I agree. Women must learn to feel safe. The sense of security is your own. No one else gave it to me. Whether in love or marriage, the sense of security should come from oneself, not from each other. In the emotional world, as long as you give yourself a sense of security and face love, you won't be afraid to pursue it actively. In the face of love, you will not suffer, doubt or cause great dissatisfaction. To be independent and excellent is to give yourself a sense of security. The sense of security is gained by oneself rather than nature.

Some women can achieve economic independence, while others can achieve spiritual independence. Either way, it is an excellent ability. Economic independence is not influenced by men's bondage, and can satisfy their own quality of life. Independent personality, personality is not bound by men, you can live more freely and casually. The more insecure a woman is, the more she wants a man to give her a sense of security. This feeling will definitely be unbalanced. So women in love must learn to give themselves a sense of security.

Women are not born to be housewives, cleaning, cooking and educating children. If you do this, it shows your selfless dedication. At this time, you should be better to yourself. Have a cup of tea when you are free, buy some favorite jewelry and cosmetics, watch movies during the holiday, and then watch the sea leisurely. This will help you get rid of endless troubles and feel the beauty of life. Women's efforts are not to live better than other lives, but to be better than themselves in the past.

Eighty percent of the pain in life comes from comparison, but comparing with others will only bring endless troubles. Moreover, every family has a difficult experience, and only they know it. Comparing your weaknesses with others' strengths will make you more miserable. You must constantly optimize your internal and external conditions, and reading can enhance your connotation. Externally, fitness, travel, beauty and so on can all enhance their appearance.