In the face of everyone's concern, he simply said that this is what a father should do.
A father only did one thing in 10, that is, he grew up with his sick son! There is too much bitterness and tears during this period.
Many years later, he took his son to the stage and sang a song "Grow Together" tailored for his son-the lyrics read: "Since we met by fate, I will not give up on you, you are the continuation of my life ..."
At present, when Black Panther band's lead singer Terry stood on the stage and sang this song emotionally, everyone shed tears of excitement. He explained with practical actions what can't be given up.
Jet Li Quartey Li is a real man!
Standing on the stage, Telly didn't complain, only thanked him, which made us see a father's full love for his son and felt the taste of his father's love like a mountain!
Now, more than ten years have passed. What about Teri's sick son? What touching stories have happened in this decade?
First, the big pearl that loves to hit people
199610 June 16, a chubby little boy was born, and Qin Yongrong was promoted to father. Seeing that the boy is so cute, Terry named his son Big Pearl.
The arrival of the son added a lot of fun to Terry and his family, and the whole family was immersed in the joy of the arrival of the child. Terry, in particular, thinks his son is a lucky star!
In the previous year, Telly's acting career was once stagnant and there was no performance. Strangely, on the day of his son's birth, Terry suddenly got a call from the show. This forced Teri to go out to perform nonstop in order to have a good look at his son.
After more than a month, Terry was performing every day. He goes out early and comes back late. He is too busy to spend time with his wife and children.
Because Terry has no time to take care of the children and his wife has a job, the couple decided to send their two-and-a-half-year-old son to kindergarten early.
On day 1, Terry and his wife were very nervous. I didn't expect the two-and-a-half-year-old Pearl to behave quite calmly. At the entrance of the kindergarten, she didn't cry or make trouble. She obediently followed the teacher into the classroom, so the TV couple's hanging hearts relaxed at once.
Who knows that just a few days after entering the park, Telly received a phone call from the teacher, saying that Big Pearl was naughty in kindergarten and always beat the children.
At first, the Tellies thought it was normal for their children to be naughty and fight, so they had to apologize to the parents of the bullied children.
Who knows that this situation is getting worse? Big Pearl has been quarrelling with her classmates and bullying them in kindergarten.
Mr. and Mrs. Terry kept getting calls from their teachers, saying that Big Pearl had hit someone again, and the kindergarten even wanted to discourage Big Pearl.
Terry and his wife have no choice but to transfer Big Pearl to another kindergarten.
Unexpectedly, after staying in the new kindergarten for a period of time, Big Pearl repeated the previous problems, hitting people and making trouble and not getting along well with children. Kindergarten had to persuade Big Pearl again.
In this way, the Tellies transferred their children to many kindergartens, but the problem still could not be alleviated.
Mr. and Mrs. Terry always thought the boy was naughty and active, and there was nothing they could do about it.
Until one day, the mother of a bullied child reminded Telly that it was best to take the child to the hospital for a good check-up. Your child is different from other children of the same age.
In fact, Mr. and Mrs. Telly have never taken care of their children before, but the doctor said that the children had no organic problems. It is estimated that these children are slow to develop and speak, and will get better after a long time.
Therefore, in the face of children fighting, Telly and his wife didn't think much.
But this time, her parents' words made Teri feel trapped.
There are many differences between big pearls and children of the same age? Terry thought about this sentence seriously.
He found that his son, Big Pearl, is really different from other children of the same age: Big Pearl is three years old, but she still stumbles and has poor coordination, and the movements of her limbs seem to be out of control of her brain.
Big Pearl is three years old, but she can only call her mom and dad. Other words are like foreign languages, and she can't understand them at all. Children are also particularly grumpy and will hit people when they are unhappy.
Terry decided to take his son for a good check-up. This examination directly shocked Telly: Pearl has an IQ of 0 and suffers from serious sensory imbalance!
Second, in order to take care of the sick children, my father gave up his singing career and became a full-time nanny.
The whole family panicked when they saw their son's illness or sensory disorder that they rarely heard. Telly also learned about synaesthesia in detail: the information of various organs of the human body is integrated, and only through the cooperation of the brain can we respond to the perception of various parts of the body.
In other words, sensory disorder means that the sensory information of various organs of the body cannot be integrated and coordinated, and the brain and body cannot develop in harmony.
The doctor also pointed out that the child's reaction in infancy is not obvious, but as he grows older, he will always stay at the infant's intelligence level.
No wonder Big Pearl is 4 years old, but her IQ is 0!
Hearing this, Teri almost collapsed! He never imagined that his hard-won baby son had sensory disorder with an IQ of 0!
Looking at Terri, who was almost desperate, the doctor told him that sensory disorder was not an incurable disease. As long as there is love, it is possible to grow into a genius in some way ...
Companionship? How easy is it to be the lead singer of a pop band? Terry is busy performing and running around every day, often too busy to even have time to sleep. It is almost impossible for him to accompany his son wholeheartedly now.
How to choose between a sick son and a career you love?
After careful consideration, Telly finally made a decision that shocked everyone: quit Black Panther band, go home to accompany his son and become a full-time nanny!
Terry later said that when he had to choose between his career and his son, he would not hesitate to choose his son because it was the continuation of his blood.
After that, Terry cut her signature long hair and put away her beloved guitar, and changed from a radiant band lead singer to an ordinary full-time father.
He should accompany his son wholeheartedly, cure the child's illness with love and let him be reborn!
Third, the difficult years of accompanying my son to recover
For Teri, who can only sing and seldom spend time with her family, how can she be with children with severe sensory impairment? How to help children recover? This is a big problem in front of TV.
Terry remembered the doctor's words again: this disease can be improved or even cured. The key is to spend more time with him, care about him and communicate with him!
Next, Terry gave all his patience, time and love to Big Pearl.
Big Pearl can't speak and her language expression ability is poor, so Telly spends time teaching her son to speak.
He holds his son in his arms every day and teaches Pearl to talk mouth to mouth to express her basic needs. Other children may learn these simple words in a few seconds, but it often takes a few days for a big pearl to master a word.
In addition to teaching Pearl the basic expressions, Terry began to teach his son math and English. The big pearl is not sensitive to mathematics, and a simple number often takes a long time to teach.
Terry is patient with his son, reading a number over and over again and teaching his son over and over again until he learns it.
When learning English, a simple word, such as you, me, him and Telly, will be taught repeatedly in one day. When my son first learned, Terry asked Big Pearl if he knew. How to read it?
The big pearl will slowly say, "I don't know!" " Terry looked at her son, smiled helplessly, and then turned to continue teaching him to read.
Terry spent more than a year teaching his son the basic language. Only he knows all kinds of hardships repeatedly, but Teri never gives up or gives up.
Besides basic language training, physical coordination is more important.
How to make the big pearl walk safely, learn to dress and eat, and keep a balance is a headache for Telly.
These simple movements may be learned by ordinary children in an instant, but for the big pearl, it is simply more difficult than going to heaven.
Learn no matter how hard it is!
Terry told herself over and over again in her mind that this is his own son and he must never give up.
One day in June 2007, Terry taught her son to ride a bike for the first time 1 time.
When Terry finally helped his son to the bicycle seat, he would fall off the seat if he didn't pay attention. After practicing for more than half a month, Big Pearl was barely able to sit on the seat by herself.
As soon as Big Pearl sat down, Qin Yong let go, and Big Pearl fell to the ground and began to cry.
My son fell down in pain. As a father, how can you not feel bad?
But if you love dearly, Big Pearl will never learn. So Qin Yong gritted his teeth and continued to help his son walk to the bike.
After the constant practice of the father and son, after half a year, Big Pearl can finally sit firmly on the bike. But his feet don't work, and he can't keep up with the pedal of the bicycle.
Don't give up when you encounter difficulties, keep practicing! Terry said to herself.
In this way, he practiced for the coordination of the big pearl for half a year, and finally he was able to run forward on his bicycle.
At first, Teri was not at ease. Big Pearl pedaled in front and he chased after her.
Until one day, Teri saw that her son could ride his bike steadily forward, and he stood there crying. ...
After a year and a half of hard work, Big Pearl can finally ride a bike with dexterity and ease. Although the film took a year and a half to complete, it is precious to Terry and Pearl. ...
After learning to ride a bike, Big Pearl's coordination ability is much better. It is not a problem to dress, eat and go to the toilet to tie his shoelaces, and the whole person becomes confident, cheerful and generous.
The big pearl, which is gradually optimistic and cheerful, makes Telly more confident. Terry found her son interested in painting and history.
So Telly bought a bunch of painting materials and let the big pearl doodle at will. Every time the big pearl can be painted for a long time, it is fascinating.
Big Pearl is also interested in history books. Every time Terry tells his son a historical story, Big Pearl listens carefully.
The big pearl never forgets anything. After listening to many historical stories, he can repeat them verbatim.
Because I have listened to more historical stories, my historical knowledge has gradually broadened. Big Pearl gradually has a soft spot for Qing history and a dream of red mansions, and has learned a lot about Qing history and a dream of red mansions.
Telly's historical friend once visited and chatted with Big Pearl about history. It is exaggerated to say that Pearl has profound historical knowledge and is a little genius in history.
Big Pearl, who loves history, quoted the appellation of the ancients and changed her name to Terry as her father and her mother as her mother.
Yes, this father has paid too much on the road of growing up. If Big Pearl is a little genius in history, the military medal is half the credit of his father!
Now, after 10 years of careful companionship and care, Big Pearl's condition has become more and more stable and has recovered! He has grown into a handsome young man!
Fourth, the postscript
Looking at her recovering son, Teri showed a long-lost smile on her face. He is no longer young, and his face is full of vicissitudes.
But whenever Terry and Pearl perform on the same stage, when Terry looks at his son, his eyes are so kind, loving and affectionate.
Perhaps at that moment, the four words of father's love for mountains were hidden in that gentle smile.
Now Big Pearl has grown into an adult and a handsome young man, but his father Terry is getting old, and his old style no longer exists.
But what's the bad relationship? Terry thinks it is worthwhile to exchange her ten years for her son's health and happiness all his life.
Terry stood on the stage, still singing the song he wrote for his son-"Grow Together".
"Your world has no color, your world can't hear my songs, but you have the brightest smile, which proves that you still have dreams in your life.
The world is too big for them to see you. At this time, you can only leave your footprints step by step, and it is possible to get out of a world ... "
Every time I listen to this song, I am very moved. ...
With her love, dedication and persistence, Terry successfully helped her son out of the haze of illness and led her son to a bigger and broader world!
This decade's efforts seem so pale in gorgeous language, because it is a father's unconditional love for his children. ...