Boys chase girls to chat.
Many times we can find that many boys chase girls on social software and give up halfway. There must be many external factors interfering with the reasons for giving up, but we can't ignore the internal factors. It's like chatting with a girl, which is very hot at first, and then you find that the chat between the two people is getting more and more boring at the back, and then you are too lazy to talk to yourself and can't find a topic. Send good morning in the morning, pay attention to safety at work, what are you afraid of eating at noon, and send it at night? What to eat? Many people chat like this every day. It happens every day. There is a change ahead. Of course, nothing happened during the chat. Needless to say, it is between men and women, even between the same sex. Sending it like this every day is boring, boring. So when talking to girls, you need to use more diversified words.
I didn't know how to chat before, and chatting with girls was always impossible, even being deleted and hacked. In fact, it's all caused by chatting. I don't know anything about chatting, so girls like it. Later, I read a book about chasing girls-Zhuge's secret skills of falling in love, only to know that chatting is a very important link, which directly determines the subsequent development of you and this girl. Then I began to practice the heart-to-heart chat in the book. In the next month, I brought seven or eight girls home, one more than one. Although it is not a party every night, it is super cool. Brothers who want to learn can have a look. There are e-books on the internet. You can find them by looking them up.
We can find the topic through questions and answers and feedback. When we say question and answer, we don't mean that you ask her a question and then answer it, nor do we mean that you ask and then answer it yourself. We should learn to get feedback and information by asking questions. Quite simply, question answering and feedback is to ask a girl a question, then two people share their own things with each other, and then feed back their own ideas and methods. Go back to the chat conversation just now. For example, say good morning, and then the girl will definitely say good morning to you, and then you can say one. I may not arrive early tomorrow. What do you need to work overtime tomorrow? This expands the information and then expresses some of your life or work. For example, ask her what to eat at noon or in the evening. If she always has a working meal at home or cooks it herself, she can ask her out as a joke or buy it for her. Anyway, when girls can't find a topic, you must find a topic. How can we talk on this day?
Boys chase girls to chat.
And learn to be ambiguous and emotional. Every girl likes different things. But it's pretty much the same. I believe most people don't like boiled water. You can add some sugar and pepper to attract him, and then let him enjoy chatting with you. Just ask him how many days a boy has in his life. Then the girl answers you, and then you answer. Once you are over 30, a boy is no longer a boy. In short, through some ambiguity in language. Create a little atmosphere of two people.
In fact, it is not particularly difficult to chat with girls to find a topic. Maybe you are too lazy to study and do it. You need to be impulsive for love once. If you have courage, you are afraid to say that you love you. Time will not wait for you, and girls will not wait for you. If you win the honor, no one will wait for you. Appropriate sweet talk, even if a girl despises you, she will enjoy your sweet talk very much. So don't be afraid, have courage.
Chatting with girls, if you want to chat happily, you really need to spend some time, otherwise there will be "embarrassing chat" So what topics should I talk to girls about?
I think the most important thing is that you should know her preferences first, and then give targeted "counseling", so that you can know what you can say and what you can't say, and then you can say it well.
Actually, there is no fixed routine, but when you really like someone, you will naturally take the time to get to know her. When you know her to a certain extent, there is no shortage of topics.
I'm not sure whether you are a boy or a girl, but I'll answer from a boy's point of view anyway.
For most girls, you must have something to say when you talk to her about the person she hates the most. She will tell you in detail how annoying this person is. At this time, you must stand with her. You are responsible for denouncing those who hate what she says.
Talk about her hobbies. If you know this knowledge, you can talk together. If you don't know, you can let her tell you. After listening, you are responsible for shouting 666. Be sure to praise it. You can also ask her to teach you, or tell you your hobbies, so as to pave the way for in-depth conversation or the next conversation.
If you know about cosmetics, makeup and weight loss, you can talk about it. Basically, all girls have no resistance to this.
You need a special girl to analyze the rest. For example, she likes to gossip, so you can chat with her. She likes movies, so she talks about movies. Like TV series, talk about TV series. In this part, everyone needs a chat method. You need to analyze her personality between the lines, and then all you have to do is get her pulse right and say what she wants to say.
To sum up, we must share the same enemy with them and stand behind her at all times. What is good for your face and body will always be your favorite.
Any girl who sees a problem can ask, am I right? Because it is from my point of view, thank you.
High-quality chat content is the foundation, and you can use the following methods freely.
Use once effective chat topics.
If you think that every time you meet someone new, you have to talk about it now, it's all wet. Reuse of jokes, stories and news has proved to be interesting and entertaining.
What worked in the past is likely to work again.
Tap the passion of others
We all like to talk about things that excite us. Ask them, what makes them live meaningfully? It may be dogs, cats, children, music and so on. You are a detective. Go and follow the clue. Your reward: someone will be happy to chat with you.
Read some news and gossip every day to keep abreast of current world events. Choose some topics.
You can read news headlines and search for topics that pop up in your mind. If so, you are not afraid to say nothing.
Apply the principle of reciprocity
Pay first, then pay. Open yourself first and let others know about you. If you say something about yourself to others, others will think you deserve something in return.
There is no need to reveal too much privacy, just feel free. It's easy to tell what you did that day or that week.
Knowing what to say is just the tip of the iceberg.
In a word, chatting is a very common thing. If you can chat with girls like an old friend you haven't seen for years, you don't have to worry that chatting will blacken you. I won't dwell on what topic to use to open girls.
The topic of chatting with girls can be divided into the following topics if it is tried and tested.
Travel: There are no girls who don't like to travel. If you want to develop better with her, then talk about where the girl wants to go and where she wants to travel. He said that he likes a place and may have the opportunity to travel together.
Pets: Girls have no resistance to cute creatures. If you like pets, girls may think you are a very caring person. This is also a good way to start a topic.
Gourmet: Aren't all the girls' stomachs delicious? At the same time, you must have a deep understanding of food, otherwise you won't have the capital to talk about food with girls.
The above are basically enough for you to talk about.
Girl talk. Ha ha.
I observed it.
1 lipstick. If a boy knows a little about lipstick, then a girl can usually talk a lot about this topic alone and talk about her views on a certain color number.
Many girls also like to play games, like an actress who is addicted to games to make money. But most girls don't like talking about games, they just like to communicate while playing. How to be chased and beaten is really serious. However, he will occasionally talk about his teammates being upset by the explosion in the game.
3 rice. Discuss with the girls where the snacks nearby are delicious and which window in the canteen is delicious. So-and-so girls can even smell the spicy incense pots on the first and second floors of the canteen.
Four stars. But to find out which star she likes, it will be embarrassing if you say she is opposite.
⑤ Korean dramas. I have observed many girls, no matter whether the royal elder sister is cute or cute, all like watching Korean dramas. I usually go to see my royal sister again, just like when I watch Korean dramas.
1. The weather has started.
2. like to interrupt
3. Briefly talk about the little feelings in life.
4. Talk about childhood, memories and childhood dreams
5. Talk about small animals and love.
6. Talking about movies and first love,
Organize according to this step. Please call me Lei Feng.
When chatting, you must talk about the same topics and the same language. Only people on one channel can chat. For an open person, Momo is a good platform everywhere, and for an introverted person, the glory of the king is also a good platform to eat chicken, where you can meet all kinds of people. Having a platform is equivalent to chatting with your own plug-in, which works well every time. Don't go looking for any topic!
Daughter, 2 1, as a girl, I know what topics girls are interested in. Girls look at things that hate men and women, but they are really eager.
I am a girl who often can't sleep at night, mainly because I don't have a boyfriend, so I am often chatted by boys at night. I also like this process.
How to spend the long night? Wechat talked about a boy who turned out to be my colleague. I know him but he doesn't know me. He looks very sunny. Through chatting, I know that he stole my underwear several times. I said how strange I was inside. However, there is still a sense of excitement in my shame. We spend every night in ambiguity, and both body and mind can be satisfied, you know. . .
Oh, the diamond my boyfriend gave me is missing, only the size of an egg, so I don't think I can find it.
Oh, my boyfriend must have pulled my car out again. Look, the one parked in front of the jewelry store has no roof.