1. Beethoven's story
Beethoven, the great composer, could not go to college because of poverty. At the age of seventeen, he suffered from typhoid fever and smallpox.
At the age of 26, she was unfortunately deaf and her love was frustrated.
In this case, Beethoven vowed to "take life by the throat".
In the tenacious struggle against fate, in the career of music creation, the fire of his life grew stronger and stronger.
Adversity did not frighten him, but became a magnetic field for him to gain great vitality.
2. The story of Sun Kang
Sun Kang was born in a poor family in the Jin Dynasty and studied in the snow in winter nights. Che Yin was born in a poor family. He practiced fireflies on summer nights and studied by the dim light of fireflies.
See Book of Beginners, Volume II, and Biography of Qi Yu and Jin Shu in Song Dynasty.
3. Gorky's story
Gorky, a famous writer, has experienced the bitterness of the world since he was a child. Although he was too tired to work, he refused to give up reading for a moment.
He often wrote secretly at the urging of his boss and finally became a famous writer.
4. The story of Zhang Haidi
/kloc-0 was born in Jinan in the autumn of 955. At the age of five, he suffered from myelopathy and was completely paralyzed from the chest down.
From then on, Zhang Haidi began her unique life. Unable to go to school, she taught herself middle school courses at home.
/kloc-When she was 0/5 years old, Heidi followed her parents and sent her to the countryside of Liaocheng (Shandong) to be a teacher for her children.
She also taught herself acupuncture techniques and treated villagers for free. Later, Zhang Haidi taught himself many foreign languages and worked as a radio repairman.
5. The story of Zu Chongzhi:
In the Southern Dynasties, Zu Chongzhi carried out a lot of complicated calculations under the extremely simple conditions at that time, relying on small pieces of bamboo.
Over and over again, after numerous failures, I finally became the first person in the world to accurately calculate pi to the seventh place after the decimal point.
(1) Extended reading of a frustration story;
Life is a mirror. If you smile at it, it will smile back at you. You cry to it, and it cries to you.
-Thackeray
When you are alive, you can never get everything you want. Anyway, don't be discouraged when you encounter something unpleasant.
You have to make up your mind and try to get this tone back.
-Mark Twain is beautiful.
A life of trial and error is not only more brilliant but also more meaningful than an idle life.
-Bernard Shaw
The more tempered iron is, the harder it becomes.
-Wen Yiduo's "Looking at Chinese and Western Styles from Religion"
The ancients became great entrepreneurs from suffering.
-"Gift" by Qing Liu Yan
The classic inspirational stories of celebrities should be short and pithy, and the more hardships after setbacks, the better.
Beethoven, Beethoven's grandfather and father were all court singers. His father was drunk most of the time in college and was not very friendly to his family. He never even asked if he had enough food and clothing at home. At first, a kind grandfather can save this family from too much suffering; On the other hand, his eldest grandson's musical talent also makes the old man feel very gratified. But when Beethoven was only four years old, his grandfather died. Beethoven's father used to drag his children to the piano keyboard and let him practice hard for hours there, slapping him whenever he made a mistake. Neighbors often hear children sobbing to sleep because of fatigue and pain. Soon, Faifr, a poor traveling musician, came to this town and was taken to Beethoven's home. He and old Beethoven used to drink in the pub outside until midnight, and then went home to drag little Ludwig out of bed and start classes, sometimes until dawn. To make him look like a child prodigy, his father lied about his age. When I was eight, I took him out to a concert when I was six. But there are no child prodigies in the world. Despite a lot of efforts, the old Beethoven never turned his son into another young Mozart.
3. Stories about setbacks
Flexibility is a hero (Gou Jian, eat his bread and drink his intestines)
In 494 BC, the State of Yue defeated the State of Wu. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, had to use "careful words and gifts" to make peace with Wu, waiting for a comeback. Gou Jian first bribed the prince of Wu and his ministers with beautiful women, gold, silver and jewels, and also held his wife hostage to be a groom for the prince himself. Gou Jian also sent tea and rice to the king of Wu, and finally won the trust of the king of Wu and was released. After returning home from a narrow escape, Gou Jian tried his best to pay tribute to Wu while withdrawing troops and training. In the end, he led tens of thousands of elite soldiers, completely defeated the State of Wu, and realized his desire to wash away the humiliation and revitalize the country.
Struggle in adversity and find happiness in suffering (Gao Shiqi struggles with disease)
Gao Shiqi is a popular science writer in China. When I was studying abroad, I did an experiment. The glass bottle containing viral encephalitis was broken and the virus invaded his cerebellum. Since then, it has left a curse of physical disability. He endured the virus and completed all doctoral courses in bacteriology at the University of Chicago. After returning home, he dragged himself to work in Yan 'an. After liberation, his condition deteriorated and it was very difficult to speak and act. Even he needs help to open and close his eyes. But he still works with amazing suffering spirit, and has written more than ten thousand words 1. Someone asked him if he was bitter, and he smiled and said, "No! Because I struggle every day, and struggle is endless fun. "
Suffering is also a fortune ("the father of western folk songs" Wang)
The musician Wang, known as the "father of western folk songs" in China, was imprisoned for a long time, separated from his wife and children, and suffered great psychological pressure for a long time. However, with the attitude of "it is better to walk around", he devoted himself to the lonely smoke in the northwest desert and created many western folk songs such as "In that faraway place".
(4) Cases where growth needs setbacks.
Gao Shiqi 1
Gao Shiqi is a popular science writer in China. When he was studying abroad, he did an experiment. The glass bottle containing viral encephalitis was broken, and the virus invaded his cerebellum, leaving the bane of physical disability.
Suffering from the virus, he completed all doctoral courses in bacteriology at the University of Chicago. After returning home, he dragged his semi-paralyzed body to work in Yan 'an. After liberation, his condition deteriorated and it was very difficult to speak and act. Even he needs help from others to open and close his eyes.
But he still works with amazing suffering spirit, and has written more than ten thousand words 1. Someone asked him if he was bitter. He smiled and said, "No, because I struggle every day. Struggle is endless fun.
The Book of Changes was carved by Confucius, so he often reads it. Because of reading too many times, the strong cowhide rope broke several times. Confucius became a celebrity in such adversity.
Wu's frustrated story
Goujian eating shit for Fu Cha is the biggest setback.
Gou Jian, the King of Yue, tried his best to get it back.
In 496 BC, He Lv, the king of Wu, sent troops to attack the State of Yue and was defeated by the State of Yue. He Lu was also seriously injured and died. He Lv asked Wu Zixu to choose his successor. Wu Zixu loved Fu Cha alone and chose him as king. Since then, Gou Jian heard that Wu wanted to build a water army, and despite the opposition of others, he sent troops to destroy the water army. The result was surrounded by Fucha Jones and was defeated. The general also died. Fu Cha wanted to capture Gou Jian alive, but Fan Li made a plan and pretended to surrender, leaving a green hill without firewood. Fu Cha didn't listen to the advice of veteran Wu Zixu, leaving Gou Jian and others behind. After three years of humiliation, he was finally put back to Yue. Gou Jian secretly trained elite soldiers, sleeping every night without a mattress, just laying some firewood (called salary in ancient times), and hanging a bravery in the house. In order not to forget the shame of the past, he will taste bitterness from time to time. In order to inspire the people, Gou Jian joined the work of the Queen and the people, and made the country stronger with the help of Vietnamese Qi Xin. On one occasion, Fu Cha led most of the troops in the country to hold a meeting and asked Gou Jian to lead troops to cheer. Seeing that the time had come, Gou Jian pretended to go to the meeting, took 3,000 chosen men, captured the main city of Wu, killed the king of Wu and captured Fu Cha. Fu Cha regretted not listening to Wu Zixu and left Gou Jian behind. Before he died, he just asked not to hurt the people of Wu.
Lu's frustrated short stories
People will inevitably encounter difficulties and setbacks in their lives, and I have encountered them many times. Here, I will tell you a recent event.
Some time ago, the school organized us to go to Huairou's Survival Island for a spring outing. Before that, I heard that there were many activities on Survival Island. I am a person who likes * * * and adventure, so I am full of expectations for my trip to Survival Island. It took me more than an hour to reach my destination by bus, which is a big test for me who loves carsickness. When we arrived at our destination, the first activity we did was rock climbing. "Wow, it's so high!" Looking at the 30-meter-high rock peak, the students exclaimed in unison However, it may be that "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers." Although the rock peak is extremely high, the students are scrambling to climb it. Li and Li were the first on stage, but they didn't dare to climb too high, so the coach had to let them go. Next are Wei Hua and Zhang Junjie, two athletes in our class. They lived up to everyone's expectations and climbed to the top of the rock after some efforts.
It's my turn to play. I am eager to try and determined to climb to the top of the rock. I've been climbing. I don't know how long it took, but a very smooth blue rock appeared on my head. I tried several times, but I still couldn't climb over. At this moment, I can't help looking down. It's okay. My legs are shaking. It turns out that I am almost 20 meters from the ground, and my classmates seem to be dwarfs. At this time, I remembered what the teacher told us, saying that when climbing a mountain, don't look down, otherwise it will easily lead to fear. I dare not look down any more. At this time, the students kept shouting, "Come on, Lou!" I think Wei Hua and Zhang Junjie in front have climbed up. I can't lose to them. I have to climb up. At this time, the coach seemed to read my mind and pulled the rope hard. With his help, I climbed over the most difficult rock. After this difficulty, the latter will become simple. I tried my best to climb to the top of the mountain and rang the bell of victory.
Through this incident, I understand that when people encounter difficulties, they must establish the determination and courage to overcome them. Many times, what needs to be overcome is ourselves.
The Story of Qi about Frustration
Edison
Edison failed many times when he invented the electric light bulb. When he used 1000 materials as special filament, his assistant said to him, "You failed 1000 times, and your success became slim. Give up! " But Edison said, "So far, my harvest is not bad. At least I found that there are more than 1000 materials that cannot be used as filaments. " After more than 6,000 experiments, he finally succeeded.
I can imagine what would happen to us now if Edison gave up when his assistant advised him to stop the experiment. Maybe we need to light an oil lamp the size of a bean to light it at night. In fact, every failure of Edison's experiment can be regarded as a setback. In this way, Edison suffered more than 6000 setbacks in inventing the electric light. What an amazing number!
Ba is a story about frustration.
He lives in Qinglong Village, Xiping Town. Everyone who knows him says that he is a child who has suffered a lot. His father died before he was born. He Wei Jun was very sensible since he was a child and studied hard. He was very sensible since he was a child and studied hard. From primary school to high school, his grades have been among the best. In order to reduce the burden on his family, he always eats the cheapest food at school, and whenever there is a rest day or holiday, he goes home to do this and that. While he was studying hard and thriving in Wei Jun, unfortunate things happened again. 1March, 996, my mother died of illness. However, this sudden blow did not shake his determination to study. He fought back his grief and studied harder. In the second year, he finally got into a key university with a score of 560. However, fate once again treated him unfairly. In the physical examination, He was diagnosed with congenital heart disease and could not go to school. In the face of all this, he didn't flinch because of his strong personality. He sold his property, borrowed it from the east and borrowed it from the west, had an operation and cured the disease. 1998, He took the college entrance examination again and was admitted to Zhejiang University of Technology with an excellent score of 572. However, the family has borrowed a lot of money to treat him. What Do We Do With a thirst for knowledge, He Wei Jun came to Lishui Jinma Company to work and study alone. His experience has aroused great concern from all walks of life, and people have lent him a helping hand. He Wei Jun finally realized his college dream.
"Nine" celebrities laugh at setbacks.
Celebrities laugh at setbacks:
1. In the fourth grade of primary school, Peter Daniel was often scolded by Mrs. Philip, the head teacher: "Peter, you have a bad homework and a bad brain, and you will accomplish nothing in the future!" Peter couldn't read until he was 26. Once, a man read him an article entitled "think and grow rich" and gave him a considerable sum. Now he has bought the street where there was a fight, and published a book: Mrs Philip, you are wrong.
Rodin's father once lamented that he had a son. In everyone's eyes, he is a student with no future. He failed to enter the Art College after three exams. His uncle once said in despair, "You can't teach an obedient child.
Tolstoy, the author of War and Peace, was expelled from the university because of his poor grades. The teacher thinks that he has neither the mind nor the will to learn.
4. While studying English at Washington University, playwright tennessee williams once took part in an inter-class competition with the play "I, Vasha", but failed. According to the teacher, "Williams is very dissatisfied. He criticized the referee for his lack of vision and ignorance of good goods. " .
5. It took Richard Hook seven years to complete this humorous story with the battlefield as the background. He went to 2 1 publishing house and found Moro Company willing to help him publish a book. As soon as the book was published, the market responded well; The entertainment circle immediately adapted this book into a movie and TV series of the same name, and it also received quite a warm response.
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Frustration means that people encounter insurmountable obstacles in purposeful activities. In psychology, it refers to the inevitable emotional response caused by the obstruction of individual purposeful behavior, which will bring substantial harm to people, manifested as disappointment, pain, depression, anxiety and so on. Frustration often makes people compromise negatively. Frustration contains three meanings, one is frustration situation, the other is frustration cognition, and the third is frustration reaction. Give a systematic psychological explanation of setbacks, including their meaning, contents, forms, causes and solutions.
Generally speaking, the more serious the frustration situation, the stronger the frustration reaction; On the contrary, the frustration reaction is slight. However, only when the frustration situation is perceived by the subject, individual psychology will have frustration reaction. If there is a frustration situation, and the individual is not aware of it, or although he is aware of it, he does not think it is serious, then there will be no frustration reaction, or only a slight frustration reaction. Therefore, the nature and degree of frustration reaction mainly depends on the individual's cognition of frustration situation.
Frustration reaction and feeling are important aspects of frustration. Whether an individual is frustrated or not is judged by the parties' understanding, evaluation and feelings about the relationship between their own motives, goals and results. Situations and events that constitute setbacks for one person may not necessarily constitute setbacks for another person, which is the difference in individual feelings.
As Balzac said: "Things in the world are never absolute, and the results vary from person to person. Suffering is the stepping stone of genius, the wealth of capable people and the abyss of the weak. " .
"Pick up" Short Stories about Frustration
Barene was disabled by illness when she was a child, and her mother felt like a knife, but she endured grief. She thinks that what children need most now is encouragement and help, not mother's tears. Mother came to Barone's sickbed, took his hand and said, "Son, mother believes that you are an ambitious person. I hope you can bravely walk on the road of life with your own legs! Good Barene, can you promise your mother? " Mother's words hit Barene's heart like a hammer. He threw himself into his mother's arms and burst into tears. Since then, whenever my mother is free, she will practice walking and doing gymnastics for Barene, and she is often so tired that she sweats. Once my mother caught a bad cold. She felt that a mother should not only teach by example, but also set an example. Despite her high fever, she got out of bed as planned to help Barene practice walking. Soybean-like sweat dripped from her mother's face. She wiped with a dry towel, gritted her teeth, and helped Barene finish the exercise plan for the day. Physical exercise makes up for the inconvenience caused by disability to Barene. His mother's example deeply educated Barone, and he finally withstood the severe blow of fate. He studies hard and his academic performance has always been among the best in his class. Finally, he was admitted to the Medical College of Vienna University with excellent results. After graduating from college, Barene devoted all her energy to the research of otology. Finally, I finally got on the podium of the Nobel Prize in Physiology and Medicine.
Hua. After graduating from junior high school, Hua went to Shanghai China Vocational School, but dropped out of school because of tuition, so he only had a junior high school diploma for life.
After that, he began to teach himself tenaciously and completed all the math courses in high school and junior college in five years. 1928, he was unfortunately infected with typhoid fever, and survived under the care of his wife, but his left leg was disabled. At the age of 20, he caused a sensation in the field of mathematics with a paper and was invited to work by Tsinghua University.
From 193 1, Hua worked and studied in Tsinghua University, and completed all the courses in the Department of Mathematics in one and a half years. He taught himself English, French and German, and published many papers in foreign magazines. 1In the summer of 936, Hua was sent to Cambridge University in England for further study, and published more than ten papers in two years, which was appreciated by the international mathematics community. 1938, China visited Britain and returned to China. In a small attic like a cowshed on the outskirts of Kunming, he struggled to write the famous book "On Overlapping Primes".
19 14, 12 in the middle of the night, Edison's manufacturing equipment was seriously damaged by a fire, and he lost about10 million dollars and most of his work records that were difficult to calculate with money. The next morning, he went to the ashes where he had buried the fruits of his labor for many years. The inventor said: "Disaster has the value of disaster. All our mistakes have been burned, and now we can start over. " Edison's achievements are really admirable, but what is even more admirable is his courage to face setbacks. The journey of life will inevitably be difficult, bumpy or a heavy blow. In the face of these, you can be sad, you can regret it, but it is important not to lose the courage to face it, but to have the courage to overcome yourself.
"One day, a farmer's donkey accidentally fell into a dry well, and the farmer racked his brains to save the donkey. A few hours later, the donkey was still wailing in the well. Finally, the farmer decided to give up. He thinks the donkey is old and it is not worth the trouble to save it, but the well must be filled up anyway. So the farmer asked his neighbors for help and buried the donkey in the well together to avoid the donkey's pain.
"Everyone has a shovel and starts shoveling dirt into the well. When the donkey realized his situation, it began to cry sadly. But surprisingly, it was quiet for a while. Everyone looked at the bottom of the well curiously. What appeared in front of them surprised them:
"When the shoveled soil fell on the donkey's back, it shook off the soil and stood on the mound.
"In this way, the donkey rose to the wellhead step by step, and then quickly ran away in everyone's surprise.
"Frustration can be a stepping stone to success.