In life, we often hear a saying, poor sons, rich daughters, but many parents do not understand this sentence correctly. They think that raising a daughter with wealth is to create rich economic conditions for children, regardless of food, clothing, housing and transportation, which costs a lot of money, and so do star parents.

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To talk about the most typical example of adopting a daughter among celebrity parents, I believe everyone will think of Li Xiang for the first time. Li Xiang not only raised her daughter Wang Shiling into a little princess, but also said that she would raise her daughter at all costs.

When a reporter interviewed Li Xiang, she admitted that she could even buy an expensive villa after spending a year in Wang Shiling. We ordinary people were shocked when we heard this. However, we didn't know what "trench support" was until we saw Ruby Lin's method of raising a daughter.

It is said that after the birth of her daughter, Ruby Lin basically faded out of the entertainment circle and chose to take care of her baby at home. And she also shares some children's daily lives on her personal platform from time to time.

A photo surprised netizens. At that time, Ruby Lin's daughter was only two years old and brought a watch worth several thousand yuan. Of course, some netizens complain that this is as much as his monthly salary.

In fact, this is nothing to Ruby Lin. In an auction, Ruby Lin once bought her daughter a necklace worth more than 300 million yuan.

Of course, she also said that her daughter has a lot of jewelry. Even if you give your daughter more than 654.38 billion diamond rings every year, you will not be stingy until you are 654.38+08 years old.

However, in the eyes of ordinary people, this kind of adopted daughter is really jaw-dropping. Is it really right to meet all the material needs of children?

In fact, if you don't put educating your children first, you have no scruples. Raising girls without indulgence will only make children degenerate more and more, and may even lead to the following consequences.

1,? Vanity, always comparing with others.

In fact, meeting all the money needs of children, or even indulging them unprincipled, will only make them become vain when they grow up, and such children will show the phenomenon of keeping up with the joneses when they are young.

Such a child is particularly vain, even if he grows up and enters the society, he will show such shortcomings incisively and vividly, so it is difficult to gain a foothold in society.

2,? Spend a lot of money and become a gold digger.

If a girl's parents enrich her children by hook or by crook from an early age, or even spend money on their children without restraint, then such a girl is likely to become a gold digger when she grows up.

Of course, children's values and views on money will become distorted when they are young, and such children will not know how to cherish when they grow up, and even get something for nothing and gradually become a prodigal son.

3,? Arrogant and selfish.

Spoiled and infinitely rich upbringing will only change a child's temper and character. Such children are not only arrogant and selfish, but also arrogant and unreasonable.

When they grow up, these girls will spend more money unscrupulously, and even feel that everything their parents have created for them is taken for granted. The difference between the rich and the poor in their hearts is obvious, so some girls will especially look down on others.

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In fact, raising a daughter does not meet the children's financial needs as these parents understand, and they spend money without restraint. The real enrichment is to enrich children spiritually.

Children should not only have a broad vision, but also have a rich spiritual world, so as to make themselves better and take fewer detours.

Broader horizons often require parents to take their children to the outside world to see more, walk more, and lead their children to participate in some public welfare activities from time to time, so that their children can be more open-minded and know how to be content.

So what do you think is the real meaning of raising a daughter? Do you support these stars to raise their daughters with money? Welcome to share your views and let's discuss them together.