1, noble and different, disdaining people who are not in the same class as themselves.
People are not from the same class, so it is difficult to integrate into the same circle. For the concubines in A Dream of Red Mansions, they may have spent all their efforts and financial resources to step into that door. They may feel that they really want to turn over and be equal to those wives in a dream of red mansions, but they are too naive. The original wife will never be in their class. Since it is not a class, it will naturally be exclusive. This is also the reason why the original match in a dream of red mansions despises concubines.
Love is selfish, no one wants to share his husband with others.
Love is selfish, and no one wants to share his husband with others. The thought of her husband marrying another woman, eating at the same table with another woman, and even living in another woman's room. Which wife would want to? For rival lovers, everyone hates each other. Besides, concubines in the deep house compound are not rivals in love, are they? Then you will look down upon it. How can people who are not from the same class value it?
3, "xianggong" spoiled his wife and his identity was threatened.
Some of the original works of A Dream of Red Mansions are childless, but "xianggong" called some concubines back, just to carry on the family line and spread the branches and leaves. In this case, the original matchmaker was very scared. Because they can't have children, in ancient times, it was the mother who gave birth to children. When other women are born, they will threaten their status. If you meet a "xianggong" again, it will be even more embarrassing and dangerous for the original match. Therefore, for this original match, they are extremely reluctant to let their husbands find those concubines.
Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes. The battle between wives and concubines is not as simple as it seems, and concubines are very scheming. Only ambitious women will become concubines. Why do women embarrass women? Women never want to embarrass each other. It's men who embarrass them.