Matters needing attention in red envelope etiquette, in life, not only during the New Year, but also when relatives and friends get married or celebrate their birthdays. Red envelopes have many precautions and basic etiquette. Let's share the precautions in red envelope etiquette.
Precautions in red envelope etiquette 1 1, the timing of red envelopes should be appropriate.
I remember when I was a child, when my relatives gave me lucky money, they often put it in your pocket quietly, and when I got home, I was often surprised. When sending red envelopes, first, it is best to send them out at the beginning; Second, don't be too direct. Putting a hand in someone else's hand is too straightforward. You can put it in the other person's hand when shaking hands. The third is to pay attention to the responsible elders to avoid embarrassment.
2. The quantity of bags is exquisite.
If you have deep feelings and good friendship, you should be realistic. We should not only express our own feelings, but also lose our identity and friendship, so we should grasp them according to ourselves when wrapping red envelopes.
In addition, the number of packages varies from place to place, and the north likes integers,100,200; In the south, people like to bring lucky numbers with 6 bands and 8 bands. For example, 68, 66, 88, 66, 6, 88 and 8 indicate wishes. Just like "benefiting the market", 10 yuan and 20 yuan in Guangdong and Fujian also convey a kind of blessing and gratitude.
3. How many red envelopes can you hold?
Everything is established in advance, and it is abolished if it is not foreseen. In order to avoid the situation that the delivery is not in place or sometimes you can't decide how much to deliver, you can adopt the multi-package method, which is divided into several grades and handled according to the specific situation.
Etiquette of receiving red envelopes
1, the elder gave us a red envelope, and we have to pick it up with both hands to express our thanks and blessings. You can't open red envelopes in front of your elders. You have to understand that no matter how much it is, it is also the mind of the elders.
2, don't take the initiative to ask for a red envelope, for example, we often say: "Congratulations on getting rich and getting a red envelope", which is also begging.
3. Red envelopes given by elders should be properly kept.
Notice of red envelope etiquette 2 What are the etiquette of wedding red envelopes?
1. On the day before the wedding, the bride's family usually sends the dowry to the man's family. At this time, the man's elders will give each of them a red envelope as a reward. It should also be noted that the red envelope for the "dowry" boy is bigger.
On the wedding day, when the wedding team arrives at the woman's house, the woman's house should give red envelopes to all the people who attended the wedding except the groom to show their welcome and sympathy.
When the bride arrives at the man's house, she should take out some small "red envelopes" (including coins) prepared in advance from the ground and quickly hide in the new house while everyone is looting.
Before the wedding reception, when the bride gives the guests a "tea gift", the guests should put the "red envelope" prepared in advance into the bowl to show their congratulations to the bride and groom.
When picking up the bride, some young people like to play tricks on the groom. At this time, the man will give the bridesmaid a "red envelope" to show his gratitude and condolences.
6. The "red envelope" given at the wedding, regardless of the amount, should generally be an even number, and avoid giving an odd number. Generally, 666 or 888 is the best.
In some rural areas, it is also popular for men to give "red envelopes" to those who come to help at the end of the wedding to thank them for their help.
8. In some rural areas, on the second day of marriage, when the bride is accompanied by her brother and sister-in-law, each family will give her a "red envelope".
What are the precautions?
1。 Do the chefs, foremen and waiters at the wedding banquet need to give red envelopes?
Generally, newlyweds will send some red envelopes or cigarettes to the chef one or two days before the wedding reception. If it is a red envelope, it will probably be around 400 yuan. If it's cigarettes, just two (depending on the brand of cigarettes, some are two Chinese) and a pack of wedding candy. Some people give it to the foreman. It depends on personal circumstances. Give 400 yuan if you have money. It doesn't matter if it's less. You have to give cigarettes and candy. Some newcomers will give candy and cigarettes to the vegetable waiter. Of course, this doesn't need a red envelope. Give small if you want, depending on the mood and economy of new people. Some newcomers will decide on the banquet. Money is already very expensive. Why give these people red envelopes? It also depends on the situation. But in order to let the guests eat well and be afraid of some bad situations, most people will give the chef red envelopes. Foremen and waiters mostly give candy cigarettes, and a few give red envelopes.
2。 Should the wedding car driver give a red envelope? If so, how much?
There are probably two kinds of wedding car drivers. The first one is a rented wedding car. Because the money for renting a car has been paid, there is no need to give too many red envelopes. Generally, 18+ candy+cigarettes, 18 means good luck, that's what it means. The second is that the wedding car is borrowed from friends. If the wedding car is the main wedding car, the red envelopes for friends are bigger, ranging from several hundred dollars. Other wedding cars generally give 200 yuan.
3。 Do the staff of donkey kong and other wedding companies want to serve the table?
Generally speaking, the wedding company will stipulate that the staff can't eat the banquet of the newlyweds, and they will solve it themselves. Of course, if there are enough seats at the wedding, the newlyweds can also invite them to the table. On the wedding day, the photographer, makeup artist and master of ceremonies should reserve places for them. Photographers and makeup attendants follow the newcomers all day. It's very hard. We have to leave places for them, as well as the position of emcee.
Notice of red envelope etiquette 3 red envelope etiquette
Q: What are the polite details to pay attention to when accepting gifts or gifts?
A: Whether it's the helper of the newcomer or the newcomer himself, there are some small details about politeness that need to be paid attention to when receiving gifts and giving gifts.
First, when holding a red envelope in front of guests, don't inadvertently measure the thickness of the red envelope, which is as impolite as counting gifts in person;
Second, don't look surprised when you find that the amount on the check is surprisingly small. If you really suspect that the guest made a mistake, you can ask the guest to reconfirm the check by checking the signature or recognizing the handwriting.
Thirdly, when the size of the gift given by the guest is not suitable and can't be worn on the spot, it is very impolite for the newcomer to simply say that it is not suitable and put it aside. In this case, the couple can say in a humorous tone, "I will take this as a family heirloom and give it to my future daughter when she gets married." In this way, if both parties accept the gift, they will be happier.
Q: If the guests send precious jewelry, they usually choose to wear it directly for the newcomers, so there is no need to record and account for jewelry gifts?
A: It is precisely because many guests like to give gold ornaments, jewelry, etc. directly to newcomers that the income from jewelry is very easy to be confused. Sometimes one or two things are accidentally lost, and the newcomers don't know at all, which wastes the guests' thoughts. Therefore, in the process of receiving gifts, one person should record the names of the guests, the variety and quantity of gifts clearly, so as to facilitate the inventory afterwards. Of course, it's best not to record in front of guests, which is also very impolite. This person had better stand behind the guests, so as not to attract attention and to see the new place clearly.
Q: When guests send cash, they usually put it in a red envelope. Should they count when they receive it? If it is not counted in time, will it cause confusion in the accounts?
A: It is impolite to count the cash in front of the guests, but not counting it will also cause confusion in the final accounts. The best way is for one person to receive the gift money, mark the guest's name on the red envelope when receiving it, and then give it to another person to take it into the lounge for counting and accounting. Marking a red envelope should be accurately marked according to the signature after the guests sign the guest book and enter the venue. It is also a bit inappropriate to mark a red envelope in front of the guests.
Q: If a guest sends a gift in the form of a cash check, should the check be placed with the cash? Do you need to check the checks received at that time?
A: The amount of the check is very small. If they are mixed with a lot of cash, they are easily lost. Therefore, it is necessary to prepare a special account book and store checks and cash separately. It is also better to distinguish different kinds of checks, so that it will be more convenient for newcomers to handle them in the future. When receiving the check, the inspector can roughly check the details such as the head or signature on behalf of the newcomer, and whether the check can be cashed is more suitable for the newcomer to go to the bank afterwards.