Lu Xun described his thoughts on the real life of Nora's departure in Regret for the Past. He wrote the story that Zijun and Juansheng fell in love and separated, revealing the cruelty of life. It is what Teacher Wang said: People must live first, and love is beautiful. The theme of.

Yi Shu wrote the hero and heroine with the same name as Mr. Lu Xun. In modern society, they fell in love and got married, but divorced after marriage. After the divorce, Zijun rethought the meaning of life, found the value of existence with the help of his good friend Tang Jing, and finally lived independently, and his attitude towards life changed 360 degrees. In the end, Tang Jing married a lover, and Zijun met a man who moved her. Since then, the story is over. But it brings us different thinking and reflection for future generations.

From Zijun's story, you can see that marriage brings a woman a feeling of no worries, and in Zijun, we can also see that she is persistent, kind, responsible and loves life.

In this novel, Yi Shu gives her own views on how a woman should deal with herself after divorce. Yes, while the society is demanding more and more men, it has not spared women. Women must have their own personality to match an excellent man.

From this point of view, it seems that we did not marry love in the end, but gave in to life.

Throughout the writers' works, women are enchanting, charming, plain, provocative or taciturn. But what I admire most is Yi Shu's view of women. She believes that women should have posture, temperament and taste, and more importantly, they should be independent, self-reliant and chic.

Yes, there are beautiful people everywhere, but such people are not worth savoring. It's boring to read too much. The yellow roses written by Yi Shu are also rare beauties. Her beauty lies in her lack of pride. And Su Gengsheng is even more so, not much to say, can make people comfortable. So is Zhou Chengyu. She has her own personality and her own way of doing things. In addition, like Xibao, she also has the ability to be frank, direct and likable.

Similarly, I like what Yi Shu said to Cheng Yu in "Round Dance": Remember, a lady with real temperament never shows off everything she has. She doesn't tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no sense of inferiority. "

Indeed, how can a woman be frank, direct and natural? I think zijun did it. After the divorce, she was sad and decadent, but that was not a long-term solution. She soon learned from marriage that women should be able to be with them. Only economically independent women can win men's equal love and attention.

I think every woman appears in this world. She doesn't know the world. The most important thing is that she should know herself. Only when we see the truth of life clearly can we love life. What matters is this freedom and courage.

Don't be timid. Every girl deserves happiness, love and freedom. You can roam around the world, increase your knowledge, or read more books by sages to learn about the change of dynasties. You can do whatever you want. Even a delicious dinner is happiness.

We can't escape the hardships and setbacks of life, but we can get comfort and ease in the cracks.

We will always lose something and gain something. Life is fair.

So are you and me.

Note: Several books mentioned in the article.

Lu Xun's Mourning for the Past, Lao She's Camel Xiangzi, Cao Xueqin's Dream of Red Mansions and Pu Songling's Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio.