Some people think that family background is very important because they care about the influence of family education on a person, which is very important for both boys and girls. If boys pay more attention to the family background of the opposite sex in the present era, it is because family education has given them more cultivation and taste, which are two very important points for girls to increase their aesthetic feeling. The British are very proud and pay the most attention to self-cultivation. The British favorite novels are the Bronte sisters and Jane Austen. Jane Austen has a better family background, but she has a higher opinion of the Bronte sisters. This is what I want to compare. The better the family background, the more I care about the value of this person's honesty, self-confidence and self-esteem. It's a pity that I haven't met a cultured person yet. A cultured person will not care about each other's family background, but will look at each other with heart and see his own value. They don't care how many books you have read, whether you have the same topic, how many countries you have been to and how many scenery you have seen. If you try to do this in order to follow their footsteps, you will only let them overlook the poverty of the world from a height, but this is not what they want to overlook, because you choose to look up first. Vision can be expanded, but mind can't; Taste can be improved, but the mood will not; Life can be better, but the heart can't. A runner can only get the pleasure of running blindly all his life, but he can never feel the happiness of reaching the finish line. Your family background and your connection, whether it exists, how much it exists, what you want and what you don't want-are all your own choices. How many books have you read and how many places have you been-laity will find these things very meaningful and elegant. A truly elegant person will never study to fill his stomach, nor will he feel inferior because he has signed fewer certificates from several countries. It's a pity that laity will never understand this. View original post >>