My reader Huizi told me that she fell in love with a married man. I don't know what to do.

The story of Keiko and her company executives began two years ago.

Two years ago, Huizi just graduated from his own marketing major. She is excellent and lucky to be admitted to a big company. Keiko is young and beautiful, willing to endure hardships, willing to work hard, and has high emotional intelligence. In just half a year, she stood out among the newcomers who joined the company at the same time.

Keiko's Excellence has given her the opportunity to have a close dialogue with others.

The first conversation between them was very official, and it was nothing more than the reward and suggestion of the sales director to excellent employees.

This meeting is too official. Both of them regard each other as an excellent junior who can be promoted and regard each other as an example they need to learn. But even in the official conversation, Qiang still remembers the cleverness and beauty, but also admires Qiang's maturity and gentleman.

After this conversation, Keiko and Qiang almost never had any contact again.

It's just that Keiko is still heartbroken about her strength.

At the company's annual meeting, his strong, handsome, upright and elegant demeanor made him stand out among the same level executives with a big belly or sparse hair.

And his humorous speech at the annual meeting, which didn't deviate from the theme, touched the girl's heart in Huizi.

The love affair with Qiang began with the establishment of a new branch company and the appointment of Qiang as the general manager. The boss asked Qiang to choose some people from the head office to help Qiang in the branch office. Among many old people, he is the only newcomer who is forced to take away.

When I arrived at the branch office, the two people had more contact. During the day, Keiko jumps around in front of a deer, and her heart is strong. When she returns to the rented house at night, she will begin to accuse herself of being immoral to like a married man.

What really makes Keiko fall in love with Qiang is because of the following thing.

It is said that girls who do sales are brave girls and often have to bear some grievances and some misunderstandings and gossip.

Keiko has been talking about cooperation with a foreign company. At the dinner party where Keiko decided to speed up the chase and let the other party sign the contract, she was forced to drink a lot that day, and the whole person was in a daze. When her company colleagues came to the bathroom with her, two foreign men from the other company began to touch her.

Keiko couldn't hide, and even if his colleagues came back, the two foreign men went too far and even threatened to let Keiko leave without company.

Just when Huizi and his colleagues were desperate, he picked up the soup and threw it at them, cursing them in fluent English. Finally, the two men fled in despair after receiving the call.

We can imagine that when a girl is in such a dangerous situation, a man appears as an absolute hero and saves her. I think most girls should fall in love.

I fell in love with Qiang, but Qiang didn't respond, refused, and occasionally was slightly ambiguous.

Huizi is aching all over. She is suffering for her love, blaming herself for her immoral love for married men, struggling for whether she likes herself or not, and even more mad about how she got into this situation.

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Girls fall in love with their uncles, and uncles fall in love with girls. This is a common case in the emotional world.

Uncle has a successful career, and her wealth, social status, wisdom and age-old demeanor fascinate girls.

The girl's youthful beauty, innocence and incomparable admiration for her uncle all make her want to give her uncle endless love.

However, can this feeling really last?

Uncle has his own family, his wife who accompanied him through hardships and hardships, and his descendants and children.

Girls have parents who want their lives to be smooth, safe and happy, and they also have kindness and pride who don't want to destroy other people's families.

Even if the girl is willing to follow Zhuo Wenjun's example for love, no matter what, as long as she is a relative, I am willing to elope with him and wander to the ends of the earth, but will uncle?

I'm afraid that in the end, uncle can only give the girl material and occasional warmth, but she needs the girl to bear the shackles of "mistress" all her life.

Listening to a friend's story about her senior sister, Ali's senior sister is beautiful and a special governor. It's a pity that her family condition is not good.

Ali's father is ill in bed and needs injections and medicine all the year round. Besides providing for her to go to college, she also has a younger brother who goes to junior high school. The family is supported by her mother's meager salary as a cleaner.

So when she was in college, Ali would definitely take a part-time job as soon as she had time, just to shelter her stormy family.

Ali has a beautiful face and is very tall. The most part-time job she does is welcoming guests. Ellie and Liang met when she was a part-time hostess.

Ali has many suitors, but the burden on this girl is too heavy and too proud, so she has never had love with anyone else, and Liang is definitely an accident in her life.

The uncle knew the self-esteem of a poor and proud girl, so he didn't pursue Ali's frivolity with roses in his hand, nor did he spend a lot of money to crush Ali's simplicity.

He just moistens things quietly to show his kindness, kindness to Ali, sometimes like a lover, sometimes like a friend, sometimes like an elder.

The world is always greedy and picky. Rich people throw money at each other and think they don't respect themselves. People who have no money are supported by feelings. They think love is too pitiful.

Therefore, when a successful man takes out his feelings and love to pursue a woman, he will often seek benevolence and get twice the result with half the effort.

Ali finally threw herself into Liang's arms, waiting for the man who said his wife had bad feelings to divorce and marry her.

A girl who has never experienced the world, so naive.

When the noble and forbearing woman appeared in front of her and Liang and asked Liang if she wanted her family, children, reputation, and everything he owned was still Ali, she realized that she was so stupid, and the man abandoned her like this.

When the woman said to her, "Little girl, you are still young, don't be so embarrassed, it will ruin your reputation all your life." She found herself uncompetitive in this battle for love.

Later, Ali not only lost Liang, but also lost the qualification of conservation research. Terrible gossip overturned her like a flood.

It must feel good to be in love with a mature man. They are like an all-knowing encyclopedia, like a castle with countless treasures. They can understand everything girls want to know and give them everything they want.

A mature man is more like a solid house, which can give a girl a strong support and block all storms.

However, being with a married man is particularly dangerous. Just like a thief who steals other people's jewelry and secretly lives in other people's homes, when the time comes, the Lord will find that everything he thinks he has will disappear, and what's worse, he will be judged by fate.

Like a dream, everything is illusory.

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In fact, in reality, the feelings of most girls' uncles are similar to those of Mr. Jin Yong's Yang Guo and Guo Xiang.

Only a few people in the world will have the loyalty of Yang Guo, and a few people will have the courage and kindness of Guo Xiang.

Yang Guo is absolutely cool in Guo Xiang's teenage life.

Wearing a mask and leaving a wisp of vicissitudes of life white hair, he took off his mask and became handsome and mature.

He made her three wishes with three gold needles, sent fireworks to Mongolia, got rid of the spy and accepted him with a dog stick.

Even his deep affection for another woman made little Guo Xiang deeply fascinated by him.

But Guo Xiang loves the condor heroes, not Yang Guo. She loves the mature vicissitudes of the condor, his martial arts, and the mystery that she can't understand anyway.

If Guo Xiang saw Yang Guo, cursed by her father, unable to be insulted and wandering like a beggar, would she still love him?

All this is like a girl who fell in love with her uncle but didn't fall in love with a teenager of the same age, but please remember that every uncle like God was once a teenager who was confused, afraid of failure and looked down upon by the world.

If you love someone only because of his scenery, and you can't see him once down and out, the final trend of such feelings must be the separation of mutual disappointment.

Young girls and uncles are like poppies. Beauty is beautiful, but once it is contaminated with its toxicity, it will be unforgettable. It is the most regrettable love for a young girl to fall in love with a married man. They fell in love with running water, but it always accompanied the riverbed.

Guo Xiang has a seemingly naive but affectionate saying, she said:

Unfortunately, I was born twenty years late. If my mother had taught me to be a second sister, I would have learned Master's dragon elephant Prajnaparamita and supreme yoga secret riding, and settled down outside the Quanzhen Taoist temple, calling myself the dragon lady. Yang Guo Jr. was bullied by Master in Quanzhen Sect and fled to my home. I took him in and taught him martial arts, and he will gradually get along with me.

When he meets the little dragon girl again, the best he can do is to hold her hand, give her three gold needles and say, "Little sister, you are lovely, and I like you in my heart." But my heart belongs to the dragon lady. Please don't blame! What's the matter? Bring a gold needle and I'll make it for you. "

It is a pity, but it can only be a pity.

You were born before I was born, and I was old when I was born. On the day I love you, you have joined the team.

Falling in love with a married man is a disaster, and the best way for Du Jie is to forget it. You don't have to say "cherish" or "goodbye", so don't say goodbye. The world of mortals will always meet the right person to say good night to you.

Girl, please remember that that man, no matter how good, is someone else's husband and father after all.

Don't do absolutely wrong things like a desperate gambler, don't steal other people's hard work like a robber or thief, and don't fight for it like a buffoon who thinks he is very powerful, and make many gaffes.

A girl's life is so long, don't lose it for an absolutely wrong love.

About the author: A northland woman leaning against the wall with a slight smile, but growing wantonly. I hope I can do my best in the first half of my life and face the sea in the second half. Weibo @ Smile against the wall @ Smile against the wall.