? During this period, the Korean drama "itaewon Class" has come to a grand finale. As expected, the man successfully fought back and defeated the chairman of Changjia, who likes to make people kneel. At first, this Korean drama was very eye-catching, because the heroine was overbearing and powerful. With the development of the plot, more people began to pay attention to the theme expression of the plot. Although the tortuous and bizarre plot will not be staged in real life, the thinking about this drama is closely related to each of us: but it is not your fault, will you apologize?
1. Don't kneel on PuShi Road.
Many netizens who follow the drama commented that this is a drama that is finished by kneeling down. The important story line of this drama also revolves around the patriarchal family representing powerful forces in an attempt to make the man who insists on his beliefs kneel down and apologize. There are mainly three times in the play about kneeling:
The first time: Zhang Genyuan, the eldest parent, bullied the disadvantaged students at school by virtue of his family's power. Other students in the class and even the teacher are afraid to stand up for the bullied students because of his family's influence. They all connived at Zhang Genyuan's atrocities silently. After witnessing Zhang Genxiu's bullying behavior for the first time, Park Shilu, a freshman who transferred to another school, helped him and beat his prince, which also brought disaster to himself. When the chairman of Changjia asked Park Shilu to kneel down and apologize, things were turned upside down. Park Shilu refused to kneel because his father taught him to live for his beliefs. The consequence of refusing to kneel this time was that he was ordered to drop out of school on the first day of transfer, and his father who worked in Chang's home was also implicated and left his hometown where he had worked for 20 years.
The second time, my parents accidentally drove into Park Shilu's father in the middle of the night. Because they didn't dare to take responsibility and fled the scene, Minister Park lost the best rescue opportunity and died. Parents found a scapegoat to hide the truth and bribed the police station to hide the truth. The man who found out the truth couldn't restrain his anger and sought revenge for Zhang Genyuan who escaped from the accident. Under the report of the second woman, the police arrived in time, and the man was also convicted of attempted murder. Chairman Chang Jia once again asked Park Shilu to kneel down and apologize when he visited the prison as a condition for letting him go. The strong-willed man knelt down again when he heard this word, and his eyes were red with anger. He made up his mind to take revenge and crush the family that bullied others. The consequence of that man's refusal this time is that he has been in prison for several years.
The third time, with the help of the host Zhao and a group of friends, I set up my own company ic. Careful management, the company's strength can gradually compete with Longjia. However, the release of Zhang Gengen, the eldest brother who was imprisoned for being reported for the truth of the hit-and-run began to change all this. In order to avenge and protect the family, Zhang Genyuan hired a gangster brother to kidnap Zhao and told the chairman of the family the kidnapping address. In order to save the woman, Pu Shilu came to Zhao's house and asked about her whereabouts. The chairman also asked the man to kneel down in exchange. For the safety of women, men finally decided to kneel down. The result of this kneeling is satisfactory. With the help of the man, the man and his friends, the woman was successfully rescued and her long-term abusive family was punished.
2. Growing up gives apologies more meaning.
Although there are most fictional links in TV series, there are few such tortuous and legendary stories in real life, but the question reflected in this TV series is that almost everyone has experienced it, that is, when something is not your fault, will you wronged yourself and apologize to calm the contradiction?
I believe that everyone has heard of this sentence, "Nothing, just bear it. I know it's not your fault, but you apologize and turn over a page. Everyone is happy, isn't it? " The people who say these words may be thinking of you, but they are like the dragon chairman in the play asking you to change your principles and bow your head to admit your mistakes. At this time, the choice is in your own hands.
I once read this sentence in a book, which was quite touching: "Growth is like a bag with holes. You keep picking up things on the ground when you grow up. Every time I bend over to pick up something, something always falls out of the hole in my bag, and these things are often my original self. What is pressed at the bottom of the bag is the most primitive principle and the purest initial heart.
Sometimes, in order to take care of the overall situation, or to reduce unnecessary troubles, we often wronged our hearts to sum up what we didn't want to do, and even apologized for things that weren't our fault. These things may happen between friends who quarrel because of differences, between husband and wife who have conflicts, or when they have disputes with superiors, everyone will make their own choices in their own rules to weigh the pros and cons.
When I was a child, I apologized for what I had done wrong. As I get older, I apologize for being given more meaning.
A small quarrel with friends and an apology may make you get back together, and a couple's small temper in love can also be cured by an apology. In the workplace, apologizing to the boss may save your job and maintain family expenses.
? The word "I'm sorry" may have been said countless times in our lives, but which one is a sincere apology for one's mistakes and which one is a lie to one's heart for various reasons. And the ratio of these two situations, your inner weighing method will tell you. Some people choose to stick to themselves and never bow their heads. Some people make choices against their will but out of goodwill. Others have lost the ability to judge themselves. As long as they make mistakes, they will take responsibility for themselves.
May every sentence of "I'm sorry" have a good home.
In any case, no one can force everyone to stick to their principles like the man in itaewon's class, what's more, for the sake of the woman's safety, the man finally chose to kneel. Your choice is up to you, but please note that no matter in love, relationship or workplace, saying sorry will only make you have no principles and bottom line. It is not worth advocating to lower yourself blindly. We are not born to say sorry, so you should know how to stop loss in time and give up your relationship. When you grow up, don't squeeze out all the most precious things in your bag just because you are looking for the jewels left on the road. I only hope that the destination of every "sorry" is my inner responsibility, not flattery and shirking.
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