Girlfriend gambling addiction
How can I save my girlfriend who is addicted to gambling? Last year, my girlfriend lost more than 50 thousand in online lottery gambling. At the beginning of this year, she also invested in a p2p platform in Shenzhen, losing thousands. Just now, he told me that I met someone on a software and joined a group, and then I invested in it. I made 2000 yuan at first, and I have been investing ever since. I didn't have any money, so I cashed in 4.8W with a flower bud [set]. I really want to marry her and discuss marriage during the Chinese New Year. I don't know what to do now. Please stop getting married and don't involve your family. At this moment, your marriage is better to choose slowly. Let's make sure whether she can quit gambling. Whether she can quit this online gambling addiction will determine your family's future economy. Of course, you can't give her up irresponsibly here, can you? For many gamblers, it is not so easy to quit online gambling. Of course, your friends also belong to it. The result of not quitting online gambling is that you are heavily in debt and your family is broken, which is why I hope to get married slowly. Marry an unrepentant gambler, you should understand it yourself, but since you meet such a family, you have an obligation to try to save her, don't you? Judging from your current problems, if you want to solve your problems, you should pay attention to the following problems: First of all, you still want to save this relationship and marry her, so I definitely support this idea. After all, you can't just think that a person who participates in online gambling should be abandoned, not to mention that she is still your family. Since you don't want to give her up, give her help in quitting gambling (I don't mean blind help here, but asking for help) and let her stay away from online gambling as soon as possible, so that you can have a future. Secondly, it is not enough to quit gambling by your own efforts. The focus is still on your girlfriend because she is addicted to gambling. If she doesn't have the consciousness to quit gambling, no matter how hard you try, the result will be in vain. Judging from your friend's gambling behavior again, she hasn't quit gambling yet. You should be prepared for this, and don't feel lost while helping her. Finally, this is your problem. Don't you know what to do? You can put the decision on the issue of quitting gambling. If your girlfriend can quit gambling and correct her mistakes, then you can consider being together; If she can't quit online gambling, or you don't like online gamblers yourself, then give up decisively and there is no need to entangle. Everyone should bear the consequences for his choice, don't you think? My girlfriend is addicted to gambling. Girlfriend is addicted to gambling and heavily in debt. Should I break up with her? Girlfriend is addicted to gambling and heavily in debt. I think you should break up with her, because such a girlfriend is not worth cherishing, and I don't think such a girlfriend is worth liking at all, and I think such a girlfriend has a bad outlook on life and moral character, so I think I must break up with her. I think breaking up with her is a relief for you. If things go well, it will make your stress less. In daily life, many people want to have a very sincere feeling, because many people think that their feelings are very happy, many people think that such feelings are very loving, many people think that such feelings will last for a long time, and many people think that such feelings are worth cherishing, so it is really reasonable to see so many people want to have a very sincere feeling. But I think the most important thing is that when looking for an object, we must see the other person's personality clearly. If the other person has a good personality, then we can be together. But if the other person's character is not very good, then you can directly refuse the other person, so it can be seen that if your girlfriend is addicted to gambling and heavily in debt, you should break up with her. Because this relationship won't last at all. In my world view, if my girlfriend is addicted to gambling and heavily in debt, I think I should break up with her, because I think it is fair for you to do so, and I think it will also depend on what kind of person the other person is. If the situation is good, it will make you more mature and even more rational, so I think if your girlfriend is addicted to gambling and in debt, you should break up with her And I don't think it's necessary to force feelings at all. If you find that the other person doesn't love you at all, it's good for everyone to leave the other person. What's more, I don't think such a girlfriend deserves your love at all. Girlfriend is addicted to gambling. My wife is addicted to gambling. What if she doesn't change her mind? First, ideological inversion and family persuasion. Because he is your wife, and she has a family. Such as mother-in-law, father-in-law, brother-in-law and so on. Starting with her family and relatives, let them do ideological work and try their best to persuade her not to indulge in gambling. And told her the dangers of gambling, such as debt, losing family, losing everything, and committing suicide after gambling. Now there is no reason to return the goods online for 7 days, and all major brands have after-sales service. Although your lover has no reason to return the goods, there is also after-sales service. You got married with a bride price. Now that your wife has a problem, the mother-in-law family has the responsibility and obligation to help you reverse it and convince you ideologically. Although comparing people to commodities is a bit far-fetched, you still did it. Bad language is not bad! Second, cut off her financial resources and confiscate her identity card and bank card. Gambling is nothing more than a matter of money. If there is no money, what will she gamble with? If he has no money, he is expected to stop. At the same time of persuasion, we should also cut off her financial resources, confiscate her identity card and bank card, confiscate her wallet and have cash, and prevent her from lending online. You are her husband, and you have an obligation to take care of her, especially gambling. If you leave her alone, you'll have to help her pay her debts. Also, be sure to take good care of valuable things at home, such as gold and silver jewelry, and don't be pawned or sold by her. People who gamble incorrigibly are terrible and can do anything, so prevention is the first priority. Third, say hello to friends and relatives and don't lend her money. After cutting off her financial resources, she may borrow money from friends and relatives. So you should say hello to all relatives, seven aunts and eight aunts, friends and relatives around you, and don't lend her money, or she will gamble again. If you say hello to the person who lent her money, you don't have to pay it back. Because you said hello before. It's not your fault. Fourth, leave the people who consume you and get divorced. If relatives really can't persuade them, her family can't help it and won't listen to you. If she tries to find money to gamble after cutting off her financial resources, then this person is probably not suitable for you. Then you should have the courage to leave someone who doesn't understand and cherish you. If you have tried all the above methods, you have worked hard. But if you can't change the reality, forget it and go your separate ways. In this way, it's still good for you, otherwise you will be dragged down by her. Whether he gambles in reality or online. All the above methods can be tried. I hope those who are addicted to gambling will turn back as soon as possible. Get together with your family at an early date and build a beautiful family together. Small gambling is pleasant, big gambling is harmful, please don't indulge in gambling. Live a healthy life and stay away from gambling. Cherish life and stay away from gambling and online gambling.