Let's see what the gift is for the first time.
1, a gift for male mothers
(1) Cosmetics
Women generally like cosmetics or skin care products, so male mothers are no exception. Especially for middle-aged women, maintenance is very important. So girls can go to the counter to buy some cosmetics and skin care products and use them as much as possible.
(2) Clothing category
Clothing gifts are also a very good choice, and you can look at what clothes according to your partner's interest list. Some parents like coats. You can choose a famous brand coat. Some parents prefer to collect silk scars, so some high-grade fabrics are naturally the best choice. A man and a mother who accept their favorite gifts will definitely give you a higher score.
(3) Jewelry
Jewelry is easier to own. If you have this kind of financial strength, it is not bad to send some jewelry. For example, necklaces and bracelets are all elderly women, which is very meaningful. In terms of price, it can't be too low or too expensive. You must be suitable.
2. Gifts for male fathers
(1) tea
Tea is the first choice for gifts. No matter how many people don't want to drink tea, tea is a very good choice. Basically, every family will prepare some good tea, whether it is drinking or treating guests. So girls can make some good tea for men and win their love.
(2) Smoking and drinking
Alcohol and tobacco are things that many middle-aged people like, and they are also good ideas for giving gifts. If a man's father likes smoking and drinking, you can give this gift. Even if you don't particularly like this gift, alcohol and tobacco are still very useful. When guests come, they always need some alcohol, tobacco and entertainment.
(3) hobbies
In fact, the most intimate gift is based on parents' hobbies, but it will be more troublesome. If the other person likes fishing, he can send fishing-related items. If the opponent likes playing chess, he can give a chessboard. Check the gifts and pay attention to choosing professionals, otherwise it will be generous.
The first time, the first time I saw my parents' taboos:
1, dress up boldly
Clothes are the most important performance, so you must leave a good first impression on the man's parents. Don't be too bold, parents can't understand. It's better to keep it. Instruments are very important things. Wearing it can show a girl's character and a girl's demeanor.
2, indecent way in a man's home must be polite, don't turn your face, don't be too casual. In the presentation, you will get a score. Your manners reflect your family education, so he greeted the man's parents on his own initiative. This is an important detail when I first met the man's parents.
3. Call for a drink
Don't ask your boyfriend to drink when you meet his parents. Some mothers-in-law think that their son is the best in the world, and it is difficult to accept that girls abandon their son. On the contrary, girls should help in men's homes. Even if they don't cook, I must help do something. I can do something before meals. Be sure to help clear up the tableware after dinner and maintain a diligent image.
Step 4 give money directly
When you meet your parents for the first time, it's best not to give out red envelopes directly. This is a big taboo. Some young people think it's too much trouble to choose gifts, so I will give them directly. Because as we all know, the other party may think that you have a stronger one, and you must have no table. But if you have good capital in advance, or the custom is like this, that is another matter.