When you are 10 years old, there is a sea of stars in your eyes. Apart from the most popular Princess Zhu Huan at that time, you occasionally think about the future. Looking at the female high school students in the middle school next door, you will picture yourself when you grow up in your mind.

When writing a composition, I will apply famous aphorisms and pile up an article with all kinds of exaggerated and blunt parallelism sentences, but I have also been praised by teachers and given high marks.

You know, at that time, the biggest praise was being praised by the teacher in class, and you could be happy all day. It is no exaggeration to say that you are innocent. So you like Chinese, and your goal at that time was to write a high-scoring composition, which might be deepened into a comparative paragraph.

/kloc-When you were 0/6 years old, you swam in the sea of books and studied hard with people around you. Apart from your adolescent ignorance, you were a little impetuous, but your dream at that time was simple and your goal was clear, and it was enough to get into college.

The only thing that needs to be entangled is the division of arts and sciences. I looked at almost single-digit physics scores on my report card. "Forget it, tangle a fart, science students are not people." So the biggest problem is solved, and life is infinitely beautiful.

Apart from the broken family relationship, I am happy most of the time. After all, I can peek at the boy you like, steal melon seeds with my deskmate in class, and buy an entertainment weekly.

02

18 bar mitzvah No one remembers your birthday. You suddenly find that when you grow up, there are no flowers and sunshine to welcome you, but only plain and ordinary.

Entering the university, like many people, is full of illusions about this stage of life.

Fantasy may start a relationship, with a vigorous start and a vigorous end.

Fantasy to get a scholarship, take various certificates, greet graduation gloriously, end your studies gloriously and go to the society.

But as a result, your social circle is limited to more than 20 square meters in the 728 dormitory, and you are in love with your roommate? Forget it.

A buddy chased you in junior year and bought you water downstairs in the examination room when you took the CET-4 exam. The scorching sun exposes you. After the exam, you look at the coordinates he sent you on your mobile phone, but you start to draw an escape route in your mind. When people just took the first step to pursue happiness, you were scared to cry, called to stop it, broke up, and it is still a laughing stock among friends.

You skip class in class and know nothing about professional news except which teacher likes to call the roll. However, because I like painting to help the male god make a live cover, I taught myself a ps. After four years, I didn't fail, but I couldn't escape the fate of being at the bottom of my grade.

This is the end of the university.

03

When I graduated from campus at the age of 23, I would use the ideal of journalism as an excuse when I resigned.

"I just graduated and don't want to be trapped in this small city. I want to go out and see and pursue my news ideal. "

However, lofty ideals always break into pieces when they hit a wall.

When you were an intern, because of your geographical advantage, after the large-scale exposure of the illegal fund-raising incident of e-rental, you rushed to the gorgeous office building of the local e-rental to take photos to grab hot spots.

Watching the cheated investors empty the whole office building, the old man sat on the stairs complaining. Seeing that you are holding a SLR seems to have caught a lifeline, he has to tell you how his pension money was cheated, and his children now want to kick him out of the house.

Is there not a wave in your heart? Don't you have a great ambition to travel around the world and save society with words?

Then, you go back to the office and continue to write the real estate soft article "Investment and financial management are risky, of course, you have to buy a house."

04

At the age of 24, you excitedly showed off to your mother and earned advertising fees by writing articles. As a result, you were thrown cold water. "Don't write, it takes a lot of brain, and it doesn't earn much. At that time, I will read more books and take an examination of civil servants. "

Just like when you were in junior high school, your father came to the conclusion that "you have no writing style" and "you can't write anything decent".

You want to make progress with a group of young people with ideas. You want to try to live in a strange city for a while, do what you like and live the life you want. Learn guitar, and make friends to play games after work. Occasionally go to the cinema to watch a movie, and occasionally look through the books on the bedside to see which city has a new music festival to attend.

You like to listen to the children in the dance class call you "teacher" and tell you "I like you, teacher, because you are good-looking" and "I'll send you a flower later". I look forward to seeing you again after school starts.

But this time another voice said, "Go home! I have arranged a job for you. "

Disrupt all your plans with unquestionable majesty.

05

"When you graduated, you said you would go out and see the world. As a result, one year has passed, what is the name? "

Your mother's well-founded story about your failure proves that your choice seems to be wrong from the beginning. So you decided to compromise, okay, quit. Go home, go home, have a blind date at the end of the year, get married next year, and become a mother the year after. This is my life.

Congratulations, you finally learned to bow to fate.

But on second thought, they live a mediocre life. Why are you doing this? What makes you feel that living safely is the best living condition?

Look, your mother is lying to you, too. Her mother taught her to live in a cage, so she wants you to live like this.

But the script you arranged for yourself should not be so mediocre: at the age of 30, you become a housewife, run the whole family, buy food and cook, and serve your husband and children.

Don't say how brilliant you want to be, but at least you live a different life.

Congratulations again, after bowing to fate, your head is held higher. And realize that there is no need to prove them wrong, just try to prove yourself right.

"You are sure to be an excellent waitress."

"Thank you, you will be a good dead walk-on."

Take dreams as a horse and live up to your youth.