The first step of "Li Guo" is that the matchmaker sends the man's birthday to the woman and the woman's birthday to the man. After receiving the red post, please ask the fortune teller to calculate whether the "date of birth" of both parties is consistent, if not; Marriage will be reconsidered.

2. Explore family style.

If the two meet successfully, the woman will usually go to the man's house to "explore the family style." On that day, generally, more people will go to the man's home that day, so that they can have a detailed understanding of the man's family and listen to each other's opinions when they get home. If you are still worried, you can find friends or relatives to learn about the background of the man's family and some things about the young people.

3. Talk about engagement money, shirt and trousers money, and red envelopes.

If there is no problem with the man after "exploring the family", the matchmaker will play an important role at this time, that is, talking about the engagement money and the money for shirts and trousers.

The engagement fee is generally around 3888 yuan, and the money for shirts and trousers is generally around 10000 yuan. For example, if the money hired is similar to the money for shirts and trousers, then the man will choose a day to give a red envelope to the woman's family. Generally, he will give the woman's parents some money first. The local dialect is called "Tie San Dai". Girls should take out a small part of them to buy new clothes for their parents, brothers and sisters.

Find a date and send it to Japan

After "tying the three belts", at this time, the man will prepare to find a wedding day according to the birth dates of both men and women, and then determine the following day, and then send the red sticker of "wedding day" and a small basket of candy cakes to the woman's house. This is called "seeing off grandchildren". When the woman knows the date, she prepares the dowry, while the man is busy inviting people to prepare the banquet.

5, accept the plate, the picture above, hold a wedding.

Accompanied by the groom, the bride also presents "black sugar tea" to her parents and immediate family members. Generally, the order of offering tea is according to age. Generally, when tea is served, parents-in-law will prepare a gift.