What do you mean, "If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight"? The crown is gorgeous, made of pure gold or sterling silver, inlaid with various gems. Therefore, the weight of the crown will not be too light. The crown of St. Edward in England weighs 2.2 kilograms. The weight of the crown is not only the weight of physical attributes, but also the weight in the abstract sense. At the same time, the crown is also a symbol of power. The greater the power, the greater the responsibility. From the moment you put on the crown, a great responsibility is on you.
What do you mean, "If you want to hold a rose, you have to bear its harm"? Roses are prickly, with erect or curved pale yellow thorns on their stems. If you don't handle roses, you will prick your hand if you are not careful. The rose mentioned here refers to the untreated thorny rose. If you want to hold the beauty of roses in your hand, it is inevitable that your hand will be punctured.
"If you want to wear a crown, you must bear the weight. If you want to hold a rose, you must bear the injury." It also shows that everything has two sides, and you can get it if you give up. Only by taking responsibility and the weight of the crown can you wear a gorgeous crown symbolizing power; Only when you are stabbed by a rose can you hold this beauty in your hand.
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"If you want to wear its crown, you must bear its weight" comes from the west.
Proverb: "The man wearing a crown is heavy."
Shakespeare's "Henry IV" also mentioned this point: "The head wearing a crown can't sleep well."
In China, we also have similar ancient prose and sayings.
Ancient prose: It's your crown and shoes, but you forgot your head and feet. -"Huai Nan Zi Tai Xun"
As the saying goes, if you want to benefit, you will suffer.