Many men will also include "femininity" in the process of mate selection. In their view, a feminine woman is a real woman and a woman who makes her heart beat.
As a result, many women regard the cultivation of "femininity" as their lifelong homework, and even spend a lot of time, energy and money just to attract more men's attention.
It is true that some women do make themselves "feminine" in the eyes of others by practicing from the inside out, but this is often "women are pleasing to themselves", and at the expense of retreating their edges and corners, it is inevitable to make people feel pity.
There are also some women who are often complained by men that they are "not feminine", "lacking feminine taste" and "not like a woman", and some women even feel inferior and lose interest in life.
So, what exactly is femininity? In order to make women more aware of this concept, I interviewed six men of different ages and listened to their truth.
@ Youth is a 20-year-old sophomore who is used to spending money. "Femininity is beauty."
As far as people of my age are concerned, femininity means having a beautiful face, bright eyes, snowy skin and long hair like a waterfall. Such a girl looks pleasing to the eye and makes people want to be close.
I have a crush on a girl at present. She is my senior, two years older than me, but I don't care at all, because she is so beautiful that my whole body and mind are attracted by her.
I would do anything to please her, even if it sent me to hell. It's a pity that she has never really looked at me, because there are so many men around her that people like me can't get into her eyes at all.
There is a saying that "what you can't get is always in turmoil." She completely occupied my heart. I dreamed that she gave me a sweet smile, and that face lit up my whole starry sky.
@ Qian Shan Wanshui 28-year-old company employee "Women are to be kind"
"My fair lady, a gentleman is a good gentleman", and our ancestors are very wise. They emphasized in the Book of Songs that a gentle and virtuous woman is a man's dream. It can be seen that kind women are easily liked.
I chose my wife as my partner because I accidentally found that she is a very kind person. When interacting with people, she always smiles and speaks softly, which makes people feel very comfortable, just like the little jasper described in ancient books.
What moved me most was that my mother was strong and overbearing, always making things difficult for her for no reason, but she never cared, and she was always filial to my mother, that is, her kindness, which eventually melted my mother's heart and praised her wife to everyone.
Kindness gives a woman a unique charm and makes her more like a woman. Therefore, I think a kind woman is the best for me.
@ The day we live, 39-year-old company director "Independent women are the most charming"
As the top of the company, I have more dealings with women and know them better. In my opinion, women who have a certain position in the workplace can live a superior life only if they have strong professional ability and high income. Such a woman often exudes a unique charm.
Of course, it doesn't matter that women can make money. More importantly, a woman should be mature and independent in addition to economic independence, which is what men like.
Why are independent women the most attractive? Because women are not independent, lose their personality and thoughts, they will be rejected by men sooner or later. Therefore, women should have their own selves at all times.
In other words, women who are not only obedient to men, not bound by men, but also have thoughts, opinions, tastes and pursuits, and have their own lives are more sought after by men. In the eyes of men, such a woman is full of femininity and exudes a charming taste.
@ 丫丫丫丫丫丫丫丫丫 CEO "A woman with high emotional intelligence can control a man"
At my age, I have seen many things and people. In my opinion, feminine women, without exception, have high emotional intelligence.
You will be comfortable with a woman with high emotional intelligence. She will understand your needs, won't nag, won't get to the bottom of it, and won't gossip about you everywhere. In short, a woman with high emotional intelligence is like a bunch of daisies by the window, elegant and fragrant.
A woman with high emotional intelligence is as soft as water. She knows how to turn an enemy into a friend, which can not only make others feel happy and happy, but also let herself get away with it and protect herself.
Such a woman never talks to men, but she will listen to her.
Therefore, the most important thing for women is to cultivate their emotional intelligence, especially when they get along with men, so that men can be dead set on you and make their lives happier.
@ Suddenly Looking Back 55-year-old Sales Manager "A woman who has seen the world is the cutest"
I'm a jewelry salesman. In order to promote my products, I often give them earrings, bracelets and other trinkets. Some women see this, just like granny Liu entered the Grand View Garden, with a full face of excitement. It wasn't long before they paid for our products and thought it was a big bargain. We all like such customers, after all, we can make money from them.
There is also a class of women who don't even lift their eyelids when they see these small objects, and are unmoved by the sales promotion of salespeople, but insist on their own eyes until they make up their minds to buy them. This kind of woman is generally seen the world, but also know some jewelry market, so she will be so calm.
In my opinion, this kind of woman who has seen the world, is not confused by small favors and is not afraid of power is the cutest.
@ 嗯嗯嗯嗯嗯嗯嗯嗯 60-year-old photographer "elegant women are the most beautiful"
Until I went to France to shoot and saw old women walking up and down the street. Although they have no gorgeous makeup and are no longer young and beautiful, they have unique traces of time. Their steps are calm, their mentality is peaceful, and even the smiles on their faces are peaceful.
At that moment, I realized that femininity is not a face, nor a dress, but an elegance, a tranquility after big waves, an open-mindedness after experiencing the world, and an Enron after loyal wife.
The reason why I can understand the beauty of women may be related to my age. Many things can't find their beauty until they reach a certain age. This is inevitable, but it is also regrettable.
What exactly is femininity? Six men of different ranks expressed their opinions. Beautiful, kind, independent, with high emotional intelligence, knowledgeable and elegant.
A thousand men may be a thousand women. As for what femininity is, that is a matter of opinion. Women don't have to cling to a certain point of view and be bound by a certain prejudice, otherwise they will be trapped by themselves.
As a woman, in fact, women of all ages have different tastes. Moreover, every woman has her own advantages and is unique in the world.
The world is made up of men and women, and women need men's appreciation to bloom more enchanting. Therefore, women can't be narcissistic and don't take men's opinions seriously. But in the end, women should learn to be themselves and cultivate their own taste.
When a woman doesn't go with the flow, but insists on her inner innocence, be true to herself and manage her life well, I believe she will meet a man who really appreciates herself and live a happy life.
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