What children want to eat, even if they have to take a long bus to buy, grandparents are willing to take a long bus to buy for their grandchildren, which is obedience to their children.
Grandma likes children better. She took the children shopping and bought them home without saying anything. Children like toys in other children's hands, and grandma will buy them home without hesitation.
It can be seen from these things that the children's grandparents love their grandchildren very much. On one occasion, Liu's parents' house was going to be demolished, and Liu heard his parents say:
In the future, I will leave all the money for demolition to my grandson, including some gold and silver jewelry of my grandmother, so that my grandson will not worry about not getting a wife in the future.
After listening to his parents, Xiao Liu felt that he was not as rich as his son. Xiao Liu said, who is the son? I'm a little jealous.
Old people should not spoil their children too much, which is not conducive to their growth.
1, parents' education will be invalid.
When children's parents educate their children, the elderly will be very distressed by their grandchildren and will intervene. Although this is a normal thing, the old people should also have a degree of love for their grandchildren, and they can't protect their children in everything.
When old people take care of their children, they are often soft-hearted and unwilling to say that the children are wrong. In fact, this practice is very wrong and will make children feel that their parents are bad people.
2. Children's ideas will be affected.
Parents are the best teachers and parents are the best educators. Whenever parents are educating their children, if there are old people involved, it will affect parents' education of their children. Especially after a child makes a mistake, most parents will punish the child, but the old man loves his grandson dearly and won't let his parents punish him.
After a long time, children will have a feeling that as long as the old man is around, the children themselves have made mistakes. Children will think it's nothing, but parents will forgive him anyway. In fact, this practice of the elderly will greatly affect the growth of children.
3. There will be disharmony in the family
Children's education will be influenced by different surrogate parents. Children's parents don't talk about old people on the surface, but there will be a lot of dissatisfaction in their hearts. I can't help telling my children that some things can't be completely listened to by grandparents.
If the children's parents do this, they will have conflicts with the elderly and will also affect the feelings between the elderly and the children. After a long time, families will become disharmonious and there will be many crises.