Now I take off the dream of red mansions that has been shelved and read it carefully like tea. Suddenly I feel that love is just an indispensable condiment.
A Dream of Red Mansions originated from the touch of pearl grass on the Linghe River, which was watered by people waiting for God. Because of too much watering, all five parts were stagnant. We don't know how the stone became a servant of God and how the servant of God became Jia Baoyu. We just think it's quite mythical.
When I finished reading A Dream of Red Mansions, I almost stayed for half a day. The tragic ending of The Daughter of A Dream of Red Mansions makes me extremely sad. The great change of Rongning Building from "full of gold and silver" to "humble room and empty house" made me gasp. It's like "Hulala Building collapsed, and the lights were miserable at dusk."
Think at the beginning, Rong Ning Erfu was full of traffic, busy for a while, extremely luxurious, but in the end it was dilapidated and empty. The characters in Rongning Mansion once owned gold, silver and jewels and lived in gorgeous halls. Who ever wanted to be a pariah and everyone vilified them? The process of Rongning Building from prosperity to decline made me meditate for a long time. It is people's endless greed and desire, because they don't like their work so much, but how can they expect shackles to carry it? Some people want to get something for nothing, but they are finally sent to prison. The struggle for power and the darkness of society led to the collapse of the Red Chamber. In such a feudal society, men and women in the Grand View Garden can't control their own destiny. Although Lin Daiyu was proficient in chess and calligraphy, everyone praised her talent and temperament, but in the end she died of depression at a young age. Baochai is steady in everything, knows the main idea, and is proficient in poetry and songs. Originally, it was a golden wedding, but she only saw Mushi Qianmeng, but unfortunately she was a virgin and missed her life. Ying Chun is both talented and beautiful, but alas, I met the Zhongshan Wolf, blindly extravagant and extravagant, sighing that my soul is gorgeous, and I have been away for a long time ... All kinds of talented children in the Red Chamber have scattered away, and the once prosperous life is like a dream!
Everything in A Dream of Red Mansions is so sad. When I close the book, I feel how far away it is from the story of the children of the Red Chamber. I am bathed in the spring breeze of the Party and live in New China. How happy I am!
Besides, the lower bound of LYSIMACHIA has become a humanoid named Dai Yu. Thank God for irrigating him with tears of life. Daiyu is withdrawn and not born. She lost her mother when she was young and lived in her grandmother's house. But this is not a warm and loving family, but a dirty place.
Grandmother Jia seems to be charitable and kind to Granny Liu, but in fact, she is boasting, but it is just a farce of "carrying locusts without chewing". Qin is the person who can enjoy food most in the "upper class". He praised Daiyu and said that Daiyu was "eloquent and unkind". Wang Xifeng, who is good at flattering and catering to others, is nothing more than "birthday celebration" and "rudeness" in Daiyu's view. Daiyu, a self-righteous "outsider", also saw through the hypocrisy of her red makeup. Even xiren, who Mrs. Wang thought she was "knowledgeable", was fooled by Xiangyun and could not escape Daiyu's eyes. Daiyu hit the nail on the head-"I only regard you as my sister-in-law." As a result, Daiyu was considered to be "small, thoughtful and narrow-minded", and without the demeanor of a good family, she could not be selected as "Grandma Bao 'er" and eventually became a "lonely fairy in the world".
Although Daiyu is a "school sister" and also known as a "chicken belly", she has nothing but infatuation. She is ungrateful and arrogant, but "it's hard to blow the autumn wind". Don't criticize her too much for being "oversensitive". In fact, it's not her fault. She should think more about the people around her.
Of all the women, only Baochai can be compared with Daiyu. She is rich in furniture and good at dealing with people, which are better than the sad and rebellious Daiyu. She is a model of a good family. She has no former alliance, but she believes in a beautiful marriage.
When she first arrived at Jia's house, "even the servants were close to Baochai", and Aunt Zhao also called her kind. At the birthday party, she knew that the old lady "likes lively operas" and "likes to eat sweet and rotten things" and let her speak according to her meaning. She decorated Wu Hengting Courtyard in a simple way, giving people a feeling of quiet lady and making people feel frugal. She helped Mrs. Wang get rid of the knot. At the banquet, everyone laughed at Granny Liu, a countryman, except Baochai. It was Cao Weng who forgot this number, but it wasn't. It's just that she keeps good manners. On the one hand, she made Wang Xifeng feel that "I don't know everything if I don't do anything, and I don't know everything if I ask", on the other hand, she made the old lady and Mrs. Wang feel that "small benefits are average". If you listen to Daiyu's sarcasm, people will think that she never bears a grudge. When she overheard Xiaohong's conversation with Zhui Er, she lied about playing hide-and-seek with Daiyu. Her cleverness in dealing with the world is in sharp contrast with Daiyu's lofty. As a result, Baochai was regarded as "a good family, docile and knowledgeable" and was chosen as "Grandma Bao Er", which eventually became "the crystal snow of a noble scholar in the mountains".
I have never liked Baochai, and I can't accept her marrying Baoyu emotionally. Her tactfulness and meekness seem hypocritical to me. Close the relationship with Daiyu through some small things, and let Daiyu feel "like a sister". Treating Baoyu is better and smoother, which is completely different from Daiyu's suspicion.
When Daiyu died, she just said "Hello Baoyu" and died. If I were to fill in this sentence, I would think it was "Baoyu, you are so cruel." Why are you so cruel to abandon Daiyu and marry Baochai? This made Daiyu very uncomfortable. How can an empty woman survive when her infatuation is reduced to ashes? As everyone knows, this is just Mrs. Wang's replacement plan. Baoyu is not heartless, but always thinks that it is Daiyu who gets married. Besides, Baochai, a noble woman and a good girl, married a man who didn't love herself in the name of others. After Baoyu lifted the red veil, he found that Sister Lin had become the disappointment of Sister Bao, so he left Baochai there. What a pity! Originally, I was "heartless and affectionate", but I ended up alone in an empty boudoir.
At this point, I suddenly realized that Baochai was also a victim, and what really harmed people was the feudal ethics that ate people.
At first glance, the title "Details Decide Success or Failure" seems to be making a mountain out of a molehill, but after reading this book carefully, I feel deeply. In the book, the author constantly emphasizes that no matter what work you do, you should pay attention to small things, pay attention to details, do small things thoroughly, and reveal the truth of "seeing the essence in details" and "seeing the big thing in small things", which is greater than ordinary things.
"Taishan does not refuse fine soil, so it can become high; Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can be deep. Therefore, the gift does not hesitate to make small concessions, and the details determine success or failure. In China, there are many people who want to do great things, but few people are willing to do small things in detail; We don't lack great strategists, what we lack is excellent executors; There is no shortage of various management rules and regulations. What is lacking is to implement the rules and regulations to the letter. We must change the habit of being impetuous and dabbling, and advocate paying attention to details and doing small things with details ... ". This passage points out the common faults in our work. No matter how high the mountains are, they are made of fine soil, and no matter how big the rivers and seas are, they are also made of streams. No matter how big things are, we should start with small things. Only by doing every little thing well can we successfully accomplish great things.
Ignoring a detail will often lead to a big mistake in life and a crisis at the peak of career, while paying attention to a detail will enable enterprises to turn over in negotiations and turn the corner. Comparing the sense of responsibility of Chinese and Japanese employees, Mr. Zhang Ruimin, president of Haier, said: "If a Japanese employee is required to wipe the table six times a day, the Japanese employee will carry it out to the letter and insist on wiping it six times a day. But if a China employee is allowed to do it, it may be wiped six times on the first day, six times on the second day, and only five times, four times and three times on the third day, and then it will go away. " In view of this, he said, it is not easy to do every simple thing well, and it is extraordinary to do every ordinary thing well. As Mr. Wang Zhongqiu said in the book "Details Decide Success or Failure": "There are too few people who can do great things. Most people can only do some specific, trivial and monotonous things in most cases, which may be too dull or trivial, but it is an indispensable foundation for work, life and achievements." In real life, details are often overlooked by us. With the development of economy, the degree of specialization is getting higher and higher, and the social division of labor is getting finer and finer, which also requires people to do things carefully, otherwise it will affect the normal operation of the whole social system.
So is our teacher. In order to succeed, we must do every detail well. No matter how you behave or do things, you should pay attention to details and start from small things. The ancients said: "Great things in the world must be done in detail; When the world is in trouble, it will become easy. " The late Prime Minister Zhou Enlai always advocated paying attention to details, and he himself was a model of caring about small things and achieving great things.
Indeed, the charm of details in our lives is unparalleled. You may seize many opportunities because you attach importance to it, so as to show your value, repair your life and improve your character. Taste the details, start with the little things in life, and you will be stronger, because achievements and honors are piled up bit by bit. No small success, no big gain. The cultural background and profound meaning of details are often difficult for ordinary people to grasp. On the contrary, people who have a certain understanding of details and can shape themselves with details are smart and successful. They know the beauty of details, and they can use the wealth brought by details flexibly, so that they can shine even in the ruins. Details are some small highlights in life and career, but their functions should not be underestimated. Some people insist on doing great things and think they are superior, thus ignoring the details. As a result, they not only failed to improve themselves, but also failed more. Because they don't understand that the vast sea is made up of a drop of water, the lush forest is made up of thousands of trees, and the impressive record is made up of countless small successes. Let's grasp the details in life and the beauty of the details in the brewing process. Only in this way can you achieve sustained success.
People who can't see the details, or don't take them seriously, lack a serious attitude towards their work and can only perfunctory things. Such people can't regard work as a pleasure, but as hard work, so they lack enthusiasm for work. They can only do the work assigned to them by others forever, even if they can't do things well. People who care about details and pay attention to details not only take their work seriously and do small things carefully, but also pay attention to finding opportunities in the details of doing things, so as to embark on the road to success.
Compared with my own work, there are indeed many shortcomings, which need to be improved in the future work, and more efforts should be made in details to make continuous progress.
I read Jiang Rong's "Better Make Up than Don't Read" because I read it halfway in front of Carrefour's bookshelf a few months ago. Since I opened the first page, I have been deeply attracted by this book. Those words brought me into the Allen Prairie and brought me into close contact with the people there, the wolves there and everything there. So for the first time in my life, I stood in front of a book for a long time. I didn't feel tired, hungry or focused, as if I had been caught.
At first, I thought that wolves just like to live in groups and catch some small animals by virtue of their numerical superiority. It is just a creature that lives in this world. In my mind, wolves are in an awkward position. It is not as fierce as liger, nor as fast as a cheetah. As a carnivorous mammal, it can only bully foxes. It exists only to set off the bravery of tigers and leopards. Just like movies, you can always play a supporting role. However, with the deepening of the story, I realized more and more how ignorant, even a little ignorant, my previous thoughts were.
Wolves are smart.
This is vividly reflected when coyotes kill prey. Every attack is a classic. They don't fight unprepared wars. They stepped on the spot, ambushed, attacked, surrounded and intercepted. They are well organized and organized. It seems that they are practicing Sun Tzu's art of war, and "more wins and less counts". This kind of wisdom can also be seen everywhere in the struggle between wolves and people. In order not to expose the wolves, they are alone.
Wolves are United.
They rarely fight alone, and all actions are carried out under the unified dispatch of the Wolf King. As long as the wolf king gives the order, the wolves will be unstoppable and unstoppable. Even if besieged by herders and hounds, it is still calm and orderly.
Wolves are brave.
Wolves are never afraid of death. In order to wash away the horses, they sacrificed the old and weak wolves to tear off the bellies of the peripheral strong horses and die with them. In the battle with dogs, wolves advance wave after wave, even if they fight to the last one, they are not afraid. On that grassland, they are the real kings. Who is competing with the wind?
On the grassland, human beings have become veritable students, and people have learned wisdom, unity and courage from wolves. So Genghis Khan came into being and Mongolian cavalry swept across Europe. After the Korean War, Eisenhower warned American soldiers never to do two things. One was never to attack Moscow, and the other was never to fight China's army on land. However, he may forget that this set of contradictions actually had an answer a thousand years ago. It was this gang that burned Moscow that year.
Speaking of grassland, the first scene in everyone's mind may be the magnificent scene of "seeing cattle and sheep in the wind" Under the blue sky, you can ride proudly, eat meat and drink in a big bowl, and breathe the fresh air there unscrupulously. But few people know the contribution of wolves to this beautiful scenery.
Because of the existence of wolves, the number of prairie rats and antelopes is controlled, and the grassland is effectively protected. Because too many prairie rats and antelopes will destroy the grassland, and then the land will become desertification. Wolves also control the number of woodchucks. The thick fur of woodchucks is where mosquitoes live for the winter, so wolves also indirectly control the number of mosquitoes.
It can be seen that the wolf is the most important link in the grassland biological chain. Without wolves, grasslands would not exist. Herdsmen living on the grassland know this well, so they hate and love the wolf, kill it and worship it. People and wolves have lived in this delicate relationship for thousands of years. Wolves have also become the starting point of civilization there, where people's singing, dancing and humanity are all related to wolves.
However, all this has been destroyed by some self-righteous and pretentious people. They drove high-powered jeeps, fought long-range rifles and killed hyenas there, and enjoyed it. When I saw a big wolf being chased by a jeep for 20 kilometers, I tried my last strength and threw myself to the ground with unyielding eyes. I can't read any more. At this time, wolves are heroes and people are the meanest.
Just, just, don't watch, let Tengger on the grassland punish those who slaughtered on the grassland, and let the yellow sand cover up those so-called civilizations. What kind of career is what kind of fruit. Humans ... alas ~ ~ ~
Is it the best?