This is a seemingly ordinary but extremely unusual title.
Speaking Beijing dialect, humming Beijing rhyme, and telling some past events in Beijing are all superficial efforts. If you look at it from the bones, there are probably not many proud people, but they are sincere and enthusiastic about their relatives and friends, and they respect filial piety for their elders and parents, inheriting and embodying Chinese cultural traditions. And this character can be called great old Beijing.
Mr Hao Jinming is a real old Beijing!
Successful in career, but extremely modest.
Sincerity, boldness, enthusiasm and atmosphere.
This is the first time to meet Mr. Hao Jinming and the impression he left on us.
He didn't talk high-profile about the glory of his life, nor did he talk proudly about his career achievements.
Our conversation is like a gurgling stream-pure and sweet.
Hao Jinming talks about filial piety.
He said earnestly: among all virtues, filial piety is the first, and filial piety is an excellent moral character that every Chinese descendant must inherit. I did it myself, which is what I should do; Doing better is a promotion of moral filial piety and a contribution to society.
He said that filial piety has three major responsibilities. One is to carry on the family line, which is also the continuation of life. As the saying goes, there are three kinds of unfilial, and the last one is the biggest. Since ancient times, human beings have relied on the continuation and evolution of life. For us personally, our parents gave us life. Facing the roles of wife and husband, it is our unshirkable responsibility to carry on the family line and meet the wishes of the elderly. The second is to repay kindness. Crows feed back, lambs kneel and milk. Livestock can still do this, let alone human beings, the soul of all things. Parents gave us life, nurtured us, and gave us a happy marriage and a happy little family. So, how can we repay the four elders when they are getting old? I will answer, that is filial piety! Filial piety is an old prefix above and a word below. In other words, as children, we have the responsibility to support and nurture the elderly and make them happy and healthy. Respect for the elderly is a special attitude towards the elderly, with awe and reverence, to make the elderly satisfied, smooth, obedient and centered on the elderly. This is filial piety. The third is dealing with people. A friend said that making friends depends on whether the other person is filial to the elderly. He said, can a person who is not filial to his parents still be loyal to his friends? In fact, the truth is so simple, benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith. Without the support of filial piety, everything will be false and stale. Parents are our foundation. How to treat parents is our behavior to show the excellent quality of our family, and it is also a thermometer for the outside world to know us. Being kind to parents and treating others sincerely should be the most basic qualities of children and people with lofty ideals in the world.
Hao Jinming talks about parents.
"The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop, and the child wants to raise it, but not kiss it ..." Hao Jinming murmured, with tears in his eyes and deep affection for homesickness, looking forward, as if approaching the depths of his memory.
He lit a cigarette and gently spit out a wisp, and our thoughts slowly entered Hao Jinming's memory. ...
Hao Jinming lost his father when he was a child. In his memory, his father is just a legend in his mother's mouth. In his mother's rambling conversation, he learned that his father was upright, chivalrous and versatile. ...
He said that his father's character is like a flashing beacon, which illuminates his direction in the ocean of his life and becomes an example for him to do things.
Like * * * and other peers in China, Hao Jinming's family was poor when he was a child. As long as he can remember, his mother seems to have never slept, and her eyes seem to be full of busy figures.
Hao Jinming has six sisters. Is he old? His mother takes special care of him, and his brothers and sisters also protect him. But his family was poor and gave birth to a dutiful son. Although Hao Jinming was spoiled by his family, he still felt the influence of his mother and appreciated the kindness and happiness. ...
We always have such an established picture in front of us:
Mother and children were having dinner in the yard when a voice came from outside the door: "Sister-in-law, please give me some buns ..."
Mother broke half a bun, looked at the children, big and small, and hesitated whether to give it. Old Yao Hao Jinming took half a bun from her mother and ran out to give it to a beggar outside.
The beggar touched Hao Jinming's head and said, "This child must be promising when he grows up!"
Hao Jinming said, "If you don't have enough to eat, I'll get you another piece."
Later, Hao Jinming grew up, but her mother was old.
Hao Jinming has many sisters and doesn't have many opportunities to honor her mother. Only visit her on holidays or when going to work, or have a meal to make her laugh.
Later, Hao Jinming made money, and he was responsible for his mother's living expenses. Although he has three sisters and two brothers, he always thinks it is right for them to work hard to make money and let them earn more.
After 2000, Hao Jinming was often seen in front of her mother's door with her daughter-in-law and son, carrying clothes for her mother and exchanging fruits or cakes. It turned out that Hao Jinming's mother was paralyzed and lying in a hospital bed. He took the lead in setting an example, staying with his wife and several children day and night, taking turns to take care of them.
Every Saturday, there is always a song floating in my mother's room. It turned out that Hao Jinming was singing for my mother with her daughter-in-law and son.
Eldest brother Hao Jinming snuggled up to his mother's chest like a child, and his elderly mother held Jin Ming. At this time, no one spoke, everyone closed their eyes and quietly enjoyed the purest feelings in the world.
Later, Hao Jinming said that snuggling in her mother's arms was the most practical thing in her heart.
In 2004, when her mother left, Hao Jinming did not cry, but silently held her hand and walked the last journey. ...
Hao Jinming talks about her parents-in-law
In-laws are excellent * * * party member! They directly affect my life and work.
This is the impression that two old people gave Hao Jinming.
My father-in-law is an old soldier and my mother-in-law is an old policeman. After retirement, they live in the home of retired military cadres, but Hao Jinming, who is getting rich gradually, can't live in his own mansion. For the happiness of the old people in their later years, he would rather live with them for more than 20 years, no matter what outsiders say.
My father-in-law left in 2007, aged 90.
His father-in-law participated in the state discussion of the Republic of * * before his retirement and had a successful career. He was clean all his life and remained uncorrupted.
For Hao Jinming, his father-in-law is both a predecessor and a teacher, which not only exerts a subtle influence on Hao Jinming, but also inculcates him. Before he was 80, he was in good health and didn't want to bother others with anything, including washing clothes and moving things. After the age of 80, I can't take care of myself for physical reasons, such as taking a bath and washing my feet.
One day, Hao Jinming took her father-in-law to the bathhouse and took a bath together in the big pool in the hazy white fog. Hao Jinming picked up a bath towel and took a bath for her father-in-law. The old man's body is obviously stiff. Then, he stopped being silent, closed his eyes and enjoyed the service of his son-in-law silently. ...
The old man's body was scarred by swords and guns, as if silently telling the story of years of artillery fire and hard struggle. Hao Jinming is a strong man, and he can't help shivering. It took Hao Jinming nearly an hour to take a bath.
Since then, the old man has opened his heart to Hao Jinming and is willing to talk to Hao Jinming about everything.
When Hao Jinming became a member of Beijing CPPCC for the first time, he happily reported to his father-in-law with a sacred membership card: "Father, I have made progress! You see ... "The old man happily took the certificate, looked at it and touched it as if he had got it. Later, the old man's smile gradually disappeared. He said solemnly to Hao Jinming, "Jin Ming, from today on, everything you say and do must be consistent with this certificate. Don't spend too much time at home to pay New Year greetings to my old man in the future. Be a man. The real filial piety should be to serve the party and the country more and repay the society with gratitude, especially the Beijingers and the whole Chinese nation! "
Hao Jinming instantly put away his smile and said solemnly and respectfully to the old man, "Dad, I will do it!"
Hao Jinming said, this sentence to now, I still feel heavy. Since then, he has worked as a member of the Standing Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, vice chairman of the Quyi Artists Association, vice chairman of the Federation of Industry and Commerce, worked in the literary and art circles, filmed film actors, and wrote and filmed the TV series "Under the Gate of Zhengyang". This sentence of the old man has been reminding me that my words and deeds should be consistent with the identity of a CPPCC member. I will remember this sentence all my life and benefit from it all my life. It seems to be an ordinary sentence, but it is unusual to actually do it and stick to it. If you do this, you can always make progress, you can always make progress. This should be said to be the man and man in the eyes of the old father-in-law. This level can also be said to be the level of the elderly. I later educated my children. In this way, I always wanted to pass on these excellent traditions and virtues.
Referring to her mother-in-law, Hao Jinming saw an animation: at 7: 30 in the morning, an old lady in her 90 s knocked on the door with a serious face and shouted, "Hurry up, go to work!"
It turns out that my mother-in-law is an old policeman. After years of strict training, she has developed a good habit of going to work on time. She wakes us up every day, prepares breakfast for us, calculates the distance and time for us to go to work, and then urges us to leave within the set time. Decades are like a day.
Although the old lady lives a rigorous life, she has a wide range of interests. Since she retired, she has always liked writing and drawing, and she has always insisted on it. Later, her works also participated in the painting and calligraphy exhibition of the Olympic Games and published her own album. The old lady not only insisted on writing and drawing by herself, but also bought us pens and paper so that we could practice writing together. When you see my good writing, praise me!
The old lady used to do party work in the public security organs. Every time I make progress, she will take the initiative to chat with me. The content of the conversation is all the requirements of the party. But one thing moved me. She said that we * * * in party member are fighting for the world and for the people to live a happy life. Now, our life is carefree, but many families still face various difficulties. Jin Ming, you are very promising now and have your own career. Have the opportunity to do good again and help those who are in trouble and need help!
These words are simple, but very touching. In fact, Hao Jinming did this quietly a long time ago. In his early years, he adopted a disabled son and helped many families in need. Not long ago, he was awarded the caring person award by Qu Zheng Love Foundation for supporting two children with congenital heart disease. For more than ten years, in order to avoid the loss of national cultural relics and antiques abroad to the greatest extent, he has done his best to protect and collect cultural relics and antiques. It can be said that he has experienced many hardships, invested a lot of wealth in research and collected many rare treasures. He took the lead in establishing a standardized, elegant and magnificent Shangyunxuan Museum in Beijing. In order to help children with leukemia all the time, he even donated all the tickets for 20 yuan to the Yun Xuan Museum which he invested in, and donated them directly to the Red Cross.
Hao Jinming said that positive energy makes everyone's heart better. It is our duty to help children. It is our responsibility to be grateful and care for the society and care for more people around us who need help. This is the conscience that every living and capable person should have. If more capable people have this responsibility and conscience, society will be better.
Good filial piety supports the family and virtuous filial piety manages the family. Hao Jinming can respect and be filial to the elderly, connect with them spiritually, and do what a man should do. On the ideological and moral level, he has made a series of endless touching stories of ordinary people who "worry about the world first, and enjoy the world later", which is really a good example that we should learn.