Matters needing attention on the anniversary of the death of a wife: 1 Flower burial weather: refers to the season when flowers fall in late spring, roughly in May of the lunar calendar. It not only shows the season, but also implies the death of his wife, just like a flower withering. Night platform: refers to the grave. Hairpin agreement: Hairpins are "golden hairpin" and "hairpin", which are women's ornaments. It implies the vows between lovers. 4 "heavy spring" sentence: heavy spring means "yellow spring" and "nine springs", which means the difference between life and death; Pisces, letters, classical ancient Yuefu. 5 "Endure listening" sentence: the string of the neck, that is, the string of the neck drum and musical instrument. Legend has it that Shun's concubine drowned in Hunan water and later became a water god. In ancient poetry, the harp is often used to refer to husband and wife. Here, he can't bear to play the strings of sadness, otherwise it will arouse mourning.
Appreciation of the Golden Melody of the Memorial Day of the Dead Woman. The first poem is the representative work of the author's eulogy. Lu, a good wife, returned to China at the age of 18. She was deeply in love and died three years later. "Anti-emotion dust table is regarded as a floating cloud; If you caress your boudoir, you will keep running. In his death, there were many lamentations, especially the hatred of bosom friends. " (Zhou Duwen and Feng Tong's "A Brief Study on the Epitaph of Mrs. Nalan Chengde's Lu", the fourth series of Ci studies) There are as many as 40 mourning poems by Nalan Xingde, all of which are full of blood and tears and crazy words. This word is especially called swan song. Words are written from the empty stage, flowers are buried in midsummer, which hurts the feeling of spring mourning; In addition, the night platform is far away, and there is no news, so that the next life is difficult, the feelings are progressive, and finally despair. This life is over, and the afterlife is over? The whole word is mixed with truth and falsehood, with real and imaginary scenes, what you see and think, and vivid past events are closely related to mysterious thoughts. What connects all this is the sincere feelings of the "bosom friend" couple who feel "the world is boring", which can span life and death and time and space.
Thus, Nalan's ci is "sad and stubborn" and "unreadable".
Yan Comments: Nalanxing Dexu died at the age of 32 and was 24 when he died. Writing this "Jin Lu Qu" was a sacrifice for three years, and five years later he himself was "buried". After Lu's death, he actually became his second wife, but the desire to "get a bosom friend" and the feeling of "being tasteless in the world" almost seized his heart in recent ten years. There is a line in the poet's poem "picking mulberry seeds and singing snowflakes" that "it is not a rich flower in the world" This frightening heart sound can be said to be a concentrated expression of the soul's discomfort and uneasiness. The death of Lu, a confidante, deepened his rejection and rebellion against the "world". The key point of the sad melody of Three-Year Sacrifice is that "the material is also boring." To say "I have feelings" means that my dead wife agrees that she has a sense of knowing her feelings, which is definitely a feeling of "bosom friend", thus strengthening her desire to have another life. Nalan's painstaking thought of writing-driving began with the transformation of the corresponding points of "dream" and "awakening". Is it a "dream" or "wake up" after three years of soul? It's a long dream to wake up! So it's not a dream. He came here to "wake up", to get rid of it, and to realize that "the world is boring". In this way, the living are in a "dream", while the dead are completely awake! Writing such a stupid language is only painful and profound. In the last part, the pity for the dead wife is paraphrased from "It's not as good as an evening performance", and it's hard to understand that you have made an appointment to throw it away, blaming yourself and others. So I started the next article "Heart Sacrifice". The sentences of "He gave birth" and "Fate", the crazy words, the heartbroken feelings, and the inner monologue beyond the overflow of time and space are really thrilling to read and unbearable to look back. Is it a hint or an epiphany that a dead woman "wants to talk to her bosom friend in Yuen Long year after year" when her tears run out? During the Jiaqing period, the poet Yang Fangcan said in Nalan's Preface that his words were "faint in rhyme and suspicious of immortals, thinking of secluded places and approaching ghosts", which can be described as a model of the latter sentence. The so-called "calm down and think" actually means that the poet combines pursuit and loss without painting the pain. (Yan, editor-in-chief of Yuan, Ming and Qing Ci, Tiandi Publishing House, 1997, p. 188)
Wang Appreciation: This is a eulogy written on May 30th, 19th year of Kangxi (1680), which is the third anniversary of the death of his wife Lu. At this time, Nalanxingde was twenty-six years old. Xu wrote NaLanJun epitaph, sexual virtue "with Lushi, the governor of Guangdong and Guangxi, the minister of war, the daughter of Douchayuan, all of whom were imperial advisers and ancestors, and gave them to Shu people, so you died first. According to the epitaph of the Nala Lu family unearthed in 1977, the Lu family belongs to ... 18-year-old Chengde. Kangxi died on May 30th, 16th year, and gave birth to a son, Liang Hai. Lu was 20 years old when he married Nalan Xingde, and died three years after marriage. However, his husband and wife are deeply in love, and today's "Drinking Water Words" occupies a large space. Nalan Xingde grew up in a wealthy family, a boy who was a peacemaker and a son of Wuyi. The loss of his wife made him taste the bitterness of life. This "Golden Melody" is a masterpiece among mourning works.
The word popped up: "When did this hatred ever happen?" "This is a rhetorical question that turns Li Zhiyi's" When will this water stop and this hatred stop "in" BuOperator "into a sentence, which expresses the poet's deep and endless grief over the death of Lu. Since Lu's death, Nalan Xingde has never stopped thinking about her. He hates being married for three years and becoming eternal, full of joy and sorrow; I hate people who leave and meet again for no reason. On the anniversary of my wife's death, this sadness and hatred increased. The words "dripping empty stairs, resting in cold and rainy days, and burying flowers" further highlight the environmental atmosphere of mourning. The sentence "dripping empty ladder" was translated into the meaning of the sentence in "more leaking". The warm word says, "The third rain of the phoenix tree. If you don't leave your feelings, you will suffer. A leaf, a sound, empty footsteps fall into the light. "People who can clearly hear the empty tread of residual raindrops after the patter of rain stops must be depressed. Wen Feiqing is suffering from the pain of leaving his lover, while Nalan Rongruo is suffering from the pain of losing his wife. The pain of death is naturally far from leaving, so his bitterness is even worse. The deceased woman died on May 30th of the lunar calendar. It was already summer, and most of the blooming flowers had withered, so it was called "flower burial weather". There are two words to pay attention to here: one is called "cold weather" on summer nights, which is not caused by natural weather, but by the feeling of loneliness and desolation; Secondly, the poet does not mean "falling flowers", but "burying flowers". Because of the non-prosodic restriction, "burying" and "falling" are the same. When a person dies, it is called "burial", and the word "burial" is more suitable for Lu's death. A beautiful wife as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade, like a fallen flower, is "smashed into mud and crushed into ashes". Today's "flower burial weather" is the "human burial weather" three years ago. My wife died three years ago, which seems like a big dream, but if it was a dream, I should have woken up long ago. People who are shocked by bad news often have some doubts about reality when they are sad, hoping that they are in a dream. No matter how unpleasant the scene in the dream is, it disappears when you wake up. But what about those who dream every three years? The bitter reality forced the poet to face it squarely. There is no doubt about my wife's death. What made her leave me without nostalgia for life on earth? The poet imagined: "I also think the world is boring." This sentence left an intriguing question for later readers. Why did Lu die? Why does she feel "tasteless"? Lu's husband only married her for three years after her death. Why did he leave so many mourning works? The epitaph unearthed in Lu today is so small (although exquisite, it doesn't match her status as the eldest daughter of the Prime Minister? ) "It's not as cold as the night dust, it's a place to bury your worries." Instead of being separated from the world by a handful of loess, it is better to bury your heart. The night platform is the grave. Bury one's own sorrow, also refers to the cemetery. Lushi was buried in Tunzuju Village, Yuhe Zaoshi. The phrase "Chai Yue made a promise and abandoned it" comes from your own pain, saying that you gave up because you thought the world was boring, but you ignored our oath to live forever and left me alone. In ancient times, couples often used hairpins as a symbol of their loyalty to love. Chai is one of the ancient female jewelry, which is a double piece, cymbals, that is, golden flowers. It is a jewel inlaid with jewels, and it is also composed of two pieces. The author of the last film deeply misses his dead wife. After the film, you can imagine the life after Lu's death, which makes the memory of the deceased more profound.
At the beginning of the next movie, the poet wants to know what happened after Lu died. This is, of course, based on the premise that there will be ghosts after death. This is also due to the limitations of the times, and the poet's sincerity is not unreasonable. "Heavy springs have Pisces to send it. I know him very well. Who have you relied on these years? " "Chongquan", that is, Yellow Spring and Jiuquan, is commonly known as the underworld. Pisces refers to letters. There is a saying, "Guests from afar leave me a pair of carp." Ask the child to cook carp, there is a book in it. Later, the world used double carp to refer to letters. If you can communicate with your wife who died in the grave, you must ask her whether her life has been bitter or happy in recent years and with whom. This is caused by the association of love before death. The poet also said in two other mourning poems entitled "Qinyuanchun": "Remember that when the embroidered couch is idle, it blows red rain; The carved fence bends and leans against the sunset. He also said, "I remember you best. I was so charming that I cut the silver lamp and poured myself tea. "From loving life before death to caring about life after death, love can be described as deep into the bone marrow. The poet tossed and turned all night and couldn't sleep. I want to entertain myself by paying attention to Qin Xiang, but I can't bear to listen to its voice, because it is the relic of my dead wife. Seeing things and thinking about people will only play the role of "raising a glass to dispel worries" and "drawing a sword and cutting off water", which will not help. Xiang Xian originally refers to ChristianRandPhillips's piano. There is a saying in Gu Zhenguan's "Picking Mulberry Seeds": "Flowers bloom and flowers fall, the piano is still in the east room, ... lonely and cool, and the moonlight is like a dream. "It can be seen that Lushi is in Japan, and the couple often manage Dong Room Qin. Guanqin is playing the piano. It is difficult to send a message, so the poet can't bear to play the piano, so he has to hope that he can become a bosom friend with her in the next life. According to Ye Shuchong's "Lu Epitaph", after his wife died, "there were a lot of mourning songs, especially the grievances of bosom friends." "The poet not only regards Lu as a relative, but also regards him as a close friend, which is extremely rare under the feudal marriage system. The poet's wish of "making a bosom friend" is still afraid that it won't come true: "I'm also afraid that both of them will be unlucky, and then it will become a common practice." The poet even worried that the two were unlucky, and the couple in the afterlife would not last long. Fate means less fate; If there is no wind in the month, the good times will not last long. Reading this can't help but make people cry. After three years of marriage, the separation of life and death is enough to make people feel sad and look forward to the afterlife. Isn't this a cruel reality? Under the feudal system, marriage is not based on love, so there are few happy couples, and one or two rare loving couples are often separated by natural disasters and man-made disasters. Many spoony men and women have to die for each other for ghosts and ghosts. It is an improvement for poets to expect to make friends again in the afterlife. However, I know there is no hope, so the ending sentence of "clear tears, confetti" is particularly sad.
Poetry: Golden Song "Thoughts on the Death of a Dead Woman" Author: The poems of Nalan Xingde in Qing Dynasty are divided into three categories: mourning, hurting spring and missing.