saying a word? But what made her angry most was that she felt that Li Xiansen didn't regard her as a girlfriend at all and didn't know her at all. Did he decide that she wouldn't lend money to his family without consulting?

As a result, the two broke up because of differences over money. Six months after the breakup, Li Xiansen returned Xiao Ran's money to her.

Li Xiansen told friends around him that Xiao Ran was a power eye and broke up with him because he had no money to buy a house!

Angry Xiao Ran took more than two months to recover.

After breaking up, Xiao Ran joined the sister party again, and she can buy bags, lipsticks, skin care products and skirts for herself with confidence every month. ......

Xiao Ran said, I was finally liberated. I don't want to wear only one lipstick a year. I can only buy one dress a season. I have to wait until the discount. You can only go out by bus or subway. Eating hot pot depends on the waiter's face. .......

My youth is limited. I want to spend my own money and live a satisfactory life.

Third,

In the movie Men Can't Be Poor, the first hero, Xue Ke, is a clerk in a company. He has a girlfriend who has been dating for years. Ina is gentle and beautiful, and makes more money than Xue Kezheng.

When Xue Ke lost his job, he saw Ina get into a Porsche and hug the owner. He thinks that Edna is cheating.

So I didn't take the initiative to contact Ina for several months, and then when we talked about breaking up, I came to the tea restaurant where they first dated.

When Xue Kezheng saw Ina carrying a new bag, he began to satirize Ina on the rich list. I don't like him because he is poor.

Edna said that we have been together for so many years. Have you thought about our future? When shall we buy a house? When to get married ... you never think about it, all you think about is yourself. ......

After breaking up, Xue Kezheng still thought that Aina broke up with him because he was poor, and he was furious.

However, he didn't know that the Porsche that Ina was sitting in was owned by her boss, a capable woman with short hair. She hugged her boss because her brother was seriously ill and she was extremely depressed.

Yes, how can a girl who is willing to have a simple tea restaurant with you at Christmas break up with you because you are poor?

When two people are together, they have to experience sweetness, twists and turns, and stand up to dullness. In these seemingly simple lives, there are thorns hidden.

There are actually many reasons for breaking up, but for young men with strong self-esteem and not rich, it is usually easy to attribute the reason for breaking up to, I am poor!

Yes, "I am poor" is a sufficient reason, and I have no mind to think about it at all. Why did I break up? Did you do something wrong, didn't care enough and didn't understand each other enough? Are you not a good boyfriend?

I have to prevaricate myself with "I am too poor" to maintain that proud self-esteem. But when you are young, poverty is a big deal! Wealth can work together, but the right lover is hard to change.

If you happen to have such a girl by your side, are you willing to love and cherish her?