How to measure a person's life value?
Throughout the ages, people have never stopped exploring the value and meaning of life! How should a person live? How can a person be valuable when he is alive? How to estimate a person's value? How can a weak life be meaningful if it exists in such a big world? I've thought about it and asked it again and again. A major scientific research achievement can benefit all mankind, which is the value of a scientist; A major breakthrough in medical achievements can save countless people in pain, which is the value of a doctor; A great literary work can affect the growth of a generation, which is the value of a writer, and an excellent enterprise can revitalize the national and local economy, which is the value of an entrepreneur. Correspondingly, society also gave them the highest honor. But after all, most people in the world can't get rid of ordinary, ordinary you and me. What's the value? Ordinary us, in this era, how to measure personal value? How to realize personal value? Everyone has desires. Everyone has desires. The only difference is whether the desire is big or small, high or low. The famous Maslow's demand theory is actually another interpretation of human desire. Maslow divided human needs into five levels. He believes that a person's most basic needs are the needs of survival, that is, the needs of food, clothing, housing and transportation, which is the basis for a person to maintain his life. This demand is the same for everyone, and it is also common. Then there are psychological needs, job security, security and satisfaction. Finally, there are higher-level needs such as a sense of accomplishment, value recognition and belonging. This also shows that "the realization of personal value" is a natural demand after people meet some basic needs at a certain stage. Values of life include views on people's internal and external values, as well as views on how to be a man and how to realize personal values. People don't exist in isolation. Everyone is in a certain social relationship and also connected with a certain natural environment. How to be a man is essentially how to treat yourself and how to treat the other three basic relationships that interact with yourself. These three groups of relationships are: relationships with others, relationships with nations and countries, and relationships with the natural environment. The value of human life is realized by dealing with the relationship among oneself, others, nation, country and nature. And I don't think personal value is necessarily related to a person's social class, family background and education level. I remember there was such a news not long ago that Li Xuesheng, a migrant worker from Henan province, gave his life to save Wenzhou children, showing how selfless, how true and how lofty he was! Facing the rolling train and two dying children, can I, you and each of us make a feat like Li Xuesheng? Does everyone have that state of forgetting to die? Li Xuesheng, a migrant worker with a meager income and a poor life, made no earth-shattering achievements before his death, but eventually contributed his life to society! Can this kind of effort be measured by value? With his 37-year-old life, he built an immortal spiritual monument for us to look at and think about. His spirit is priceless and eternal! Therefore, a person's personal value lies in his existence, which can help more people, be more happy and encourage more! How to measure our personal value, I think it all depends on how we measure ourselves and how we look at ourselves. . There is a story: a monk disciple went to consult a very clever master. He followed his master and asked the same question every day: "Master, what is the real value of life?" "Asked the master tired. One day, Master took out a stone from his room and said to him, "Take this stone to the market for sale, but don't really sell it, as long as someone bids. Let's see how much people in the market paid for this stone. " The apprentice took the stone to the market. Some people say that this stone is very big and beautiful, so they bid two dollars. Some people say that this stone can be called thallium, and the bid is ten yuan; As a result, everyone is saying that the highest is only ten dollars. The apprentice happily went back and told the master, "This useless stone can still be sold for ten dollars. It is time to sell it. Master said, "Don't sell it first, then sell it in the gold market. Don't really sell it. Disciple took this stone to the gold market to sell. At first, someone offered 1000 yuan, and the second person offered 1 0000 yuan, and was finally offered10000 yuan. Disciples rushed back to report this incredible result to Master. Master said to him, "Take the stone to the most expensive and top jewelry store for valuation. "The disciple went. The first person offered100,000, but he didn't sell it, so he added 200,000 and 300,000 until the other person got angry and asked him to bid himself. He told the buyer that the master wouldn't let him sell it, so he took the stone back and said to the master, "This stone has already bid hundreds of thousands." The master said, "Yes! I can't teach you the value of life now, because you have always looked at life from the perspective of the market. The value of life should be in a person's mind. Only with the eyes of the best jeweler can you see your true value in life. Our value lies not in the external evaluation, but in the price we set for ourselves. The value of each of us is absolute. Adhere to your lofty values, accept yourself and hone yourself.