Xiaomi is a gentle girl, her parents are retired workers, and her family conditions are still very good.
Xiaomi went to get a haircut after graduating from junior high school.
I have studied hairdressing for two years and opened a hairdressing shop. I earn as much money as people who work in this small county, and the income is very good.
Xiaomi's boyfriend is a teacher. His family conditions are not very good, and his parents are local farmers. They have no other income except farming, and they haven't saved much money in a year.
Generally speaking, everyone with a quota will find a married person with a quota, but Xiao _ has found Xiaomi, because they are ordinary high school students and have already started to fall in love in the third year of high school.
What is the reason why my husband won't coax you after a quarrel? Now Xiao _ has entered the quota and Xiaomi has a successful career. Although Xiaomi _ has published his works, from all aspects, the standard is not worse than Xiao _.
Moreover, Xiaomi has bought a suite and the down payment has been paid.
Both parents are looking forward to their marriage as soon as possible, so that they can have their little grandson or nephew.
But just as they were busy planning to get married, Xiaomi felt that he had married Xiao _ as if something was wrong. How to deal with a husband who doesn't lie?
Getting married has always been complicated. They need to buy some clothes and trousers, some furniture and book restaurants. There are many trivial things.
In order not to delay work, I went out shopping on Saturday and Sunday, and I was busy for a month or two from beginning to end, but I haven't been assigned yet.
Xiaomi took a fancy to a ring in a jewelry store and spent more than 5 thousand. She asked Xiao _ to go shopping with her.
Xiao _ said, "I'll give you 6000 yuan. You'd better buy it yourself. If you like evening dresses, including wedding dresses, you can buy them yourself, including the hotel restaurant we want to book for our wedding. Let's decide together. I am busy teaching here, I really don't care. "
Xiaomi said, "It's not just a diamond ring, there are other things. We have to negotiate to buy it, not just me. I can't hold on to so many bags in a big shopping mall. Even if you are busy at work, we still need to get married. Can't you take a day or two off for such a big thing? "
Xiao _ said: "People on vacation just don't understand the hardships of working people. Everyone has attendance management every month. Where can I take frequent vacations? "
Xiaomi said: "Where have you seen this kind of marriage application, only girls do it?" You have to attend, it's like being married! "
Xiao _ said, "Why not? What do you ladies do? What are you doing with so many things? "
That's it. They had a fight. How to deal with a husband who doesn't lie?
Xiaomi feels very wronged.
Generally speaking, this time should be a very sweet situation for two people who are about to get married, but she and Xiao _ have been quarreling with each other recently, and they still haven't made her happy as usual.
Think about it. From the third year of high school to now, the relationship between them has been calculated for a long time. But every quarrel is a compromise between Xiaomi and Xiao _ never coaxed her.
When Xiao _ was in college, they quarreled. Xiaomi learned to put down what he was doing and go to the big city where Xiao _ belongs to give them gifts to cheer him up.
In the past five years, the two have quarreled many times. Every time it's Xiaomi, Xiaomi doesn't feel anything.
But now Xiao _ is indifferent to the key thing of marriage, and Xiaomi feels a little abnormal. Xiaomi lost his temper with him, and he felt quite wronged.
Xiaomi decided not to coax him this time.
Xiaomi thought he was a girl, and then his heart was broken. If you can't marry Xiao _, she will coax him for life, right?
You have fooled yourself. Who will coax you if you are unhappy and wronged?
Girls must look like girls, that is, if they are tenacious, why die?
They confronted each other for a week, and Xiao _ didn't even return a phone call.
Xiaomi feels quite chilling.
She thought she was used to it again and again, but Xiao _ never compromised. There is only one reason. He doesn't love himself enough.
If you don't love enough, it's not as good as parting as soon as possible. Although in a small county, everyone thinks it is good to marry someone with a quota, but in fact, they are not rare for the quota of boyfriends.
Although the diploma is not high, from the day she graduated from junior high school, Xiaomi gradually prepared to use boys in advance, not to mention that her own hair salon is doing very well, and her annual income is much higher than that of Xiao _. What is the reason why she is so humble before him?
But after all, they have been dating for years. Speaking of breaking up, Xiaomi really feels very uncomfortable. She decided to take a gamble: give Xiao _ 10 days _, and if Xiao _ can go back and coax her once in this 10 day _, she will forgive.
However, if Xiao _ doesn't want to lower her head as before in this 10 day, then _ she decides to break up.
But on the day of 1 1, Xiao _ or _ contacted her.
Xiaomi, I finally understand that Xiao doesn't love her enough.
Xiaomi and Xiao _ sent WeChat saying "Break up. We have been dating for five years. I don't owe you, and you don't owe me. In the future, everyone will live well and take care of themselves. "
Sent a WeChat, Xiaomi added Xiao _ to the blacklist, and then cried bitterly.
In love, most of the boys who have been unwilling to bow their heads and deceive people don't love you enough.
People who really love you will attach great importance to your experience. No matter whether you are right or wrong, he will always cheer you up first, and then let you tell who is right or wrong.
For you, he is afraid of hurting you, and he refuses to make you feel bad.
What is the reason why my husband won't coax you after a quarrel? How much a boy loves you, you will understand after a quarrel. If a woman wants to get married, she must marry someone who can spoil you. She doesn't pursue how handsome he is, but she must know how to spoil you.