If you want children to learn to be grateful, you should give them more opportunities, give them the best example and love them in the right way. -Little deer mother has a saying that parents are still struggling, but children are showing off poetry and distance.

How many mothers have worked hard to raise their children, but the children are not grateful at all. Because maternal love is too selfless, the child has become a selfish baiwenhang. In order for children to learn to be grateful, it is very important for their mothers to teach by example. These four kinds of mothers are doomed to fail to raise grateful children.

Too doting and responsive. As the lyrics say: "The favored one has nothing to hide." The same is true of children's love. Excessive doting will only make children take their mother's efforts for granted, cover them up by coquetry, and even push their luck. Some people say that the easiest way to destroy a child is to obey him, which is exactly what a friend said. A friend's son often starts with a small meal and reaches for his clothes. If he wants something, he will get it.

Recently, many people even want a racing toy of several thousand yuan, just because they see their classmates showing off. My friend realized that he had spoiled his children too much in the past, so he gave him such vanity, so he was cruel and refused to let him buy it.

Unexpectedly, the child not only didn't blame her for being stingy, but even said such chilling words as "I can't even afford a racing car, so why should I be my mother".

Out of love for her children, mothers always try their best to satisfy their children, but they are too eager to respond and make them take it as an obligation. In this way, children will not thank us for all our satisfaction, and occasionally they will be disgusted. The phrase "Mom doesn't like to eat, you eat" contains countless mothers' selfless love for their children, but don't forget that the more selfless the mother is, the more selfish the child is.

The poorer you raise yourself and the richer you raise your children, the less gratitude you will get from your children, because mothers are used to sacrifice and children are used to enjoying, and gradually children will feel that all their efforts are taken for granted. Last week, the school asked me to take my children to the movies. When I left the cinema, I saw a mother sitting on the side of the road with a scarf in her hand. When I saw the child coming out, I quickly greeted her, asked her if she was cold, and put a scarf around her.

Speaking of it, I have seen many such scenes: my daughter spends money like water in the mall, but my mother behind her is dressed simply; My son uses the latest iPhone, and my mother uses an outdated old mobile phone. The children hold their heads high in front, but the mothers are dragging their luggage behind them ... I wonder if these selfless mothers are a little sad to see the innocent pride on their children's faces?

Many mothers leave the best for their children, but they are always reluctant to spend their own money In the end, they not only failed to raise their children, but also contributed their "deserved". Blind sacrifice is not the wisest love. The real enrichment is to make children grateful.