I had a special feeling when I first met Chen Tao. At that time, we all worked in the hospital. Chen Tao is my colleague. He is not tall, with small eyes, but full of wisdom. He exudes the charm and elegance of a mature man. Also wearing overalls, Chen Tao's clothes are always the cleanest and closest. He has a calm bearing in everything he does, and he will do himself well.
Often working in an air-conditioned room, the skin will inevitably become dry. Once I copied the manuscript and pulled out a large stack of copy paper, but I didn't expect to use too much force. White paper cut across my skin like a knife, and deep red blood came out. Chen Tao happened to pass by, immediately took out a handkerchief from his pocket and wiped it for me, and then carefully bandaged it for me. Although the packaging is very good, I still feel sweet when I look at Chen Tao who is usually capable, and sometimes I feel at a loss. In this era, men still use handkerchiefs. He must be a homesick man.
Then there was a spark between us. After communication, I found that Chen Tao is really a very careful person. He always knows my thoughts in time. Once I went shopping and saw a necklace, but it was too expensive for me to buy. I didn't expect that necklace to shine in front of me on my birthday. I know the salary in Chen Tao is not very high either. What is there to worry about when a person is so selfless? On that day, I really felt that I was the luckiest person in the world and met a man who loved me so much. Later, we got married, and a year later, I gave birth to a son.
After marriage, Chen Tao has been a good husband and father. He also did a good job and was promoted to deputy director of surgery within two years. My work has always been mediocre, so I study harder to do housework and take good care of him. I ironed all his clothes carefully, including handkerchiefs. My son grows up day by day, lively and lovely, and our family is harmonious, warm and sweet. I often think that it is a very happy thing for a woman to keep such a home all her life.
My husband resigned and started a company.
Until three years ago, Chen Tao was promoted to department director, leaving a vacancy. His ability is obvious to all, and his promotion is welcome. Chen Tao is a shoo-in, full of confidence. However, half a month later, the list of candidates came down, but it was not Chen Tao. Chen Tao didn't say a word when he came back. He tossed and turned at night and couldn't sleep. I'm really worried that he can't stand it. But the next day, he still went to work in high spirits and didn't see loneliness at all. I thought he had figured it out, but in the next few days, Chen Tao was very busy and worked late every day. I have a feeling that he has any plans, but he said that the time is not yet ripe, so let's talk about it later.
Sure enough, a month later, Chen Tao said to me with longing: "During this time, I made a market survey, and the real estate market in Xuzhou has a lot of space. If I become a real estate agent, I will definitely have a bright future, so I decided to resign and go all out. " I am a traditional woman and don't want my husband to lose his golden rice bowl. Chen Tao and I have our differences on this matter. In spite of my stop, he began to rent a business building to recruit people. He works hard every day and always falls asleep when he comes back. There is less and less communication between us, and I sympathize with him. I always help him stew some soup for his health.
Chen Tao said that the company was overwhelmed and wanted to hire another reliable person to manage its internal affairs. I immediately thought of Qin Fang, a good friend who grew up together. She just went through a failed marriage some time ago, which made her a little disheartened. I asked her to come to the company to help, and she quickly agreed, saying that she just wanted to change her environment and mood.
Qin Fang was very capable and soon managed the company in good order. Chen Tao often praises her in front of me. I'm also glad that I can finally help my husband. Within a year, Chen Tao's company developed rapidly. Many troubles and Chen Tao's efforts were not in vain. With the east wind of real estate, his intermediary is also in full swing. A year later, he became a millionaire. When he drove back to his first Mercedes, he solemnly said to me, "Wei, don't go to work." Be a full-time wife at home. I like the feeling of a woman cooking at home and waiting for me to come back. "Although my job doesn't make much money, I don't want to give up easily, but after seeing Chen Tao's efforts, I also want to help him better. So I reluctantly quit my job and did housework at home all day.
My best friend became a third party.
I seldom go to the company, but one day, when I was visiting Carrefour, I stopped by the company. When I opened the door of Chen Tao's office, I saw that Qin Fang and Chen Tao were very close. As soon as I came in, they separated immediately and looked embarrassed. An idea flashed through my mind, but I immediately denied it. How can I doubt my dearest person and best friend?
I didn't take it to heart, but before long, it spread all over the world, and I realized that everything I didn't want to see really happened. I was very angry. I never thought that Qin Fang would become a bomb between me and Chen Tao. My best friend is actually with my husband. I always thought it was just a TV drama plot. When it really appeared in my life, I was at a loss and couldn't accept this reality.
It is said that men become bad when they have money, but I never believe that Chen Tao is such a person. When I asked Chen Tao why his face was full of tears, he said nothing but asked me to forgive him with a guilty face. I can't help asking Qin Fang out. She said calmly in her eyes, "I have prepared for the worst." No matter how much you scold me, I won't retaliate. This is the price that people who love a married man should pay. "I cried indignantly," why do you want to be a third party? Have you forgotten how you lost your happiness? " Qin Fang said with tears, "I haven't forgotten, but I can't help myself." I slapped Qin Fang hysterically. The next day, Qin Fang left the company.
A few days later, Chen Tao bought me the most fashionable diamond ring, but I didn't look at it. I am not a material woman. I just want a husband who loves me. If Chen Tao doesn't love me anymore, what's the point of keeping these gold jewels? I waited for Chen Tao to give me a reasonable explanation, but he didn't say anything.
After five years of marriage, I feel I don't know him anymore. I am disappointed in Chen Tao's betrayal. I always thought I had a husband who loved me deeply, but I didn't expect this to be just a dream of Conan. I even thought about divorce, but the thought of my son softened my heart. I don't want him to face a broken family so early. I want to restore Chen Tao's heart with tenderness, but whenever I think about what happened between him and Qin Fang, there is nothing I can do. We gradually fell into the cold war, and Chen Tao gave up on himself and turned a deaf ear to the company.
The third party makes me feel a little sympathetic.
They all say that "flowers are not red for a hundred days." At the beginning of this year, Chen Tao accountant absconded with money, and the internal management was chaotic. His former friend refused to lend him money to turn around, and his career was in a serious crisis. I see it in my eyes and worry about it in my heart, but there is nothing I can do. But things were soon settled. It is said that someone transferred a large sum of money to the company. I don't know who helped him so kindly. Later, I found out that Qin Fang was secretly helping Chen Tao!
When I found Qin Fang again, she was lying on the balcony basking in the sun, her stomach slightly bulging. I asked her if she wanted to make up with Chen Tao through the company. She said, "Career is Chen Tao's whole life. Without it, he is finished. Don't worry, I won't pester him again. I found a person who loves me deeply, a person with flesh and blood. " I believe. After the company's economy returned to normal, I put the money into Qin Fang's account, thinking that there would be no more disputes. My feelings with Chen Tao are warming up gradually, but we can't go back to the past after all. We are much more polite and strange.
Not long ago, I met Qin Fang in the park. She pushed her children for a walk on the grass. I happened to find that the child's forehead looked like Chen Tao's, so I couldn't help asking if she was Chen Tao's child. She tried to hide it at first, but finally admitted it. Qin Fang said, "I never wanted to divorce Chen Tao. I don't want to ruin your original harmony, but I really can't help falling in love with him. When I divorced my ex-husband, I regretted not leaving children. When I left Chen Tao, I was ecstatic to find that I had his child. I just want to have a child that belongs to me when I am old. Don't worry, Chen Tao doesn't know he exists. "
I was shocked when I heard Qin Fang's words. I always thought that Qin Fang liked Chen Tao only because she was lonely for a while. I didn't expect her to love him so much. At that moment, I found that I didn't hate her as much as I thought, but I felt some sympathy for her and her children. After all, he is innocent. He was born under more pressure than other children.
When I came back, I asked Chen Tao if he really loved Qin Fang. This time, he didn't shy away, and finally admitted that he had real feelings for her, but it was all over. His excited appearance proves that he still loves Qin Fang. I don't know whether I should leave quietly, let him go back to Qin Fang, and let the children in Qin Fang have a legal father. My family said I was crazy. How can I give my husband to a third party? But what's the point of keeping a husband who doesn't love himself anymore?
I want to tell Wei that it is your freedom and right to give up this marriage. Being on a talk show shows that you still want to save your marriage. In this case, we should try our best to adjust our emotional state of mind, actively adjust our role, and find back our disappointment. The repaired wedding boat can still sail for a long time.
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