No one's life is bitter. If you are born ordinary, you need to rely on yourself for everything, and you want to live a full and surplus life, which is enviable. And this road will also encounter incomprehension, ridicule and curse. How to break it?
All people who leave home have restless curiosity, wondering what the world is like, wondering what they are like, and wondering what others are like. From curiosity to accepting the world, when you fill in the first choice on the college entrance examination volunteer form, when you are working with hundreds of internship salaries, when you look up at the most magnificent building in this city and want to know who lives in it, when you are always eager to try endless new performances, new restaurants and new tricks ... In fact, you have made up your mind to choose this city and choose this life. You have to face such suffering.
This is a call to the story. I want to write stories about 20 women. All kinds of industries and all kinds of life. Serialized on my WeChat platform, in the form of short stories.
Why do I write? Everyone knows the routines in Ode to Joy, and the plot of children playing house is left over by others playing Sex and the City. The reason why Ode to Joy 2 is not good-looking is because these people have encountered different problems, but there is still no progress compared with the first one. When you see this situation in the first picture, you may simply think: I am so angry, how can this girl be so stupid? The second part, you just want to say: Is it fucking over? I guess this play will be filmed in the third season. I just hope that when they encounter the same problem again, please don't be crazy again. You think everyone else is a fool!
Nowadays, urban emotional dramas inevitably need to gather a bunch of women to watch, such as Tiny Times, Best Friends and, of course, Ode to Joy. Why? Because there are too few people, how can you tear it? Who are you going to show it to?
On the contrary, I happened to see an online drama "Tokyo Women's Picture Book" recently. This online drama has an episode of *** 1 1, each episode is 20 minutes. Although it is short, it describes a woman's most brilliant twenty years. Therefore, each episode only selects some important life nodes of the heroine to express.
Why did you try to leave your hometown?
Why did you choose to rent a house in this location?
Why not hesitate to choose such a man?
Why is it not easy to deal with everything in life calmly and coldly?
This play deserves every woman present to take the time to watch it carefully. It describes a woman's choice at a critical moment in her life, which deserves everyone's consideration. Think about yourself again, from mountains and rivers, from plains, from the seaside, from hometown ... what you experienced before you came to your present city, did your present job and developed your present tastes and habits, and you will easily be fascinated by Tokyo women's picture books. Because you can find your own shadow in it.
The heroine and the group of people represented by the heroine rely too much on men, who know that they have the right way to change their destiny, but they constantly seek happiness through various dirty means. When the pursuit of happiness is too ambitious, it will inevitably be countered by it. Because there are too many things you can't get and too many things you want, happiness is getting farther and farther away. Their purpose is just to make people envy. You know, true happiness is not to be envied, but to feel it yourself.
When a woman is over 30 years old, she suddenly realizes that life is short, and she must be responsible for herself first. How can you have time to consider the options imposed by others when your own desires are not completed and filled? Isn't the greatest ideal in our life to live a good life for ourselves? Don't repeat the model of the previous generation, don't rely on anyone's charity, constantly correct yourself according to your own preferences, try to reduce the influence of family background, growth setbacks and social reality on yourself, and finally live into what you like.
With the growth of age and experience, my heart is becoming more and more calm. Some dreams can only be dreams, and a quiet life is actually a luxury. Break the inner desires, learn to look at the world with a calm and objective eye, and slowly accept and adapt …
Look at your hands when you are desperate. Say to yourself: this is all I have. I have never had any luck, but I have a pair of hands that can work and study. Opening them is a prayer, and closing them is a will. You have to face everything in life, and never say goodbye. Friends, lovers, relatives. Many times, there is no such thing as "say goodbye". You must learn to rely less. By the way, you should be accompanied by loneliness, not defeated by loneliness.
People who always look at themselves and never regret their choices will one day find themselves rich inside and outside, no matter how different their life directions are.
That's why I want to write an opportunity here to collect stories. On the one hand, I feel interesting and curious. Secondly, I want to sort out how we live together in this concrete forest and make us. Be brave and tell your story.
Of course, you can add my private WeChat (yangui555), or you can sort out your story and send it to my mailbox ((342835296@qq.com) to write down your demands anonymously. And try to tell your province that I will be named after "XX Women's Picture Book".
Want to see it? Forward the solicitation, or give me a compliment, give me a little confidence and give myself a little courage.
Girl, I have wine. Do you have a story?
Poof! I don't have time!
Never mind, I can wait.
When you tell your story.