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Talking with friends about "the spring breeze is not as good as you", I told my friends in an ostentatious manner that Xiaohong and Xiaobai were together, which was really good. She and Qiushui really don't get along.
My friend has been chasing this drama very hard recently. After listening to my analysis, I added: She and Xiao Bai are together, but they are married and divorced.
Almost at the first moment I heard this sentence, I replied: I really can't be with the person I love too much, and I will really get what I deserve.
Xiaohong likes autumn water and spent the best seven years of her life on him. She was regarded as a rival in love by Zhao Yingnan, and she was distressed by her heart and became a combination of crazy "Li Mochou" and ascetic monks in everyone's eyes. Even she was finally heartbroken by autumn water, drunk, and taken advantage of by her brother. Finally, she had an abortion.
At first, the mean and heartless Xiaohong narrowed her eyes with a smile and dared to pursue true love bravely. How interesting and lovely it was, and how distressing the girl who said to Qiu Shui, "I need a decision, I don't have a few seven years".
At the end of life, there is a lively, painful and lovely girl, because a man leads his youth bright and sad, consumes energy, hurts his body and tires his heart.
Even if this is the true love that can only be met with a chance of 1/285000 in the world, no matter how good it is, it is not desirable, let alone broken. For seven years in a row, feelings whose cost is far greater than their income can only go bankrupt.
Including Xiao Hong's little white. During military training, in order to be punished with Xiaohong, she deliberately did something wrong and gave her a serious warning. Gave her a vigorous confession and was expelled from a top school a few years later because she still liked Xiao Hong.
He doesn't mind that Xiaohong likes autumn water and chooses to accompany him silently. Even if she finally touched that person with love, she could not escape the fate of separation.
A relationship that loves him more than yourself was unstable at first, but then you didn't die, and youth saved your life.
2.
In Passing Through Your World, what impressed me the most was the scene of the pig head and the swallow, and the pig head and the swallow just answered that sentence:
I'm going to propose to you, and I've been planning our future, but you have to break up with me.
The pig's head loves swallows, which can be said to be deep. He saves money for N jobs and earns money for swallows to live abroad. The pig's head happily videos with the swallow, and the swallow on the other side casually says, "I won't tell you, I'm going to see the waterfall." The pig's head still says with a satisfied face, go and have fun.
A complete fool loves a story like a madman, but he is familiar with it, much like the way we lose ourselves when we love someone deeply. Love a person too much, it is easy to be moved by yourself, and it is easy to ask for it.
Later, the swallow returned to China and broke up with the pig head. The pig head remained decent and was sent to a taxi. First, he said, "Swallow, be happy. Your world doesn't matter without me. You should be happy. " Later, he cried after the taxi and said, "Swallow, how can I live without you?"
I really can't live any longer. In those years, I have long been used to loving you as life. Eating, drinking and having fun are all circles with you as the center and your hobbies as the radius.
Suddenly one day, the person you love quits, and you lose not only him, but also the pillar and motivation of life.
So, leaving the pig's head behind, pulling a scooter to sell snacks that swallows all over the world love. He loves swallows in another way, which seems to be loyalty and romance of love, but it is really cruel.
I gave up the whole forest, even my life, for a tree that didn't belong to me.
I love someone so much that I forget to be myself and only learn to please her. This life of asking for trouble is also quite sad. Love will not last forever. When one day she doesn't need your love, just wait to cry.
3.
When I was young, there was once a person I particularly liked. At that time, I could say that I loved him like a brain powder.
Others say that he is not good-looking, it doesn't matter, my concept of mate selection can be changed for him, and I just like the way he looks;
Others say that he is eccentric and even bad-tempered. This is a coincidence: "If you like eccentric people, I am actually very beautiful", which means the opposite of my love for him;
Others say that he is not suitable for you, and you will get hurt with him. I firmly even refused to say that he is Scorpio and Pisces, and we are a perfect match.
I love him without thinking. He casually said that he admired a writer. I watched the author's masterpiece all night, trying to imitate the author's writing style and trying to be the person he admired.
He casually said "I like you, too", which made me happy for a whole week. Every time I think of this sentence in my mind, I can secretly laugh for a long time.
Even during the period when I was most infatuated with him, I wrote many stories about us in my articles, and there were countless direct and indirect confessions.
But his love is not pure enough, his love is not thorough enough, or I like him too much.
On his birthday, I told him in a joking tone: "Today is my birthday, and I feel that if you don't say happy birthday to me, I will have a bad year." Even so, he didn't respond. As a result, I was really sad for the first half of this year.
Even so, I continued to cultivate on the soil of "liking him" until I gave up my favorite job opportunity for him and was ready to go to his city to find him. I was told that he was far away from me, hot and cold, ambiguous and indifferent:
I am chasing another girl I particularly like. I fully understand that if I like someone too much, I will be punished sooner or later.
How blind I am when I love him and how terrible I am when I want him.
I cried and complained about him, and finally chose to alienate him quietly. I never regretted liking him from beginning to end. I only regret loving him too much and letting hormones affect my life development. This is the stupidest behavior.
I like Beauvoir's words very much: I am eager to see you, but please remember that I won't ask to see you. Not because of pride. You know I'm not proud in front of you, but because it makes sense for us to meet only when you want to see me.
It took a long time to understand that it is useless to love someone too much. Only when he loves you can everything be meaningful. Love is easy to get out of control. I hope we can love each other more than deeply.
Don't be too tired and thankless to be with someone you love too much. The best love is to love each other, that is, to be presumptuous and restrained, and to get along comfortably and naturally.
The article is long and the liquor is small and fresh. Only sobering words, only words left in my mind. Official account of WeChat: Wenchang Chang (ID: Wenchangchanga)