A: You don't have to choose a chat topic that keeps asking questions (account inquiry).
Man: Where is it?
Woman: Well;
Man: What are you doing?
Female: Nothing;
Man: Where are you from?
Female: from Hubei province;
M: Where are you from in Hubei Province?
How to chat with a girl you just met? If you chat like this, it will be difficult to stick to it, the atmosphere of chatting will be very low, and girls will gradually ignore you;
B: Take the initiative to open the topic of chat. Don't expect girls to always cause topic discussion. This is not a good communication. Learn to be positive.
C: It's easy. There's no need to use some complicated methods to get girls to chat up. Some people like to chat with girls in many letters and discuss many topics at once, which will make girls feel uncomfortable and it is not easy for her to answer, so it is also important to simplify the small talk.
Well, after we know the most basic chat topics, what topics should we discuss? The topic of chat is carried out in stages, and the topic discussion that everyone just met is different from the topic discussion after getting familiar.
The topic discussion must also be promoted, so that we can understand it more and more. So, let me introduce an early topic suitable for chatting:
1: third-party topic discussion. Third-party topic discussion is an easy topic discussion for girls in their early years. What is a third-party topic discussion? It is the discussion of topics that have nothing to do with you or her, such as a recent movie, temperature, scandal of big-name stars, and this kind of tour singing is the third topic discussion;
It is very suitable for everyone to communicate in the early stage. Girls are easy to pick up, and you can also use the third-party topic discussion to bring out many topic discussions. Personal hobbies and talking about personal hobbies are an early topic discussion, which can expand your interpersonal communication and understanding;
For example, you can ask her what she likes at ordinary times, such as how much she likes cooking or traveling during holidays. These are all good topics for chatting. Everyone has his own personal hobbies, most of which are common.
You don't need to feel bad about your personal interests and the complete intersection with each other, which will lead to such a disease. How to open the topic of personal hobbies? I like a simple sentence: What do you usually like to do?
2. Tell me about yourself. For example, after a girl talks about her personal hobbies, you can talk about what she usually likes. I firmly believe that in the case of chatting, everyone will undoubtedly grasp each other better.
3. Twelve constellations, a female online vote, 63. They like to talk with boys about the zodiac, so the zodiac is a good topic for girls to discuss. Although the twelve constellations are not so accurate, they do give people guidance. People should regard the twelve constellations as a kind of game entertainment rather than feudal superstition.
Consider it one of the relationships. It is fun and safe, and there is absolutely no awkward conversation. Then everyone can talk about a topic. Therefore, I suggest that you spend an hour watching a detailed introduction of a 12 constellation, find out what constellation you are, and then watch it. When chatting with girls, you can gradually talk about the twelve constellations.
M: I think your material should be Leo's;
Woman: Yes, and you?
M: Everyone's twelve constellations are more congenial. Guess.
Woman: Pisces?
M: I got a guess right. I know Scorpio better. Scorpio girls are kind-hearted and enterprising, and generally do not lose their temper. When they lose their temper, it's a big deal.
W: You think it's accurate. I don't usually lose my temper.
4. Special food, it is definitely a very good topic to discuss the topic of special food with girls. Now most girls can resist the temptation of delicious food. You talk to girls about special food not only for better topic discussion, but also for better next tryst to create suspense; Feel free to flip through the circle of friends of many girls. At this moment, you will find that these special foods are definitely the top priority;
\/We can gradually ask girls what they like to eat, talk about Cantonese food and Sichuan food, talk about the uniqueness of nearby restaurants, and whether some theme activities are preferential. If girls like to eat Sichuan cuisine with Chili and Hunan cuisine, these are all topics that can be discussed, and Japanese food western restaurants are also very popular with most girls, so it is a very, very good choice to open the topic discussion from special food;
5. Traveling, loving traveling is a human nature, especially for girls. Everything in this daily life can be attached to travel, and they are in a happy mood. If they play, they will release stress when they are depressed. Only in the journey of life can they feel that strange things all over the world can arouse updated design inspiration;
Therefore, it is definitely a very good topic to talk about a trip with girls in the early stage of the letter chat. For example, you can first look through a circle of friends in Acura to see where she has been, and then open everyone's topic discussion after you have basically mastered it;
After that, go to some particularly romantic places in the following cities. The food is fun, which allows you to open the door at once, prepare some photos of holiday travel in advance and send them to each other, and also make girls feel that you enjoy life and enjoy it with you.
6. Find a topic to talk about from yourself. When you never know what to talk to girls, it is actually a very good topic to discuss, because it is a very wide topic to discuss, such as your usual preferences, some interesting things at home, your work, childhood stories, college friends and favorite songs. The key is to make you dare to say yourself. There are some boys.
7. Find a topic to chat from each other. Everyone likes to talk about themselves, whether it is a boy or a girl, so learn to find it from each other. But finding a topic to chat from each other is not to inquire about the hukou, but to gradually understand the expression, head shape and clothes and pants decoration;
Remember that you don't have to praise a girl for her beauty, but learn to evaluate the key points. For example, you can comment on each other's handsome head and exquisite earrings. The kind of topic that girls really want to pick up, including your feelings for her. For example, she feels cheerful, like her sister next door. In short, it is a very good choice to find a topic to chat with each other in the early days, which can quickly make everyone feel understanding;
8. Speaking of "sex", many boys feel that chatting with girls' letters is obscene and even blacked out by girls. Actually, it's not like this. I know a lot of girls, and their attitude towards sexual needs is actually open, cheerful and highly accepted.
In fact, talking about sex topics can immediately arouse a girl's sexual psychology, and then improve the probability of having sex with them. In the case of discussing sexual topics, your mentality must be that the life of husband and wife is normal. If you are uncomfortable, this girl will also feel very uncomfortable.
M: I think your photo is a little plump;
Woman: Not bad. I'm still fleshy.
Man: Girl, it's better to have more meat and feel more.
W: Do you like fleshy girls very much?
Man: naturally, that's good for you;
Before opening the topic of sex, I suggest that we can gradually expand from two levels; First, these funny little expressions, such as one of Tintin's, can be reflected in girls in the future. Some girls are highly accepted and are likely to respond to a similar small expression, which naturally leads to sexual topics;
The second is to * * * enjoy your own views on sex and have a mentality, just like drawing sexual topics from photos of friends, but the topic of sex does not need to be discussed early. If you have a certain understanding with girls, you can talk further;
9. Emotional situation, emotional situation is also a good topic to discuss. If you want to get to know girls better and make them closer, you can talk about your feelings according to them, but immediately asking girls how many times they have been in love before will make the other person feel uncomfortable;
It's not as long as the last love, so some girls may say: it's been a year, or half a year, you can continue this emotional topic discussion, talk about each other, talk about yourself, and firmly believe that you can master it better according to your feelings;
M: I think your feelings about love are quite colorful;
Woman: No, I just talked about two;
M: Which one impressed you?
Woman: the second one, the first one is still young and doesn't know anything;
M: The second one is your classmate?
W: But none of our departments are familiar with the theme activities.
10: Choose the topic for discussion according to the girl's \/circle of friends. In addition to the topic discussion I introduced in detail above, you can also choose the topic for discussion according to the girl's circle of friends and see what photos there are in her circle of friends. This is also a very good way to enter and master her personal hobbies. Everyone has more or less preferences.
There are often some truths in the circle of friends. For example, the girl you like has been to many areas for vacation, which means that she likes traveling very much. The girl you like enjoys a lot of inspirational chicken soup, which means that she should like reading articles.
Teach you how to chat with girls in detail. What do you do on Sunday? When looking at the circle of friends, pay attention to the photos and matching dates, and know where the girl you like will go and what she will do on Sunday, so if you ask her out on Sunday, you don't have to worry about taking her, just follow her usual route.