1. Children's personal needs are very important. Parents should respect their children's personal needs, interests and potentials. In the process of educating children, we should be good at discovering their advantages and potentials, and encourage them to play their own advantages. In addition, children should be given certain autonomy, learn according to their hobbies, and realize the exploration and promotion of self-worth.

2. Establish good communication and trust. In the process of children's growth, we should communicate in time and establish a good trust relationship with children. As parents, don't be too strong, don't let yourself go, but treat your children with equal respect and let them feel the care and support of their parents.

3. Appropriate encouragement and guidance is necessary. Encouragement and guidance are very important aspects in family education, which can help children to enhance their self-confidence and form a sense of self-affirmation and values. In addition, parents can also guide their children through extracurricular activities and let them learn more knowledge and skills.

Punishment should be clear and severe, but also moderate. As a means of family education, punishment is not only the punishment for children's faults, but also the education of children's behavior norms and values. When punishing, parents should be clear about the object of punishment and stand firm, but at the same time, they should be moderate and not punish their children too severely.

Parents should be role models. Many ideas and values of children in the process of growing up are learned from home, so it is very important for parents to be role models for their children. Parents should pay attention to their own behaviors and words, set an example, let children feel the correct values and behavior norms, and realize parents' education for their children.

Generally speaking, family education is a very important and meticulous matter, which requires parents to invest a lot of time and energy. Parents need to keep learning and strive to improve and perfect their family education methods so that their children can get better development and growth.